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The way I see it, I don't waste my time with anyone new that doesn't want to date. It's not that I'm pissed off or offended when I turn my back and walk the other way, it's just I'm content with my life as it is right now, content with who I have for friends, content with who I am, content with my life as it rolls. And if I'm on the prowl and an interest pulls the, "lets just be friends" I politely say, "I got my fill of friends and that's not what I'm looking for." Then I go explore other options. What this does is weed out the trash, mainly, the ones that try to white knight you into that "dreaded" friendzone. The friendzone is so easily avoided. You let your interest be known, and if they're not willing to share your same interests, then why waste your time? Sick of getting passed up for guys/girls that are a total waste of time for anything other than sex and stupid drama? Check yourself foo's, maybe that person that passed you up isn't worth anything more than just sex and stupid drama, that's why they go for that sort of person. And ya wonder why people are often more miserable IN a relationship rather than someone who's single. I mean, these things don't exactly help you find someone directly, but it really helps you focus on the right path and indirectly helps you find someone. It cuts down on serious wastes of time, the lost causes, the ones you focus most of your attention on, passing up possible opportunities that may come your way while you're too busy waiting for dummy to pull their head out of their ass and see you're worth being in a relationship with. Stop wasting your time with them. And if you're already "trapped" in a friendzone, easy way out of it (cuz it's not too late, you're not stuck) just be like hey, i like you more than a friend, and that gets in the way of the type of friendship you want, so we can either talk about hooking up, or it's adios amigo. It might sound cold but hey, it's the right thing to do, you're not hiding how you feel, you're not letting it harm you, and you're being HONEST with the other person. They might be pissed but you can say, hey fuck you, i told you about these feelings from the start, why am i gonna let you get what you want out of me when you're not letting me get what i want out of you. Final food for thought, and this one's really tricky to do. But NEVER let your emotions control your decisions over logic and reasoning ability. Your emotions aren't reason or logical. Not saying being a cold robot, but don't let your emotions cloud judgement. If you like someone, and they don't like you back, why pursue a dead end road because "you love them", get your head out of your ass, they don't love you, come to peace with the fact and move on.