Man... most of the drama I went through didn't even happen here. it happen on Facebook and involved a lot of dgners. people who I thought were my friend. who I cared deeply for... And turns out I wasted my time and energy because they either secretly hated me, or just kept me around to laugh at (not my words)
I left because I was hurt. this was the first community I joined, when I first moved to MI, in 2007. And some of the people here, who I thought were my friends, were the first friends i made here... so being here was hard.
I was afraid to come back, for a long time... But eh... who knows. maybe something great will come of it.