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[Scary Guy]

21 minutes ago, TronRP said:

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I do see that you are steadfast in your honor of Troy's memory, but you might make members uncomfortable lumping them all together as there are many who have never met him.

 

Although Troy did start this forum, please be mindful that people are here for a variety of reasons.

 

Thank you for your understanding.

 

Also some specifically because now he's gone and they feel safe to return.

Some say that it's not good to speak ill of the dead, but I also really don't believe in distorting history.  I do wish a lot of things had happened differently, as did he.

 

As I've said before he was a complicated man.

[TronRP]

1 hour ago, Scary Guy said:

 

Also some specifically because now he's gone and they feel safe to return.

Some say that it's not good to speak ill of the dead, but I also really don't believe in distorting history.  I do wish a lot of things had happened differently, as did he.

 

As I've said before he was a complicated man.

~~~~~

Yes, I was trying to handle this with decorum as what you have stated has had prior mention.

[TronRP]

2 hours ago, Scary Guy said:

 

Also some specifically because now he's gone and they feel safe to return.

Some say that it's not good to speak ill of the dead, but I also really don't believe in distorting history.  I do wish a lot of things had happened differently, as did he.

 

As I've said before he was a complicated man.

 

48 minutes ago, TronRP said:

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Yes, I was trying to handle this with decorum as what you have stated has had prior mention.

~~~~~

Unless you quoted the wrong post...

[Scary Guy]

1 hour ago, TronRP said:

 

~~~~~

Unless you quoted the wrong post...

I never quote the wrong post, except when I do.

 

But that time was not this time, and if I did I'd edit it.

 

I don't do tact, I don't dance around things, and I wanted those who have had issues to feel seen, safe, and welcomed.  I think with some it's going to take a while to build up that feeling again even if he is gone.

[TronRP]

42 minutes ago, Scary Guy said:

I never quote the wrong post, except when I do.

 

But that time was not this time, and if I did I'd edit it.

 

I don't do tact, I don't dance around things, and I wanted those who have had issues to feel seen, safe, and welcomed.  I think with some it's going to take a while to build up that feeling again even if he is gone.

~~~~~

OK, but I was addressing my concern of it being stated that everyone was being seen as being here in memorandum to Troy.  

 

I only asked because I already know all of this.  I wasn't sure if you knew if gwen was aware of this as she made the comment.

So you are preaching to the choir as I've been here for the entire situation; the exodus, the passing and the return.

 

But yes, I do tend to beat around the bush so as to soften the blow.  I don't do emotion trampling very well.  However, I am not adverse to being direct when the situation calls for it.  Therefore, I was confused as to why your comment was directed at me for knowing how everyone felt already. 

 

As admin, I also have a duty to make sure everyone feels welcomed.  So it is not my place to attack, trample or stump unless as a last result and only when specific boundaries have been crossed.

 

But thank you for reiterating the information in case you felt I was not already informed.

[Scary Guy]

1 minute ago, TronRP said:

~~~~~

OK, but I was addressing my concern of it being stated that everyone was being seen as being here in memorandum to Troy.  

 

I only asked because I already know all of this.  I wasn't sure if you knew if gwen was aware of this as she made the comment.

So you are preaching to the choir as I've been here for the entire situation; the exodus, the passing and the return.

 

But yes, I do tend to beat around the bush so as to soften the blow.  I don't do emotion trampling very well.  However, I am not adverse to being direct when the situation calls for it.  Therefore, I was confused as to why your comment was directed at me for knowing how everyone felt already. 

 

As admin, I also have a duty to make sure everyone feels welcomed.  So it is not my place to attack, trample or stump unless as a last result and only when specific boundaries have been crossed.

 

But thank you for reiterating the information in case you felt I was not already informed.

 

Quoting you isn't necessarily replying to you, it's merely giving context to others who may read.  I know both you and @gwen were informed.  Sorry for any confusion.

[TronRP]

Just now, Scary Guy said:

 

Quoting you isn't necessarily replying to you, it's merely giving context to others who may read.  I know both you and @gwen were informed.  Sorry for any confusion.

~~~~~

This in particular is a bit of a touchy situation because some things get misunderstood when they come across as generalized.

 

This just happened to be one of those situations where comments were very specifically directed due to comments made.

 

That is all.

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[gwen]

that steven urenda guy is in oregon now

lost touch with him yrs ago

good guy, albeit very pushy on beliefs...

looks like he bounced around out west for awhile..

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