Do men like bitches?

[Homicidalheathen]

I am not talking about the psycho bitches who burn your clothes and sleep with your best friend right before breaking up with you.

The strong, independent women who don't take any crap and are in charge of their lives and do whatever it takes to get what they want.

Or do you prefer a quiet....mousey girl who doesn't know what she wants or how to stick up for herself? Some guys like to be in control and actually may prefer a passive woman. Or someone who is quiet and shy and more laid back.

So I am asking the darkest of all guys........the black souled goths.......males (or females who are butch)

Do you prefer 'bitches'???

This article refers to Angelina Jolie as one such woman and suggests maybe that is why Brad is chasing after her.

I like to think I am a mix of both.....in just the right doses......I just need to attune more to when it is the right time to be a bitch and when to keep my mouth shut.....hee hee!

[Brenda Starrr]

The strong, independent women who don't take any crap and are in charge of their lives and do whatever it takes to get what they want.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I know I'm not a guy, but I'm answering this anyway......

Wayne seems to like it. For the first time, I'm the one in control of my own life. When he first met me, I was the mousey one. I was afraid of everything. It took me years to find out who I really am.

He's been there just about every step of the way. And he likes it.

[kellygrrrrrl]

I'm coming into my own.....

I've been pretty mousy.....up until maybe a couple of years ago....

I just started to get tired of taking so much crap, I've grown some tiny balls.....

RUFF RUFF RUFF Grooowwwwwllll RUFF RUFF!

[torn asunder]

RUFF RUFF RUFF Grooowwwwwllll RUFF RUFF!

:laughing :laughing

it really depends, honestly - both can be attractive, and both have their up- and down- sides... i don't really know which i prefer, tho... :innocent

[DJ Nocker]

My girlfriend is, but I love her to death, she isnt a pricy little thing, she can kick some ass. She went through boot camp for the army and after that she doesnt take shit.

example. I got into a fight at a dope show a couple weeks ago, but before it broke out my girlfriend asked what was going on. After I told her, instead of staying out of it, or trying to talk me out of it, i had to hold her back, lol. i ended up knocking the guy out in 2 hits though so it was uneventful...

but yea my girl doesnt take shit. It rocks.

[The_Dark]

Depends on the mood of the moment... sometimes the wife is the bitch in charge... othertimes she's a shy little school girl... wait.... Your not talking about in the bedroom....

[torn asunder]

Depends on the mood of the moment... sometimes the wife is the bitch in charge... othertimes she's a shy little school girl... wait.... Your not talking about in the bedroom....

actually, i was...

:laughing

[Head Wreck]

independant thinking speaking and acting women rock.

i want a person to share life with, not a shadow

[phee]

I don't really care if they are "bitches" or "nonbitches" if they are nice to me... that's all I really need.... as far as what I would prefer mousey can be bad/good, and bitchy can be bad/good

[Steven]

Put it this way, things take some time, and there needs to be growth for something to last. It means the relationship is going somewhere.

I like an indipendent woman, who can think on her feet and stand on her decisions. At the same time, I want to be consulted on big choices so that I can be in partnership. Actually, talk to me about the little stuff too if you'd like - but give me a chance to catch my breath and rest a bit first so that you have my attention in full, because I DO care, but I'm also wiped out, so just give me a minute. Damn.

I'm not a big fan of the "I am woman hear me roar" flag constantly waving, but I do definately have deep respect for women. I just think, that if you are who you say you are, then just be who you are. Stop telling me about it, let me see it and acknowledge it on my own, trust me I will.

I love a thinker, but not an overprocessor who cannot make a decision.

I love also love passion and fire, but not without logic.

So give me a combination of the two and you've got me.

And please ..... rememeber that I am a man, I process like a man, think like man, talk like a man, etc. So give me that degree of respect, because respect in the end is really just a bi-product of placing value in me, and vice versa.

And don't lose your womanliness you women. Despite what we might say or communicate, we need that balance that you bring to the table. We lack your intuition and creativity. We lack your empathy. We lack your ability to maintain strength and conviction in a long term sense. We lack your grace and tact. And the simple beauty that you bring to everything keeps us going during hard times.

[Msterbeau]

Put it this way, things take some time, and there needs to be growth for something to last.  It means the relationship is going somewhere.

I like an indipendent woman, who can think on her feet and stand on her decisions.  At the same time, I want to be consulted on big choices so that I can be in partnership.  Actually, talk to me about the little stuff too if you'd like - but give me a chance to catch my breath and rest a bit first so that you have my attention in full, because I DO care, but I'm also wiped out, so just give me a minute.  Damn.

I'm not a big fan of the "I am woman hear me roar" flag constantly waving, but I do definately have deep respect for women.  I just think, that if you are who you say you are, then just be who you are.  Stop telling me about it, let me see it and acknowledge it on my own, trust me I will. 

I love a thinker, but not an overprocessor who cannot make a decision.

I love also love passion and fire, but not without logic.

So give me a combination of the two and you've got me.

And please ..... rememeber that I am a man, I process like a man, think like man, talk like a man, etc.  So give me that degree of respect, because respect in the end is really just a bi-product of placing value in me, and vice versa. 

And don't lose your womanliness you women.  Despite what we might say or communicate, we need that balance that you bring to the table.  We lack your intuition and creativity.  We lack your empathy.  We lack your ability to maintain strength and conviction in a long term sense.  We lack your grace and tact.  And the simple beauty that you bring to everything keeps us going during hard times.

Word.

[ManicQueen]

I like bitches.. I like bitches alot.

[pharoh]

I like a woman who knows what she wants, will depend on herself, but also will not be afraid to ask for help. I want someone thats 50/50. If she's a bitch to me, the she's gotta go, most of ya know my past relationship with the demon cunt from the seventh layer of hell, so I won't tolerate that lol. Any takers?

[Head Wreck]

could be worse.

you could have had some of mine

[Guest Megalicious]

I don't love bitches, bitches love me ...

[saechalyn]

The bitches love me cause they know that I can rock

[Guest Megalicious]

The bitches love cause they know that I can Rhyme ....

[Blackmail]

The bitches love cause they know that I can Rhyme ....

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

did someone say rhyme?

was this a challenge?

must......not......threadjack

[Msterbeau]

did someone say rhyme? 

was this a challenge?

must......not......threadjack

Behave or I'll unleash a rhyming bitch to haunt your dreams.

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Put it this way, things take some time, and there needs to be growth for something to last.  It means the relationship is going somewhere.

I like an indipendent woman, who can think on her feet and stand on her decisions.  At the same time, I want to be consulted on big choices so that I can be in partnership.  Actually, talk to me about the little stuff too if you'd like - but give me a chance to catch my breath and rest a bit first so that you have my attention in full, because I DO care, but I'm also wiped out, so just give me a minute.  Damn.

I'm not a big fan of the "I am woman hear me roar" flag constantly waving, but I do definately have deep respect for women.  I just think, that if you are who you say you are, then just be who you are.  Stop telling me about it, let me see it and acknowledge it on my own, trust me I will. 

I love a thinker, but not an overprocessor who cannot make a decision.

I love also love passion and fire, but not without logic.

So give me a combination of the two and you've got me.

And please ..... rememeber that I am a man, I process like a man, think like man, talk like a man, etc.  So give me that degree of respect, because respect in the end is really just a bi-product of placing value in me, and vice versa. 

And don't lose your womanliness you women.  Despite what we might say or communicate, we need that balance that you bring to the table.  We lack your intuition and creativity.  We lack your empathy.  We lack your ability to maintain strength and conviction in a long term sense.  We lack your grace and tact.  And the simple beauty that you bring to everything keeps us going during hard times.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Wow......just......wow.........

[torn asunder]

We lack your intuition and creativity.  We lack your empathy.  We lack your ability to maintain strength and conviction in a long term sense.  We lack your grace and tact.  And the simple beauty that you bring to everything keeps us going during hard times.

you know, i liked most of this post, until the above quote - and i didn't dislike that, i just disagree with it, as it relates to me...

but i guess that's only as it relates to me, so i could have just kept it to myself, couldn't i!? :laughing

sorry... :whistling

[BrassFusion]

you know, i liked most of this post, until the above quote - and i didn't dislike that, i just disagree with it, as it relates to me...

but i guess that's only as it relates to me, so i could have just kept it to myself, couldn't i!?  :laughing 

sorry...  :whistling 

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I agree with your disagreement. I don't want to pull the "Sexism" card here, but that's really what it is. The words of a straight man when describing women. =)

I believe that most people have equal potential to be what we refer to as "masculine" or "feminine." It's all in how you present yourself and how you're comfortable acting. I act rather masculine, but I try to preserve the feminine side that guys like Steven so admire about us chickladies. Everyone's capable of finding a balance like that.

[Steven]

I agree with your disagreement. I don't want to pull the "Sexism" card here, but that's really what it is. The words of a straight man when describing women. =)

I believe that most people have equal potential to be what we refer to as "masculine" or "feminine." It's all in how you present yourself and how you're comfortable acting. I act rather masculine, but I try to preserve the feminine side that guys like Steven so admire about us chickladies. Everyone's capable of finding a balance like that.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

you guys crack me up.

wish I could be a fly on the wall if you ever get married.

and damn, not she's gone and called me a straight man.....thank you.

[BrassFusion]

you guys crack me up.

wish I could be a fly on the wall if you ever get married.

and damn, not she's gone and called me a straight man.....thank you.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

"TA, do you promise to love, honor, and obey?"

"*trembling* Okay!"

"And Brass, do you promise to feed him occassionally?"

"Whatever."

"You are now Wommon and slave. You may kiss the... oh wait, where'd he go?"

Ed: Pretty sure I spelled Wommon wrong the first time

[Daevion]

I like bitches....especially when they get out there and make daddy some money