Destroit Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I guess these things do happen... In good news, you will all see me at CC massively from now on because of it. So be happy for that. Threw away 6 years of being his best friend. That's the part I regret the most. It would have been a year in March for our relationship, but we just couldn't make it. ....I need hugz...plz?
creatureofthenyte Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 (((Hugs))) Sorry to hear about this Cher, You're still uber young though, so you have massive amounts of time to make somethin happen. But right now, would be good for focusing on you, recharging yer batteries an havin fun. Keep yer head up...
SuZQZ Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 *HUGZ* for you both. I can't even form words to state how badly I feel.
Destroit Posted February 11, 2008 Author Posted February 11, 2008 My God... 7pm...he just left. Offically. Gone. For forever. And Ever. And Ever. I'm not going to sit here and be a whiney emo bitch any longer and ruin the rest of your guys' evenings since I love you like you were my childrens, but I have one last thing to say: You guys need to give me massive hugs and dry leg humpins at DGN bowling night...and possibly cookies. Chernobyl loves her cookies. *siiiigh* I'm gonna go depress other people in the non-internet realm. Night guys. I heartfeltedly mean it when I say that I really appreciate your virtual hugs and obvious support, for both of us (Raven's also not doing too good, as you can imagine...)
Homicidalheathen Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I hope someday you two can repair the freindship part. Sorry about this....I am sure Mr right is out there someplace.
Nienna Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Have faith. You may be friends again someday. *hugs*
Dirtywhispers Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Keep your head up darlin and just be proud of bein you
Morbid Side Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I had such high hopes for you and him. I guess these things just happened when you least expect them to. Then again, I know how I'm still having a clusterfuck of a time dealing with my own..
TygerLili Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Aww.... to both of you. You may be able to salvage the friendship once you've had some time apart to think about things. People seem to think going from having a relationship to being just friends happens overnight. It doesn't, unless the feelings were never there to begin with. Cher, we're kinda in the same boat now. Wanna go party?
Troy Spiral (13) Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Awe geeze. That is a shame. I somehow had it in my mind things would work out forever for you guys. I know what you mean about losing your best friend. I've often tended to avoid relationships with people i felt were good friends out of fear that if it didn't work out, I'd lose not only a girlfriend but also a friend in the process. When it does happens its especially depressing. *hugs*
Bernadette Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Ouch... that's rough. (Hug!) Had no idea breakups were in the air -- Time does heal. Since I have to work during DGN bowling, will catch up with you soon. Take care o' you. B.
hunhee Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 *BIG HUGS* to you Cher, and to RAVEN. I agree, friendship doesn't come right away, it takes a while for hurt feelings to mend, and a bit of forgivness to enter into the mix (on both sides). It may take a month, it may take a year, but if the friendship was there before, you should be able to salvage a friendship out of it. It just takes a bit of maturity. Good luck to you both.
Kit Kat P Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I'm sorry cher, I hope that you guys can reconcile your friendship down the road.
Nevar (5) Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 i'm sorry to say it took a horrible break-up to finaly address the issues at hand and to start comunicating, but i'm happy to say were back together with a better understanding of each other, and like all relationships they'll always be bumps in the road and things to work out.
Onyx Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 i'm sorry to say it took a horrible break-up to finaly address the issues at hand and to start comunicating,but i'm happy to say were back together with a better understanding of each other, and like all relationships they'll always be bumps in the road and things to work out. I am happy to hear you two are working things out! Relationships can be complicated, and communication is really the key. So many people don't take the time and miss out on that closeness. It can be so worth it, and a lot of the time things can get even better.
DeadBurgerKing (10) Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 So...who's got the pinata to celebrate? :D
Hellion Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 i'm sorry to say it took a horrible break-up to finaly address the issues at hand and to start comunicating,but i'm happy to say were back together with a better understanding of each other, and like all relationships they'll always be bumps in the road and things to work out. Awesome! you two are both good friends of mine so I still will have to be Switzerland(neutral) glad things are getting better for both of you.
Homicidalheathen Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 i'm sorry to say it took a horrible break-up to finaly address the issues at hand and to start comunicating,but i'm happy to say were back together with a better understanding of each other, and like all relationships they'll always be bumps in the road and things to work out.
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