Very Disturbing Drama

[Miranda]

Have you ever done this?

1. Been a friend with a person you were once romantically linked to and then you are no longer together but have tried to maintain the "friendship"?

2. Noticed that this "person" likes to play games when the mood strikes them?

3. Person seeks out your company when "they" may need it? I.e there fiance` is at work or in class.

4. Kept it non sexual and low key, meaning just light banter in your conversations, nothing sexual. Yet. "they" keep taking it there.

I've known this guy for about 7 years, probably more but I'm not speaking to him any longer. I've already deleted him from my messenger over a month ago yet I still get messages with: "Are you there?", when I sign back on. I think it may be time to put on my bitch beret. I have already let this asshole have it about his behavior and he doesn't learn. Any comments?

[Homicidalheathen]

Sounds like someone be trying to keep you 'on the back burner' in case girl friend doesn't work out...

[Miranda]

Sounds like someone be trying to keep you 'on the back burner' in case girl friend doesn't work out...

LOl.. I hope he is past this notion. Not going to happen. One chance is all you get here. I'm not anyone's pacifier.

[sass_in_the_pants]

Does the bitch beret match your snotty pants?

If so, I suggest wearing both.

[EnViOuSPoPpEt]

Some men just don't understand the whole phrase "It's over".

They seem to think when you state that it's over they still should talk to you as if things haven't changed.

He is probably not the type of guy to ever be fit for a serious relationship because he seeks attention from any woman he can get. Kind of like trying to boost his confidence level. Also bored with their partner could be one of the things that he seeks to talk to you when she's not around. Just put him on block, and it will be the end of your worries. That button has been the greatest invention known to man since the internet lol.

I personally don't understand the whole "my ex is a friend of mine". He is an ex for a reason, if you haven't been married or have children together, there is no reason to keep talking to your ex, unless you still have some emotions for them.

I sever all ties after a break up, of course if I see this person I will be my normal pleasant self and say hello.. but that's about it.

[Miranda]

Does the bitch beret match your snotty pants?

If so, I suggest wearing both.

Haha... yes! I thought he knew!!!

[Oh_My_Goth]

Drama Bad.....

[Miranda]

Some men just don't understand the whole phrase "It's over".

They seem to think when you state that it's over they still should talk to you as if things haven't changed.

He is probably not the type of guy to ever be fit for a serious relationship because he seeks attention from any woman he can get. Kind of like trying to boost his confidence level. Also bored with their partner could be one of the things that he seeks to talk to you when she's not around. Just put him on block, and it will be the end of your worries. That button has been the greatest invention known to man since the internet lol.

I personally don't understand the whole "my ex is a friend of mine". He is an ex for a reason, if you haven't been married or have children together, there is no reason to keep talking to your ex, unless you still have some emotions for them.

I sever all ties after a break up, of course if I see this person I will be my normal pleasant self and say hello.. but that's about it.

You make many excellent points. I have to look at myself too. I genuinely liked the guy but I won't play this game just because he isn't satisfied and I give him a thrill his woman doesn't. He is on block, lol. I have had him on block for over a year but somehow I still get his messages. On my Yahoo Messenger, his name isn't even there. Am I doing it wrong? Maybe delete and block are different? This could be why.

[EnViOuSPoPpEt]

Yes Block and Delete are two different things. I usually do both.

And change my # if they persist on calling me.

I mean unless he is the creepy stalking type you can pretty much sever all type of communication very easily.

[Miranda]

Yes Block and Delete are two different things. I usually do both.

And change my # if they persist on calling me.

I mean unless he is the creepy stalking type you can pretty much sever all type of communication very easily.

Thanks. I will make sure both actions are done. He does not have my new number. He hasn't had it for years.

[Simon Bar Sinister]

Some women just don't understand the whole phrase "It's over".

They seem to think when you state that it's over they still should talk to you as if things haven't changed.

She is probably not the type of girl to ever be fit for a serious relationship because she seeks attention from any man she can get. Kind of like trying to boost her confidence level. Also bored with their partner could be one of the things that she seeks to talk to you when he's not around. Just put her on block, and it will be the end of your worries. That button has been the greatest invention known to man since the internet lol.

I personally don't understand the whole "my ex is a friend of mine". She is an ex for a reason, if you haven't been married or have children together, there is no reason to keep talking to your ex, unless you still have some emotions for them.

I sever all ties after a break up, of course if I see this person I will be my normal pleasant self and say hello.. but that's about it.

fixed!

[jynxxxedangel]

My own personal "tumor" is going to get a rude awakening soon, when he finds out he's being removed. I've had enough of his games and bullshit, as well. I am not just a soft place to crash whenever he feels like it.