Got tested today....for everything and...

[Homicidalheathen]

This is so sqrewed. Me and my man had to get tested for everything to find out that: I am allergic to his sperm.

He can still cum on me if I wash it off right away but his is so acidic it makes me itch, burn and break out in a rash. No more coming inside me which was really the only thing that was totally his as we are open and all.

I mean he is the only one I don't use a condom with but still...he likes cumming inside me and whats worse, I might not have a reaction to all sperm so much as the more acidic types make my body think it is being invaded by some bad thing. My lymph glands swell and my PH goes whacko. So now he can only do it outside my body.

At least I didn't have anything serious. There was a guy at the clinic that was crying, guess he got some bad news :erm

They are telling me I am developing allergies at such a fast rate and so often to not try anything 'new' while I am out and cannot get to a hospital. Like foods and such.

So here I am this big freak who is ALLERGIC TO COCK

What next????

I really think it is all of the chemicals in stuff that is making my body go nuts. I have to use weird soap and stuff I have gotten so sensetive.

[TomCat]

damn sorry to hear that HH. It's not the cock though, it's the juice. So you still have that going for you. :tear

Now imagine being allergic to vaginal secretions... I'd just kill myself.

But I'm not. Whew!!! :grin

[Brenda Starrr]

Wow. I'm sorry. =(

[Homicidalheathen]

Never heard of that but he did say some guys are allergic to their own sperm???

Must make whacking a pain.

damn sorry to hear that HH.  It's not the cock though, it's the juice.  So you still have that going for you. :tear

Now imagine being allergic to vaginal secretions...  I'd just kill myself. 

But I'm not.  Whew!!! :grin

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[torn asunder]

if the problem is acidic in nature, perhaps an adjustment in his diet might change his ph level!? might be worth looking into - i've heard that a guy's taste can change with diet, so why not this!? just my two cents...

[Head Wreck]

jeez. sorry to hear that

[soothsayer]

I never knew anyone could be allergic to sperm. Sorry about that. If you ever need a stand in give me a holler. j/k

Hope it all works out and things get better.

[Fierce Critter]

Not too many years ago, I saw a magazine article about birth control.

At the time, there either existed or was in the prototype stage a "female condom". It's like a long pouch that you stick up inside you. The man doesn't have to wear a condom, and supposedly it's not bad about blocking sensitivity, etc.

I will do a quick search to see if they are, in fact, in production. If so, this may partially help, as at least he won't have to withdraw or put on a condom.

[Fierce Critter]

A quick Google on "female condom" came up with tons of results, including information on it from Planned Parenthood, websites that sell them, etc.

Do some google of your own and see if that might not help lessen disappointment a bit.

[Homicidalheathen]

Yah we thought it was the coffee but it isn't

if the problem is acidic in nature, perhaps an adjustment in his diet might change his ph level!? might be worth looking into - i've heard that a guy's taste can change with diet, so why not this!? just my two cents...

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[Homicidalheathen]

This would be great except that I am deathly allergic to latex. We started swinging just a few years ago and just from me using latex condoms I developed a latex allergy so severe I can no longer eat tropical fruit as it all contains a trace at least, amount of latex. I almost died eating Kiwi. Here I was just munching away and all of the sudden my whole mouth and throat started to itch and I couldn't breathe. Always able to eat it before.....So now it's polyurathane for me. Supposably the preferred condom of Europe the US hasn't really studied it much but my doctor said it is actually better. They have to use the non latex exam gloves on me now and everything. What I wonder is, when I was in the hospital.....why it cost so much more for them to use the poly on me. My Ins. company didn't like that too much. When I go buy gloves (I am a cosmetologist) my poly one's are actually cheaper. I think they are charging more because the nurse has to go find the non-latex cart and it's a pain in the butt is all.

Not too many years ago, I saw a magazine article about birth control.

At the time, there either existed or was in the prototype stage a "female condom". It's like a long pouch that you stick up inside you. The man doesn't have to wear a condom, and supposedly it's not bad about blocking sensitivity, etc.

I will do a quick search to see if they are, in fact, in production. If so, this may partially help, as at least he won't have to withdraw or put on a condom.

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[float]

hugs

[wheresmypiggy]

They make female condoms that are not latex based. I'm allergic to certain latexes.

When I get home I will look up which ones I use.

I will admit, its not really comfortable at first, but you get used to it, then you don't even notice its there, the guys sure don't.

[Homicidalheathen]

That is a great idea! Thanks. Right now I am looking for extra large non latex condoms if anyone knows of any.

The Avanti are supposed to be large but (I am not bragging) they don't fit a certain someone I am seeing right now. I think I need extra large.

They make female condoms that are not latex based. I'm allergic to certain latexes.

When I get home I will look up which ones I use.

I will admit, its not really comfortable at first, but you get used to it, then you don't even notice its there, the guys sure don't.

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[Lilith]

Okay when iw as kid i had al lthose back pricks done one me and they gave me shots for anythng from Horses to freaking chicken ( yeah i am allergic to chicken) any how the shot made me not allergic to htose things. Maybe you can get a shot on a reg basis and all can be as it was at your house.

Just an idea

lilith

[Head Wreck]

Lillith, it wasnt desensatisation treatment you went through?

its no longer done here due to the complications, but it did help my mother when she was younger (worst case of hay fever on county records and living on a farm.....)

[gothicmom]

What about a vasectomy? No spermies, just fluid.

[Medea]

About the whole polyurethane glove stuff. I don't know if this is the case in all hospitals, but I know Henry Ford ONLY uses non-latex gloves, since allergy to latex is a common one.

Listen to this horror story though. This happened about 11 years ago, when a friend of the family was giving birth to her youngest daughter.

She's in the hospital, pushing and she has a MED ALERT BRACELET saying she is allergic to latex. This woman cannot even TOUCH the stuff. So during her delivery, she starts to feel that heat and other indicators that her allergy is acting up. She tries to say something, but they have a NEOPRENE tube in her nose (latex-derived), so she can't breathe, she's getting all puffy and red down there and it takes her face swelling up like a red marshmallow for her doctors to notice something is up. Luckily they were able to reduce the swelling and fix it, but only because she was already in a hospital.

But here's the kicker. Six weeks later, she comes for her post-partum check up, with one of the doctors that was there AT the delivery. She's getting checked down there and she starts to feel the reaction again. She looks down at the doctor and asks, rather incredulously, if she's using latex gloves.

The doctor goes "Oh, I thought it would be okay if I was really quick."

Can you believe that!!?

[Homicidalheathen]

OMG she almost died.

Yah some people are just latex sensetive but this is what I am talking about.

You see that couple at city in the black masked body suites? Guess what they are made out of?

Thats right....LATEX

They can keep being just as unsocial as they want as far as I am concerned. I am not even dancing with someone wearing all of that latex. :tear

[Vater Araignee]

This is so sqrewed.  Me and my man had to get tested for everything to find out that: I am allergic to his sperm. 

He can still cum on me if I wash it off right away but his is so acidic it makes me itch, burn and break out in a rash.  No more coming inside me which was really the only thing that was totally his as we are open and all.

I mean he is the only one I don't use a condom with but still...he likes cumming inside me and whats worse, I might not have a reaction to all sperm so much as the more acidic types make my body think it is being invaded by some bad thing.  My lymph glands swell and my PH goes whacko.  So now he can only do it outside my body.

At least I didn't have anything serious.  There was a guy at the clinic that was crying, guess he got some bad news :erm

They are telling me I am developing allergies at such a fast rate and so often to not try anything 'new' while I am out and cannot get to a hospital.  Like foods and such.

So here I am this big freak who is ALLERGIC TO COCK

What next????

I really think it is all of the chemicals in stuff that is making my body go nuts.  I have to use weird soap and stuff I have gotten so sensetive.

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Yikes I have heard of this and it was a man, for him it was just a skin reaction so he had to pull out to keep as much as possible off of him. If he didn't quickly was off then he would end up having to take saltpeter to prevent erections wile he healed.[ thinks about getting rubbed raw from a lap dance and popping one the next day] Last time I spoke to him he had changed his diet but I don't know if it worked, we haven't seen each other or spoken since.

[Homicidalheathen]

Finally an example of it happening to a man.....

You find it online but...sometimes the internet info isn't to be trusted.

I thought my doctor was nuts.

But there are rare cases of people being alergic to WATER.

Yikes I have heard of this and it was a man, for him it was just a skin reaction so he had to pull out to keep as much as possible off of him. If he didn't quickly was off then he would end up having to take saltpeter to prevent erections wile he healed.[ thinks about getting rubbed raw from a lap dance and popping one the next day] Last time I spoke to him he had changed his diet but I don't know if it worked, we haven't seen each other or spoken since.

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[Lilith]

Lillith,  it wasnt desensatisation treatment you went through?

its no longer done here due to the complications, but it did help my mother when she was younger (worst case of hay fever on county records and living on a farm.....)

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I dont know what is was called, i was like 12 when it started and i stopped when i was 20 ( i stopped by my choice i just did not feel like getting htem any more) , all i know is they made this serum and i got a shot in each arm twice a week, then once a week, then once every other week till i was on maintence and i got one hsot every month. ALl i know is i stopped getting sick so much and i could eat everything.

I was young and did not care it just made me feel better.

lilith

[Homicidalheathen]

My doctor wants to do that shit to me take pieces of flesh out of my back and put stuff in the spots and it takes months.

I am not doing it.

Kinda anti med anyway....I just use claratin but its not working anymore really. I might have to get something stronger for my hayfever soon.

[Brenda Starrr]

I just use claratin but its not working anymore really.  I might have to get something stronger for my hayfever soon.

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Zyrtec.

[Fierce Critter]

My father, my sister, and I had the injections. FOR YEARS.

My dad got fed up and quit them. They might have helped him.

I dunno about my sister.

I had them for years pre-puberty. Then quit. Then, I was re-tested in my late teens.

I have such bad allergies, my "formula" had to be broken down into 4 shots per week once I was up to my full doseage. Two shots in each arm once a week, by a nurse I dubbed The Gestapo Nurse. She had an English accent, was old as hell, and very, very stiff. Despite the English accent, I felt like I was being tortured by the Gestapo every week, and thus she was dubbed.

I finally just got tired of it. Sick and tired. I wasn't feeling any better, and didn't want to wait until I was in my 60's like my father. So I quit.

That's when I got put on Seldane by a different doctor. Seldane worked wonders for me. But then they took it off the market.

Allegra came next. Worked alright.

But then came the miracle of Zyrtec. Which is what I'm on today, 15 cats later.

Yep - I loves my Zyrtec.