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Glad I was not alone... lol. I mean if you think about it... what if employers hired the way that girls dated? The interview would be: "Yes Mr. Raev we have seen the application you turned in and your resume, and my goodness! you are more than qualified for the position we are hiring for. You appear to have all the right skill sets, attitude, and precisely the work ethic we were looking for, and you stand out among all of our candidates! But we decided to go with this less qualified guy with a severe drug habit and abusive qualities, our apologies... But we do reserve the right to call you up in tears, bitching about the candidate we DID hire for your moral support, describing how we wish we had hired someone with your qualifications, skills, and attitude.... but thank you for trying."

May I add, CDGG, that I am really, really, truly and sincerely hoping that you do NOT marry this guy. You are unhappy now. If you marry him, you will just be unhappily married and, eventually, unhappily divorced. I DO think drugs are the problem and you are not the one who can fix that. There. I said it. You are free to hate me.

I love it when they're in complete denial about this, too. They can't see it, or don't want to see it, and justify their actions so smoothly. Different realities.