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Depending on your physical activities (exercise) will determine how fast or slow your body processes your daily calorie intake. Weight Loss takes a while (sometimes 2 weeks to 2 months) before real progress can be seen. The trick to it is to not give up. Continue towards your goal weight. Remember, if done properly, you will only have to do it once then maintain a healthy lifestyle.
Also, it's not healthy to watch "fat hating videos". All that does is cause you to have an unconscious dislike towards your own appearance, causing a psychosomatic block against your progress. Your mind will start blaming your body and then you will have discord causing self doubt and hindering any progress you have already made which might result in a reversal of your efforts.
Just maintain positiveness.