Cheating

[Killer_Bunnie]

I was just pushed aside for another girl, and nobody had the balls to tell me...why do people feel the need to get caught and hurt people when calling and telling you it's over is so much easier, I have respect for people who do that instead of hide. and this friends code of honor stuff, it's pure garbage, throw that 3rd grade stuff to the wind and be a responsable adult. I hate this game. Explain to me what is so hard about letting the girl know you found someone else :tear

[Lilith]

I was just pushed aside for another girl, and nobody had the balls to tell me...why do people feel the need to get caught and hurt people when calling and telling you it's over is so much easier, I have respect for people who do that instead of hide. and this friends code of honor stuff, it's pure garbage, throw that 3rd grade stuff to the wind and be a responsable adult. I hate this game. Explain to me what is so hard about letting the girl know you found someone else :tear

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Awww I am so sorry honey, i know this hurts, i have fallen vitctim to this game befor too. Let me just say it is making way for new relationships that i am sure will be a whole lot better. Keep your head up and dont ever think it was somethng you did, i am sure this guy will do it to his new girl too and just keep reppeating the cycle. You are so much better off.

Huggs

Lilith

[Homicidalheathen]

Sounds like someone was a gutless asshole. Your better off without....

I was just pushed aside for another girl, and nobody had the balls to tell me...why do people feel the need to get caught and hurt people when calling and telling you it's over is so much easier, I have respect for people who do that instead of hide. and this friends code of honor stuff, it's pure garbage, throw that 3rd grade stuff to the wind and be a responsable adult. I hate this game. Explain to me what is so hard about letting the girl know you found someone else :tear

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[gothicmom]

Hugs

[DarkVampire]

Nothing I hate more than a cheater. I don't do it and I sure don't expect it to be done on me. Feel the need to break it off than open you mouth and say so. Worse thing that will happen is my hurt feelings. Worse thing that could happen to the one who decided to cheat on me... lets not go there.

[Killer_Bunnie]

Nothing I hate more than a cheater. I don't do it and I sure don't expect it to be done on me. Feel the need to break it off than open you mouth and say so. Worse thing that will happen is my hurt feelings. Worse thing that could happen to the one who decided to cheat on me... lets not go there.

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that is how I have always felt, I have had a guy call me and tell me he wanted this girl while he was out of state, and I told him I was ok with that, we are still friends because he was honest, that is trust in a friend, I know he's not going to lie, and he married that girl so I am happy for him, that is rare.

[kellygrrrrrl]

Yeah, thats a low blow

[CheezIts]

I want to start my own thread about "cheezing" as opposed to cheating.

[Paper Hearts]

Poor Cheeze-its.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

I am guilty of cheezing. I eat cheese all the time. Cheese makes everything better.

I want to start my own thread about "cheezing" as opposed to cheating.

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[Moonlight_Phantasy]

My opinion on this subject is that the person you were dating didnt have the balls to tell you because he is nothing but a low-down, dirty coward. He is probably the type that will say one thing to yur face and turn around do somehting totally different. He probably wanted to try to avoid confrontation, without paying heed to the fact that there was a bigger one coming the moment you found out.

Its okay, hun, there are better guys out there and if you ever want someone to talk to, I'll always be here, as well as your other friends. I've witnessed alot and have gone through some shit on my own. Four months ago I just got rid of my ex who was a crackhead and I was with him for a year and a half. I lost everything I had and I actually went through withdrawls two months after having no contact with him. The way I see, I became a wiser and better person, and you should feel the same way. I know our experiences are different but I know how much you hurt inside. So if you want, I'll always be a shoulder to cry on....

[Daevion]

I am guilty of cheezing.  I eat cheese all the time.  Cheese makes everything better. 

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yep, same here...I'm one of the worst offenders of "cheezing". I want cheese on my pizza, taco bell, cheesits, grilled cheese, baked cheese, etc...the list goes on!

[Mar_Fire]

poor thing. I know what your going through having had it done to me as well.

Some people are just shallow and feel they shouldnt have to tell you anything if you are still sticking around not knowing they have someone else.

They figure they can have their cake and eat it to in other words. Keep you on the side while they screw other people behind your back. And keep you around as a fall back or as their stability.

Sorry you have had to go through with this...

*hugglez*

[Head Wreck]

last 5 or six ended this way.

what can i say. some people just arent worth it. if he did this then fuck that for a laugh. he wasnt worth it

[Killer_Bunnie]

eh, I am almost over it, I chose him out of a decent group of choices, and have come to find out that one of my brothers threatened him, before he did this, and now the brother wants to find him, I don't hate him so my brother will never be told where he is. I have however noticed, I have to stop finding sweet guys who cheat, I've had to many, I just want to get back into normal, leaving my house and having someone to cuddle life. I miss the cuddles, anybody want to be a cuddle buddy?

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

i think a lot of women are unaware of the sad reality behind this problem. Most women are romantic or very analytical when it comes to these problems and that is their downfall.... women tend to read way too much into things.... guys don't "not tell you" because they are gutless, they do it incase their new girlie falls through... that way they can come back to you like nothing happened... (girls also do this to guys but its not as common).....