Who Here Is Single

[Joey Deadcat]

People, maybe ya didn't hear us the first time:

Really feeling like an anomaly here as I'm not looking nor is the interest there, on my part, in ever hooking up again. I'm just not starving for affection, y'know? Just not feeling it.

Something I'd noticed on here is that several folks seem to dive headfirst into things just for the sake of being with someone only for things to turn sour and end up in regrets. Is being single really that unbearable for folks? It just seems that people are too eager to give up personal space and peace of mind for short-term conveniences. One could come across as needy and clingy feeling that way.

Indulge and marvel in the things that make you you, laugh,stick your, poke, pick, and prod at the absurdities of life, dance about when it suits you, lift those rocks, see what's behind those doors, enjoy spontaneity...

And if, throughout all this, you end up eye to eye/nose to nose with someone evokes those lost childhood feelings, forgotten dreams, those things you always wished were real, and values you still hold dear and they also happen to feel just as much then have a go at it.

Finding "that someone" should never be a top priority.

and (via Chernobyl)

Single people! Quit being shy and actually ask people, hardly anything comes from inaction. I keep seeing posts like "maybe there's something wrong with me" or "I'm shy" kinda stuff, but unless you're walking around in the club with a bright neon sign that says "Genitals have vacancy" you won't get ANYWHERE. Or unless maybe a psychic happens to be there and reads your mind. I never feel bad for single people that bitch about being single but won't approach the opposite (or same, if that's how you swing) sex.

[StormKnight (1)]

...but unless you're walking around in the club with a bright neon sign that says "Genitals have vacancy" you won't get ANYWHERE...

Maybe I should do that.

It beats putting estimated annual income up there in neon.

[prick]

Lots of opportunitiesa popping up so I may not be for long.

[candyman]

Still...

I fear my mistrust and near animosity towards women is close to its peak...it is not that I am not meeting anyone it is that fact that I keep meeting them and it turns to complete shit. I am starting to think that the stereotype that men are the ones that do one night stands or just use a girl for fun for a few weeks is suffering from a large bias due to many unreported cases by men who get the same treatment...

[TitsMcGee]

saw this today & loved it!

hey that's my past love life!

Single and time to slowly move forward...very slowly

[StormKnight (1)]

saw this today & loved it!

Win.

[kat (1)]

Went to doc tried to get something for my nerves today but the doc told me to go get a boyfriend instead (wish filling an RX for love was that easy, though). WTF? True story.

Edited March 5, 2011 by kat

[TitsMcGee]

Went to doc tried to get something for my nerves today but the doc told me to go get a boyfriend instead (wish filling an RX for love was that easy, though). WTF? True story.

seriously?

[kat (1)]

seriously?

Yup, no bullshit. I was like what kind of doc don't try and first shove pills at you? Well, not this one. LOL

[prick]

Wasnt single yesterday. I am today. As for tomorrow, who knows.

[Joey Deadcat]

[Rev.Reverence]

Went to doc tried to get something for my nerves today but the doc told me to go get a boyfriend instead (wish filling an RX for love was that easy, though). WTF? True story.

...yup.....that's what REV told you, like a year or so ago.....noone wants to hear REV being right....

[kat (1)]

...yup.....that's what REV told you, like a year or so ago.....noone wants to hear REV being right....

I know, right:)

[Rev.Reverence]

I know, right:)

[shewolf1321]

still open but now all men are not fun. They are mean, and not fun.

[littlepinkkitty]

yeah i agree men can be inconsiderate. All the ones i like are. It seems i am never worth a text back or a fucking phone call. It hurts too much to date so i don't do it anymore. I have come to realize that men don't care....they just simply don't. feelings don't matter, I don't get stalkerish or anything and i still get blown off,,,,, every fucking time with no explanation. Being single maybe lonely at times but its better then the pain of dating.

[littlepinkkitty]

got stood up i just wanna cry forever i hate this

[Musashi]

Yeah. Being stood up sucks. The last like....6 girls I was supposed to hang out with stood me up. Except the most recent. That one showed up. Only to ditch me after I bought her a couple drinks.......

[prick]

Still single and still looking.

[victoriavengeance (1)]

went on a really nice date this past weekend....

[Tyger]

Not no more.

[torn asunder]

I have come to realize that men don't care....they just simply don't.

men care... it's boys that don't.

[Destroit]

I have come to realize that men don't care....they just simply don't.

Yeeeeah...but historically women care much less. If we cared about the other party (and not just ourselves) we would just enjoy sex and casual relationships instead of feeling the need to snag people into a lifetime commit. Just my view. Sorry, you have been having bad luck with men, maybe aim at a different demographic? Maybe you are attracted to the type that ends up being destructive to you. Who knows, but one thing is for certain: You only have yourself to care about in this world, the goal is to find someone who you know can leave anytime, but you enjoy them while they're here :.

Hang in there! :

Yeeeeah...but historically women care much less. If we did we cared about the other party (and not just ourselves) we would just enjoy sex and casual relationships instead of feeling the need to snag people into a lifetime commit. Just my view. Sorry, you have been having bad luck with men, maybe aim at a different demographic? Maybe you are attracted to the type that ends up being destructive to you. Who knows, but one thing is for certain: You only have yourself to care about in this world, the goal is to find someone who you know can leave anytime, but you enjoy them while they're here :.

Hang in there! :

Edited March 27, 2011 by Chernobyl

[kat (1)]

I need someone right now... not being codependent but damn sometimes we all need a person who has our back, someone to hold you when shit is bad, good, ugly, etc...and, although, there may be alot there is alot that I lack, I feel like what I have to offer a person would be what they lack and that would be a balance between the two of us in the end. "It's like the song, Leather and Lace by Stevie Nicks and Don Henley, when she says "give to me your leather, take from me my lace", (yeah it works on more ways than just a sexual level )

Edited March 27, 2011 by kat

[candyman]

Me and I am done...I just can't take this bullshit anymore. I withstood cheating, lying, having my property destroyed...but this shit takes the cake and call me sexist but I don't really trust women anymore.