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My ex boyfriend from 25 years ago who had recently reached out to me to idk reminisce, he said I was his longest friend, but he messaged me last night and tells me leaving Michigan away from me was the worst decision he ever made, he never stopped loving me, and some pretty intense feelings and than I get a fb voice note from his brother today that he hung himself. His brother is deaf and I was not sure that's what I heard but when I called his brother he said my brother hung himself last night at midnight. I asked he was at hospital and he said thst he was dead. I can't function or describe what I feel and the family omg I'm lost for words. My heart physically hurts, I cried to my mom on the phone for the past hour.

I am feeling glad that this forum is not defunct. Thank you, @TronRP!

New hair!!!

I'm about to go remind my cat, for the billionth time, that just because I happen to be on vacation and home right now, that Doesn't mean he's getting fed 600 times a day.

The older I get the less I can tolerate alcohol. Honestly I don't even drink anymore for this exact reason. Can't handle the hangovers anymore. Not worth it at all. I don't even remember the last time I had a sip of alcohol but it's been years! Smoke weed every day though 🤠👍

Warning***I look like the product of if an elf and a cabbage patch doll had a threesome with Cupid. Still fun times. https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18KYuAaBSG/

Aircraftless Contrail UFO/UAP Disappears Into Thin Air - Michigan 8/14/24 https://rumble.com/v5b0oe4-aircraftless-contrail-ufouap-disappears-into-thin-air-michigan-81424.html Flashing light ship UFO/UAP - Michigan 9/19/24 https://rumble.com/v5fdzgs-flashing-light-ship-ufouap-michigan-91924.html Two Possible UAP's/UFO's - Michigan 10/2/24 https://rumble.com/v5hdfil-two-possible-uapsufos-michigan-10224.html Two UAP's - Michigan 2/22/2025 https://rumble.com/v6nucpi-two-uaps-michigan-2222025.html Strobing Star-like UAP/UFO - Michigan 4/29/2025 https://rumble.com/v6sywjx-flashing-star-like-uapufo-michigan-4292025.html UAP - Michigan 6/3/25 https://rumble.com/v6u8k8x-uap-michigan-6325.html --- How to try to make contact: https://classpunk.substack.com/p/instructions-and-videos-for-contacting

Watching my cat, bat a clothes hanger down the hall 🤣

Shit sleeps ? I thought it all it did was stink .

Thinking about how many times it'll take for a person to land this insult correctly. I don't think it gives the sting one would hope for💀💀

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After I got the site working again, I mentioned that this version will no longer be supported in the near future as Invision is upgrading to version 5. We are currently on version 4 as it was the quickest way to get the forum back after we lost it the beginning of July to GoDaddy due to non access and the site being lock in their system account by Troy. My idea moving forward was to change things up a bit as this is basically my ballgame. In the past, there have been a lot of concern about adding a chat feature to the site due to how quick people can get into heated discussions, but I was wondering, since there are already Discords out there for DGN groups, wouldn't that be a place for that type of interaction in conjunction to access to the forum. Of course, if someone accesses it through this site, they would have to enter as a legitimate member. My other thought was to have store links added to the forum since the hosting site actually offers SSL certification. Members with items to sell would be able to link their store through the main forum front page that will be available to public traffic. They would also have the option of members only sales which would only be accessibly in the members section of the site. Also, having the SSL certification will allow for the public version of the forum to host links of outside seller sites which would also create seller/buyer hub traffic. The Invision software package allows for "Clubs" inside the forum. The Club creator would take on the roll of MOD to the Club they create with permissions bestowed by admin. That would be another way to have more streamline discussions among like minded individuals while still being within the forum community as a whole. Essentially, I was thinking of being the main presence of the new version of the forum. Prior to COVID, I would plan personal outings to visit as many offsite members as I could reach, just to say "Hi". It was actually fun. The furthest we made it, however, was Adrian, Michigan to visit Class-Punk. Others were around the Metro-Detroit area. Before things were shut down, we were planning a trip to Toledo, Ohio to visit sekhmet2002. Drive-wise, we made it up to Holly, Michigan for the Michigan Renaissance Festival. Later, I had read where a few ideas were being tossed around about having a DGN day at Ren-Fest. I would still be open to something like that if people were interested in going. There was also a post about Walk Around Detroit nights/events where you get dressed up and just hit the entertainment strip...was my understanding. That definitely sounded like fun as that was already something I did on my own...lol. Lastly, I was thinking about hosting/organizing various types of "Get Out & Mingle" events/outings like hired DJ venue events, Karaoke outings, Lounge meet ups and free location hangouts like Belle Isle, parks and other spaces open to the public. Since things are getting shaken up anyway, I figure why not go all out. I'm currently using a website building tutorial, that came with the site security account, to learn how to add dimensions to the community forum to enhance user experiences. If I get this right, TDGN might share some Facebook-like qualities and more. I didn't want to limit the site to only being a message board. I'm thinking more along the lines of an interactive virtual community forum with a real world presence. ~~~~~ Therefore: New forum layout New software upgrades New platform for public and member additions Varying in-person interactions Redefined internet footprint Although, this is my vision of things, they are not set in stone. Ok, so, thoughts?

Thank you! I just finished it. It went fabulously. The program manager was amazing and wants me onboard. Really amazing dude, interview was chill more like a conversation.

~~~~~ Their birth mother is very petite and, when they were little, they were like little Tamarins when we would run around and play. Me, being from the generation of a certain era, I nicknamed them "Little Monchichis" (official JPN spelling "Monchhichi"). However, as they started to get taller, "Little" fell off and they've been "Monchichis ever since.

Omg that is exciting! I hope it goes well. You've got this

I lost 65 pounds so far. First I got out of obesity range and I have 10 lbs to go to be considered normal, well not overweight. I'll never be normal and that's good-ish.

I just got the emails functioning again!!!

I’ve thought about this post for a while now. I can’t even begin to remember the last time I talked to him. But it was probably some super in depth discussion about BSG. We had those often. That being said, there is no doubt the shaping of my life by this board - the absolute phenomenal 20 year friendships I have, solid memories and the lesson’s learned. Without this safe space I would not have made it my first year in Michigan. I would not have made it post bullshit. I probably would not have made it through nursing school. Many of the close friendships made here still surround my holiday tables. They still involve late night conversations, bad movies, decent cocktails, love my children like their own, and are some of the most loving and supportive people I have the pleasure of having in my inter circle. Community is not the word- family is. There is a need for safe spaces like this more than ever. Thank you for keeping it up and running. It’s good to know it’s still here to look back on.. and for others that may presently need it, as a safe haven.

Thank you for the compliment! I used to love her when I was younger, too. I can see it now and my older sisters in Cincinnati kinda has that same face, too. I never heard that but in the past I have gotten Sara Rue, Julia Stiles, and Drew but only because my odd heart/ square shaped face.

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Bout to go to my friend's shop to fix my car (needs new head gasket). Should be nice, 80 degrees and sunny today in Co Springs so I'm kind of looking forward to it, as much as I hate turning wrenches anymore... Having wheels again wiill be even nicer! Wish me luck I don't run into any other issues and this head gasket replacement goes well!

Da doo do doom Da da doom doom doom da da da doom do do do doom...and some shit and stuff...holyyyyyy diverrrrrrr! Why? Earworms, why?

I'm so looking forward to the next outing. At current, looks like it won't be until next month.

Happy Valentines Day everyone.

Yea I think I'm becoming intolerant to drinking and smoking cigs which is a good thing. Weed, I could handle when I was young but not as an adult. My mom and brothers can't tolerate it either. I was a stoner in my teens, though. Smoked myself sober. Lol

Yay!! It's your birthday 🎂 🥳 🎂🥳🥳 I hope your day is amazing!!!

~~~~~ Wonder how many DGNers we can drag out there...lol

Can't wait!! Yay!!

~~~~~ People here taught me that nutcases are going to have their own opinion. It's up to you whether or not to lose time on it. That said. We MUST do Karaoke at Round One in Great Lakes Crossing. Girl Monchichi has me HOOOOOKED!!!!!

Happy New Year! I'm late....as always.

I am thinking about blowing this popsicle stand, and moving to England.

Seriously, thank you for this.

~~~~~ I'm not sure if you got the wrong idea from my suggestions, but I have no intention of changing the members area of this forum which is why I spent so much time trying to find software that will keep the features we are used to. We are going to lose this current format regardless of what is or is not done. Members here have already created cliques, blocked other members and only communicate with members they "like". The SSL is because at least 5 members create and currently sell their goods in other locations. So why can't their own "community" back them instead? DGN got a ban against it a little over a decade ago because the site was promoting seller sites without permission. I do not intend to make the same mistake in any shape form or fashion. I keep hearing about people wanting to breathe life back into things, well, it definitely has to start somewhere regardless of if it's something that stands the test of time or not. I'm only interested in self-hosting which is why I test out software packages to determine if it is a fit or not. Unfortunately, that is a time consuming process to test everything it has to offer, so I don't enter into something like that lightly. My goal is to create an environment that people will want to hang around in without compromising what we stand for.

Just came home from a wedding, checking out pix.

Well, I may have found an internship at a youth runaway/homeless sanctuary. Phone interview is next week. I'm excited but when she said they may have an opening in advocacy I wanted to say hell yes but our internships have to be clinical even if we plan on doing macro work.

Just remember...keep breathing.

But are you Laughing too ? Since you ate laffy taffy…😂

Sitting in the hot tub. Like I said, the perfect weather

I want to get down another 20. I've put on a decent amount of muscle so I think getting down to my weight 10 years ago is a long shot. Fortunately I'm on meds that suppress my appetite a bit

It worked when I set it this time.

~~~~~ Yeah, because I had to read that again...lol

Getting ready to start on plans for "Project Overhaul" happening on the homestead. Everything will be either be revamped or repurposed. Yeah, I'm preparing a private retirement resort.

~~~~~ Me too. I had to teach myself a lot about website building, hosting settings and manually running key file functions from rewriting line text. So happy it all paid off.

I'm very glad to see DGN is back

~~~~~ Unfortunately, the inner workings of the site is hardwired to not accept Gmail addresses due to the amount of Bots that use Gmail. I have tried bypassing it, but for specific reasons, that was not allowed even on an admin level.

I sent you my number just now..I need to change my email notifications to a a Updated email address.

"I can do this!"