The girls living here in the building tried getting me out and social for almost a year when I moved here. I did hang out a little but I didn't know about boats and the stuff they are interested in and I was so depressed and felt like I was less than them, less attractive, too fat, too poor, too silly, too ghetto, etc but than I actually find the one next door I relate to so much. We hit it off immediately. One day we was walking home from the bar and we was talking about how we was raised...( we literally are night and day in terms of our socioeconomic background). I had mentioned my being a bad kid and my mom throwing me in a girls home when I was 15 and she goes my parents sent me to a boarding school in Connecticut for that...and I was like so basically, the same thing as me except for one rich, One poor? She started laughing and was like taken aback and she was like yea, basically the same thing. It's funny we joke about that shit alot how we bond the way we can being raised so different. Although, I don't think the boarding school in Connecticut disciplined you for singing at the dinner table by three women tackling you to the floor, pulling your arms backwards and your legs, everything is restrained to the point that you have to scream in pain because a bitch is actually trying to break your damn arm. I mean maybe they do something, probably like the old school Catholic schools did. Idk.
When all of us are together the one, we love her she's been extremely hospitable since I moved here and she is always looking out for me, asking me if I needed things for my apartment, trying to get me to socialize, and telling me to shut the fuck up (when she's drunk) when I say something negative about myself. She can sometimes talk alot about money and prestige and my girl next door, having came from money it doesn't really phase her, she doesn't buy anything new, thrift store, vintage everything in her house which is like my thing too. We just look at each other when she talks about $$$$ and we know what's up. No words are needed. Lol