Shame...

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Ok for example...I have Ace of Bass on my comp...Im ashamed of that...BUT IT BRINGS BACK MEMORIES OK?!...Come on I better not be the only person to admit something like that!!!

[Mikielikesit]

I have a ABBA CD in my car and 1 country cd kris kristofferson......Bot I'm not real ashamed of it ...well maybe a little

Ok here's a real thing i am ashamed of .......When I was a hardcore addict I put my getting high in front of providing for my family..... =(

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

I'm ashamed of my fears....

[The Rod]

I'm ashamed that I've been going to college on and off since I was 18 (I'm 27 now), and I still don't even have an associate degree...

[bean]

I'm ashamed of my fear of bees - they make me scream like a little girl.

I'm also ashamed that I have a really bad jealousy problem.

[Msterbeau]

I'm not ashamed of anything. I cast shame off along with Catholisim.

[Head Wreck]

my fear of hieghts. its silly.

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm not ashamed of anything.  I cast shame off along with Catholisim.

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Can I get an A-men?

[phee]

I am ashamed that my moderation of the DGN didn't prevent the Iraq war

[Miranda]

The thoughts of shame are different than religious type sin/shame guilt. That's just my observation. I don't believe in sin, so. Shame, hard to say.... I haven't done anything that fucked up. DBK for Pope. He is cuter, and that hat would look fine on him!

[Shade Everdark]

Oh, I am pretty ashamed of myself.

[torn asunder]

:fear :whistling :erm

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

The thoughts of shame are different than religious type sin/shame guilt. That's just my observation. I don't believe in sin, so. Shame, hard to say.... I haven't done anything that fucked up. DBK for Pope. He is cuter, and that hat would look fine on him!

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That would bring about the apocolypse...u realize that right....lmao

[Hellion]

:devil distrusting most people.not being able to find work.

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm ashamed of certain people's bigoted views. I'm ashamed that said people don't think that those who are different are human beings. I'm ashamed that said people think it's okay to say these things in front of those who shouldn't and don't want to hear these views. I'm ashamed that said person seems to forget about the guy in the glittery t-shirt that he willingly danced with at the Hippo, a mere 8 years ago.

Go figure.

[Brenda Starrr]

Nevermind.

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Sometimes Im ashamed of being a total asshole to people...but sometimes im not cause most deserve it...

[Draco1958]

Shame, such a word. So many ways to feel it. Self inadequecies, how one treats people, does things. I don't if I can say one thing cuz so many fit but for many reasons. I've always tried to be nice with everyone I meet so I don't feel any shame there. I do feel some for the way I have acted and given the wrong impression, I feel shame because I couldn't find that key of happiness to keep my wife from walking out the door. Sometimes I feel shame for trying to be a friendly flirt that causes people to think bad things about me. I feel shame because I didn't take care of myself better. Shame for allowing my emotions to lead me. Shame for being people's friend because I think they can do better than having me as a friend. i'd never screw a friend over but I think sometimes I don't deserve to be someone's friend. Shame for not doing what I had planned out after my Mom passed away. Sometimes one needs to go thru even with stupid ideas just because. Shame for being a loser in life.......... I think I've said more than enough, maybe too much...... Shame for not knowing when to shut up or edit posts.

[Homicidalheathen]

I am ashamed that I let myself gain 10 lbs this month when my doc said I couldn't work out, I should have cut back on my calories.

[Draco1958]

I am ashamed that I let myself gain 10 lbs this month when my doc said I couldn't work out, I should have cut back on my calories.

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You still look hot HH.

[torn asunder]

i was thinking about this today - isn't shame just our own judgement of what we fear others might think of us, based on societal norms? and *if* that's the case, why feel shame, if you're being true to yourself and your ideals?

just random pondering - feel free to ignore me! :erm

carry on!

[n0Mad]

i was thinking about this today - isn't shame just our own judgement of what we fear others might think of us, based on societal norms? and *if* that's the case, why feel shame, if you're being true to yourself and your ideals?

just random pondering - feel free to ignore me!    :erm

carry on!

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My thoughts exactly. There are things I do that make other people view me as immoral or something, but I have no shame in my choices. I suppose I'm ashamed of society thinking that everyone has to live a certain way and if they don't, then they should feel shame. I have a huge rant on this topic based on recent events but I suppose I'll save that for another time for another post or something.

Also ...

I am proud that I do everything for others, go out of my way to help friends, and sometimes even strangers. It makes me feel good about myself and happy for who I am.

But,

I'm ashamed that I don't do anything for myself. I need to learn to look after myself and take care of myself, because nobody else sure does. And I need to learn that it's not selfish to do so.

[JaneDead]

i was thinking about this today - isn't shame just our own judgement of what we fear others might think of us, based on societal norms? and *if* that's the case, why feel shame, if you're being true to yourself and your ideals?

just random pondering - feel free to ignore me!    :erm

carry on!

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- ditto

I'm ashamed that I don't do anything for myself.  I need to learn to look after myself and take care of myself, because nobody else sure does.  And I need to learn that it's not selfish to do so.

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- and i sort of feel this way too. not really *ashamed* for it but i guess i sort of "let myself down" when i don't do things for myself because i am busy with my kids or other stuff instead.

[n0Mad]

Men suck, and I am ashamed to be one of them. But I'm proud that I strive to be different.

[Killer_Bunnie]

I am ashamed of letting myself depend on other people, and ashamed of myself for waiting all these months to tell my parents about my upcoming child. other than that, I know that these are temporary things, and I know that no matter what I do I cannot go back and change it, nor would I want to because everything that happens happens for a reason, and I'm ok with knowing that. shame comes and goes, I wish that we rememberd all the good things more often than the bad ones, the bad unfortunatly sticks out more when we let it get the best in us.