Broken and Torn

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

My boyfriend and I just broke up. He was lying to me for a long ass time about various things. And soon I found out that it could be all times. So now I am going to move in with one of my friends for a couple weeks. From then on, I have no clue as to what will happen. I am glad I am out of this relationship but I feel so depressed right now. I keep crying off and on. Although the future is unknown, I still have a job. I really need some advice or someone to talk to right now. And I know my mom is going to take my ex's side when i finally tell her we broke up. If I am not happy in the relationship then I shouldnt be in it. She should know that, but her like for my ex is too strong. And I havent felt likeing eating during the day either. I feel so alone and brittle. The only true friends I have ever known are those I've met at City Club. I love all my friends and I would appreciate someone to talk to.

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm sorry to read this, as breaking up is always painful. Even if it's you leaving them. When I left my ex, it hurt. But I had to do it for my own sanity. People take sides. Sometimes, they take the wrong side. You'll get through it, though. Just know that you've made the right decision for yourself.

*hugs*

[creatureofthenyte]

It's better to be alone then in bad company. You have to look out for you because no one else will. I'm sorry to see that this happened to you, but that which does not kill you can only make you stronger...

Good luck :-)

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Thanks. I know this is for the better, believe me!! My last relationship was worse than this one. You'd think I'd learn by now. I appreciate you guys taking the time to right back.

[Homicidalheathen]

[Steven]

...but that which does not kill you can only make you stronger...

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a terrible misconception this is....

because many times "that which does not kill" you hunts you down everywhere you run until it finally does (kill you).

unless of course, you make a couple of changes.....

our ability to painfully repeat ourselves is uncanny.

the ones that break out, claim ownership of their lives.

[Scary Guy]

Might be a misconception but it's one of those things you just say to try to make a situation seem like it isn't as bad as it really is.

Althought I'm not saying this situation is bad by any means. I'm just stating a fact.

The reason for the depression is because after being with a certain person for some time they kind of grow to become a part of you. Each person adapts a bit to fit the needs and personality of the other. Losing that is like losing a part of yourself, makes you feel lost with no direction etc...

The best thing for you to do is go out with other friends and cheer yourself up. Put him completely out of your mind and the depression should disappear.

[Nienna]

I'm in the same boat. Come to City this weekend and wear waterproof eye makeup and we'll have a pow-wow. *hugs*

[n0Mad]

I'm in the same boat. Come to City this weekend and wear waterproof eye makeup and we'll have a pow-wow. *hugs*

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Aww. I have to work Saturday night but I'm available Friday night after my play is over with. Are you going to be at CC then?

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Aww.  I have to work Saturday night but I'm available Friday night after my play is over with.  Are you going to be at CC then?

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I wont be at City on Friday cuz I have to work from 7pm to 2am that night. But I am going Saturday night. I dont get off until 11:30pm so I prolly wont get there until almost 1am.

[bean]

Relationships are tough, and knowing when to end one when it has gone sour takes strength (it took me 2 years to realize that my marriage was over and I've only recently gotten the courage to file for divorce). Just know that you did the right thing and that your life will fall back into place. Any time you want to talk, feel free..I'll be at City on Saturday.

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Relationships are tough, and knowing when to end one when it has gone sour takes strength (it took me 2 years to realize that my marriage was over and I've only recently gotten the courage to file for divorce).  Just know that you did the right thing and that your life will fall back into place.  Any time you want to talk, feel free..I'll be at City on Saturday.

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Thanks babydoll. You've always been good to me. I hope yur doing okay, too.