Dgn Crushes?

[know_buddy_kares]

I have a thing for girls that like me. A BIG thing for girls that like me.

Same here, I'm just too dense to ever notice if someone likes me or not..

and too shy to ever approach someone who supposedly likes me.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

Same here, I'm just too dense to ever notice if someone likes me or not..

and too shy to ever approach someone who supposedly likes me.

Yeah they pretty much have to do the same to me. Bonk me on the head and be like HEY YOU DUNCE! I LIKE YOU OK??? YOU LIKE ME OR NO??

If its not clear like that i just go read a book or something instead lol.

[know_buddy_kares]

Yeah they pretty much have to do the same to me. Bonk me on the head and be like HEY YOU DUNCE! I LIKE YOU OK??? YOU LIKE ME OR NO??

If its not clear like that i just go read a book or something instead lol.

I know how you feel, they should realize guys are practically blind and stupid when it comes to "those hints" they give...

It's not that we're not interested ladies, it's just we're pretty much fuckin clueless? Help us out!!!! BE BLUNT!! HAHAHAHA.

[creatureofthenyte]

I know how you feel, they should realize guys are practically blind and stupid when it comes to "those hints" they give...

It's not that we're not interested ladies, it's just we're pretty much fuckin clueless? Help us out!!!! BE BLUNT!! HAHAHAHA.

I know this is a very bold idea, but if more people OPENED THEIR MOUTHS and made their feelings known, there would be alot less confusion and hassle. Neither men, nor women are mind readers.

Yeah yeah, I know, a possible reply to this could be : "but Brian,(thats me) its just not that easy".

To which I would retort, "Yes it bloody is that easy!!" lol

[Shade Everdark]

I know this is a very bold idea, but if more people OPENED THEIR MOUTHS and made their feelings known, there would be alot less confusion and hassle. Neither men, nor women are mind readers.

Yeah yeah, I know, a possible reply to this could be : "but Brian,(thats me) its just not that easy".

To which I would retort, "Yes it bloody is that easy!!" lol

It's not a matter of difficulty or ease.

It's the whole matter of that possibility of rejection.

[creatureofthenyte]

It's not a matter of difficulty or ease.

It's the whole matter of that possibility of rejection.

Agreed.

I should listen to myself sometimes.

But, if you don't risk failure, you won't succeed.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

Yeah i think a lot of us "know" we should try to communicate what we want more, but the actual process of doing that, and the angst associated with it makes it much easier said than done.

Also, somethings we want can be seen as "ignorant" or "rude" by people that don't understand or misinterprate (or hell maybe they are even right about us) so we don't always feel comfortable voicing our desires.

[creatureofthenyte]

very true. Good point Troy.

[know_buddy_kares]

Yeah i think a lot of us "know" we should try to communicate what we want more, but the actual process of doing that, and the angst associated with it makes it much easier said than done.

Also, somethings we want can be seen as "ignorant" or "rude" by people that don't understand or misinterprate (or hell maybe they are even right about us) so we don't always feel comfortable voicing our desires.

Very good point, however even when meeting someone, and feeling that nervous akwardness and stumbling around my words, i still try to tell it like i normally view it.. in other words, stay myself. I don't wanna change who I am and put on an act, they'll get that eventually, so best let em see me for what i'm like now....

I COULD make a list and list specific names of everyone I've a crush on here... but that would be singling people out and I dunno if most of em got boyfriends or not... misenterpretations as troy said... i don't like drama, and I do have the knack of saying just the prefectly wrong things sometimes lmao...

...though this one chick last night... drunk i was... told her she's so hot i wanted to get her pregnant...

...now she's not leaving me alone... wtf?!

[Shade Everdark]

Agreed.

I should listen to myself sometimes.

But, if you don't risk failure, you won't succeed.

It's much easier, much safer, to not bother trying.

[Msterbeau]

I had a crush on Shade. But then the cute redhead showed up....

[creatureofthenyte]

It's much easier, much safer, to not bother trying.

Well,

speaking for myself only,

I can accept failure,

but I can't accept not trying.

Now,

finding someone who seems to be worth taking that risk on, That is a needle in a, unfortunately, very well kept haystack.

[Brenda Starrr]

I had a crush on Shade. But then the cute redhead showed up....

*snort*

She was eally nice, too. But Jeff thought I put her up to telling him that I'd look hot with a Monroe....

[Shade Everdark]

*snort*

She was eally nice, too. But Jeff thought I put her up to telling him that I'd look hot with a Monroe....

Do not underestimate the power of a cute redhead.

Um, or a blonde.

Or a brunette.

[Brenda Starrr]

Do not underestimate the power of a cute redhead.

Um, or a blonde.

Or a brunette.

Yeah, but knowing that I want a Monroe, he thought I asked her to say something. It didn't work. I must not be hot enough a blonde....

[Msterbeau]

By the way. The redhead didn't work out. Reality did not match phone call chemistry. Next please!!!

[saechalyn]

I know this is a very bold idea, but if more people OPENED THEIR MOUTHS and made their feelings known, there would be alot less confusion and hassle. Neither men, nor women are mind readers.

Yeah yeah, I know, a possible reply to this could be : "but Brian,(thats me) its just not that easy".

To which I would retort, "Yes it bloody is that easy!!" lol

That's very true. I wish more people would open their damn mouths, I am sick of hearing about how so and so wanted me years, months, or several states later.

I've learned to say what I feel, eventually, even though it might take me a while. Not that it ever gets me anywhere, but that's a post for the pity party thread.

[know_buddy_kares]

That's very true. I wish more people would open their damn mouths, I am sick of hearing about how so and so wanted me years, months, or several states later.

I've learned to say what I feel, eventually, even though it might take me a while. Not that it ever gets me anywhere, but that's a post for the pity party thread.

Ok you asked for it.. you... yes.....

YOU....

are one of the people I have a crush on..

lol wut?

[bean]

I'm crushing your heads....

glad I got that off my chest

[Brenda Starrr]

By the way. The redhead didn't work out. Reality did not match phone call chemistry. Next please!!!

Awww. Sorry, but I'm taken.

I'm crushing your heads....

glad I got that off my chest

LOL.....me too!

[Msterbeau]

Awww. Sorry, but I'm taken.

Jeff should wake you up. You're dreaming again.

[Rayne]

Awww. Sorry, but I'm taken.

Me too.

LOL, sorry, I had to say it - I couldn't help it.

[Msterbeau]

Me too.

LOL, sorry, I had to say it - I couldn't help it.

Both of you should lay off whatever your drinking...

[Rayne]

Both of you should lay off whatever your drinking...

Maybe I've had too much Mountain Dew.

*shakes head*

No, wait, this is my first one ...

[Nienna]

I've kinda decided that I will be terminally single... for life. Just me and my cat, boldly facing each trial.. together.