If I Did This To You

[Brenda Starrr]

How would you feel if I did it to you?

Would you worry and fear for my safety?

What would you do

If I just disappeared?

Would you panic and sweat

And burn up my phone

And wait for my call

Only to hear nothingness?

What would you think

If I were not to show

If I were not there

Tell me what you would do.

[LuluVox]

This is scarily relevant to my life at this time.

[JaneDead]

mine too at times :(

[JaneDead]

but mine not so much your *exact* situation.... more like the "double standard" of it

[Хорошо и злейше]

I've experienced this... The poem really paints the feelings. Keep posting!

Хорошо (Angyl)

[soothsayer]

That is frickin great. I love it.

[FarrIL]

I like this poem, it easily gives off that "Do on to others as they do on to you" feel. You take other people's crap and turn the other cheek but who knows what they'd do if you gave them a taste of their own medicine.

[TomCat]

Kudos. I like the unrequited, unappreaciated pain that "love" brings into this world. Burn for me, or I'll burn in hell.

[Brenda Starrr]

I actually wrote this one night when my husband decided to go to a friend's house. On his way home. Forgot to call me. When this sort of thing happens, I get ill. I won't sleep. So, when he came home the next morning, I laid it on the line. I told him that if I did this, he's probably shit his pants with worry. I'm still debating on just disappearing....

[bellbottoms]

I actually wrote this one night when my husband decided to go to a friend's house. On his way home. Forgot to call me. When this sort of thing happens, I get ill. I won't sleep. So, when he came home the next morning, I laid it on the line. I told him that if I did this, he's probably shit his pants with worry. I'm still debating on just disappearing....

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i so have been in your shoes!!! they dont' even care that u worry. but for fuck sake if u are a hour later than u said u were going to be. *where have u been* *what were u doing* so not fair. like dynomiiiite said its the double standards that suck bout it all

[Brenda Starrr]

Don't get me wrong: Wayne loves me. He just has that male hormone that keeps them from occasionally making proper judgement calls. I think it's called "imastupidmalewhosebrainisntinhiscranium".

Yeah. That's it.

[torn asunder]

I'm still debating on just disappearing....

two wrongs don't make a right...

[Brenda Starrr]

I didn't say that I'd do it. I only said that I was debating on it. Sheesh.

[soothsayer]

I told him that if I did this, he's probably shit his pants with worry. I'm still debating on just disappearing....

It would be nice to think that by treating someone the same way they mistreat you would open their eyes but it doesn't. Selfish people will just go about like it's no big deal because they only care about themselves. I dated someone that would absolutley flip out if I spent time with friends when she had her kid with her and couldn't go so I stoped doing that only to have her go out to clubs without me when I couldn't and she didn't give two shits. It was her night out and I wasn't important to her ( to use her own words ). I say....leave 'em and find someone that will treat you with respect.