The Get to Know You Game...

[Brenda Starrr]

Considering I had never truly fallen in love until my current husband came along, I have learned alot about trust. I would trust Wayne with my life. I've already trusted him with my heart and soul.

Have you ever been hurt by someone so badly, you wished you were dead?

[LuluVox]

I've been hurt badly, and then later gave suicide a nice, healthy attempt, so I guess in a roundabout way, yes.

what was your first experience with death?

[Brenda Starrr]

The only one I can recall was the death of my maternal grandfather. I felt his presence for a long time.

What's your favorite mixed drink, and what's in it?

[LuluVox]

vodka tonic. it's self-explanatory and tasty.

what did you do today?

[Brenda Starrr]

Christmas shopping. I also bought a digital camera. Now you will finally see who I am!

Are you scared yet?

[phee]

Yes and a lot.

Have you seen "The Last Starfighter"?

[Brenda Starrr]

No.

What would be your ideal day off?

[Fierce Critter]

(A to Phee - yes, and it is a favorite of mine.)

A) Ideal Day Off - me & my husband in Traverse City, shopping, eating, communing.

Q) Do you play a musical instrument or sing?

[Brenda Starrr]

I sing, but suffer from stage fright. A couple of shots usually calms that.

If you sing, what is your favorite song to sing?

[phee]

Where the Bee Sucks, by Shakespeare.

What is your favorite song (instrumentally speaking)

[LuluVox]

Mother of Pearl by Roxy Music. Instrumentally, it's completely crazy and wonderful. It's one of those songs where the beginning sounds nothing at all like the end; it's got a little false-start situation going on (it's also perfect lyrically as well).

If it were ten years ago, what would probably be going on with you today?

[Brenda Starrr]

I'd be married to my ex husband

Have you ever been so sick that you felt like you were going to die?

Edited December 13, 2004 by BrendaStarrr69

[Fierce Critter]

A) Several times. There was the self-inflicted alcohol poisoning where I made all sorts of deals with God to just make it stop. Then there was the food poisoning where I amde all sorts of deals with God to just make it stop. Then, a couple weeks after we moved down here, another batch of food poisoning that landed me in the hospital. This time, no deals with God - just with the poor, wonderful nurse who had to do things for me that haven't been done since I was a baby in diapers.

Q) If you could choose one unusual physical feature, not necessarily a super-power, what would it be? For instance, cat eyes with their increased night-sight abilities & iris shape, or a tail, a bowl-shaped head, or both a penis & vagina, ANYTHING.

[phee]

Shoot stinging foam from my elbows

What do you like most about yourself?

[Fierce Critter]

A) Good one, Phee.

At the moment, I think my ability to not let negative situations or issues get me riled up. For instance, in a fender-bender, I don't see a reason to get all bent out of shape (pardon the expression). Or if someone cuts me off in traffic, I don't tailgate them or increase my speed to make sure nobody does that to ME again. It's not a Pollyanna optimism - it's just a realization that getting hot under the collar isn't going to do anything except raise my blood pressure.

Q) That's too good a question to end there. Same question to the next person.

[Brenda Starrr]

I like that I'm open-minded. That, and I have great legs.

What would you do if you had both a penis and a vagina?

[phee]

I would go back to ancient Greece and be worshiped as devine.

What historical period would you have liked to live in the most, and why?

[Brenda Starrr]

The 50's, just so I could see the young Elvis live.

[phee]

Q&A: Is Brenda too cool to ask a question?

[Brenda Starrr]

No, I'm just sick.

Will you ever forgive me?

[phee]

I already have...

Are you a forgiving person?

[Brenda Starrr]

Very much so.

What would you think is unforgiveable?

[Shade Everdark]

A) A betrayal of trust regarding anything more than the most trifling of things.

Q) Is revenge a dish best served warm, cold, or with a white wine?

Edited December 13, 2004 by Shade Everdark

[Brenda Starrr]

Cold, with white wine.

What's your favorite white wine?

[phee]

Sorry, I don't drink enough to know.

If I were to have a favorite... what would it be?