Love/Hate relationships

[TitsMcGee]

I don't know if this is just me, but I always seem to find myself in love/hate relationships. I think my ex would serve as the best example for this. I loved and in a way still love him, but I absolutely hate him with all my being at the same time. The man infuriates me by some of the things he says. He's just a person I can't seem to let myself cut out of my life completely, and he knows that and uses it to his advantage.

Does anyone else have a similer type experience? And if so, how did you finally cut them out of your life?

[Homicidalheathen]

hot sex...maybe it (the hate part) fules the fire...

its like playing with dynamite and will blow up in your face...

yes i have had the same problem

i was raised in a disfunctional home

and was attracted to peeps who put the fun in disfuntion...but i am old, tired...and no longer have energy or room for that crap.

good luck

[phee]

Oh man... my ex GF..... Oh man.... I don't even know where to begin

[Riku Namako]

I'm pretty sure that I'm not well liked by as many people as I would hope to be, but all I have to say is this:

You may love me, You may hate me, but you will NEVER forget me!

its show time!

[Homicidalheathen]

I'm pretty sure that I'm not well liked by as many people as I would hope to be, but all I have to say is this:

You may love me, You may hate me, but you will NEVER forget me!

its show time!

hahaha! bang-bang!

[TitsMcGee]

Oh man... my ex GF..... Oh man.... I don't even know where to begin

Yah...basically thats where I'm at

[Black Jack (1)]

Too easy. #1 Move to a new house/ apartment ect., #2 Get a new phone number/ cell ect., #3 If you know someone he hates have them accompany you to events he may/ or may not be at to have an exit and infuriate him the same time , and lastly #4 if this is a phase it will NOT work if it is permanent then don't chat or socialize with them it will just start the ladder over again.

[Ice Queen (1)]

I'm pretty sure that I'm not well liked by as many people as I would hope to be, but all I have to say is this:

You may love me, You may hate me, but you will NEVER forget me!

its show time!

Who are you, again?

[Riku Namako]

lol, I love you too Kim, hahahahaha

[Troy Spiral (13)]

I've had one or two "love ... argue" relationships, but I'd have a real hard time hating anyone that I love. If we argued to much or i actually felt like i "hated" them, I'd not love them. I have a hard time REALLY hating anyone. Even though I might say i hate someone on in the heat of the moment or someone that is really getting on my nerves.

I can understand the feelings though. Been in and around so many different types of human interaction that it gets hard not to be understanding of it. Good, bad or sloppy.

[Msterbeau]

I don't get into relationships to simultaneously love and hate them... If there's something that awful about them, I don't go there in the first place.

Love is all you get from me. :-)

[TygerLili]

I don't know about love/hate, but I definitely had a "I love you but you f-ing piss me off!" relationship.

[Destroit]

I've only ever had love/hate relationships. The current one actually being far from the "hate" aspect, but omfg...he pisses me off sometimes and vice versa. We're both dominant people, so it's occasionally hard to work around.

[Enishi]

Although it wasn't a romantic relationship, I don't think I ever went more than three hours without feeling pissed off at my know it all, braggart friend who now lives in Seattle. I still really like him and worry about him though...

[Guest greyhalo]

I don't know about love/hate, but I definitely had a "I love you but you f-ing piss me off!" relationship.

Yeah, that sounds more like what I've dealt with in some relationships. It's hard not to piss each other off at times when you know each other well.

[torn asunder]

the only love-hate relationship i've ever had is with myself...

[Riku Namako]

self improvement is masturbation.

now self destruction....

[jynxxxedangel]

I have one thing to say..

"Where the hell ARE you, Crow?!?"

[Msterbeau]

self improvement is masturbation.

Nothing wrong with either...

[JaneDead]

Does anyone else have a similer type experience? And if so, how did you finally cut them out of your life?

divorce. that is how i finally cut him out of my life... though... he is still there, in other ways, and it sucks. really. sucks.

[Gauge]

What about the alternative of beeing in a love hate relationship without wanting to cut the other person out of your life...how are emotions kept in check so that one does not outweigh the other...how are they kept neutral to if nothing else, sustain a friendship. . .

dont listen to me, im full of bs tonight

[Msterbeau]

divorce. that is how i finally cut him out of my life... though... he is still there, in other ways, and it sucks. really. sucks.

Yeah... When you have children together, there's no cutting them out completely if you care about your children.

[Msterbeau]

What about the alternative of beeing in a love hate relationship without wanting to cut the other person out of your life...how are emotions kept in check so that one does not outweigh the other...how are they kept neutral to if nothing else, sustain a friendship. . .

dont listen to me, im full of bs tonight

OK. *Covers ears*

That's a tough proposition. It begs the question: What things are so compelling about a person that you have this sort of relationship with that you'd be willing to keep them in your lives even though they cause some amount of frustration/anger/tears?

[Gauge]

OK. *Covers ears*

That's a tough proposition. It begs the question: What things are so compelling about a person that you have this sort of relationship with that you'd be willing to keep them in your lives even though they cause some amount of frustration/anger/tears?

perhaps the same thing that brought them into your life. maybe tho the relationship that you had isnt the relationship thats going to work. maybe the frusteration/anger/tears will go away if the relationship changes

[Msterbeau]

perhaps the same thing that brought them into your life. maybe tho the relationship that you had isnt the relationship thats going to work. maybe the frusteration/anger/tears will go away if the relationship changes

Good thoughts. This assumes that one or both people make changes... or change through the process of life. Some never really do.