Family Drama

[BillyDeath]

Evertime When my family get's together it is bullshit I don't need. Dammit, what can I do to avoid this useless bullshit. None of the spat is relevant it is usually something that revolves around issues has happened ten fucking years ago. It is one thing if suffering the drama would help, but it doesn't do a fucking thing but listen other people's problem and can mess the rest of the day.

What really pisses me of is that some members want me to play certain roles. Sometimes they tell me to cut my hair all because I feel that they want me be something that doesn't fit my personnality. It's like being a poser for them so they can use me as a puppet.

[BrassFusion]

Do the bastards still try to make you wear Izods?

[BillyDeath]

no other thing's thou just as bad. They can't accept that I am in a world they don't want me to be in.

[BrassFusion]

no other thing's thou just as bad. They can't accept that I am in a world they don't want me to be in.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

It's good that there are people as conscientiously goth as you. Keep the dream alive!

[BillyDeath]

Why do people want me to play theae roles. My Aunt should be a Metallica fan-she wants to be the master of pupets. That sounded kinda lame but... ohh, well

[BrassFusion]

Never stop fighting the establishment!

[BillyDeath]

can I avoid the drama and stay away from their get together.

[BillyDeath]

all this "Iam so glad to see you" bullshit is so obviously fake, and when they are gone it is bitch, bitch, bitch...

[BrassFusion]

Their veneer of empathy is washed away by the black sea of my tormented soul!

[Onyx]

Their veneer of empathy is washed away by the black sea of my tormented soul!

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

wow. I'm going to print that out and post it on my refrigerator!

:laughing

Thanks for making my boring afternoon a bit brighter.

[Steven]

Their veneer of empathy is washed away by the black sea of my tormented soul!

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I'd love to see this in a fortune cookie.....or a Hallmark card.....you got a gift here Brass... :laughing

[BillyDeath]

I don't need this drama. I don't have to deal with this, right? Just say right. I can avoid my bigger family.

[BrassFusion]

They scramble in their sandy tunnels of conformity and hate like so many little nameless, faceless insects!

[BillyDeath]

Damn drama,. It is not for me. My mom said that it was totally up to me if I wanted to go.

[Hellion]

:devil I am happy there is no drama bs around my place.I can never live at my moms again,too much drama.

[wheresmypiggy]

17. Pack your shit and move out.

I got kicked out of my mothers house when I was 18 for some stupid bullshit. My family has always been at odds with each other.

4yrs away from her helped alot. I got remanded to her custody for a year and have been there over 2. I'm moving in august and never looking back.

If they can't accept you for who you are they don't really love you.

[kellygrrrrrl]

Something somebody once told me.

We love our families. We do. There is an obligation to family I think. Blood is thicker than water.

We don't neccessarily have to like our families. But we have an obligation to love them.

You don't have to like them. We don't like the things they do or say. We get hurt by them and then get over it. In the end they are still there.

Families usully tend to have expectations of one another.

Friends, well, we can choose our friends, and they choose us back.

We don't have an obligation to friends like we do with family.

Friends don't have the same high expecations that family does. They like us for who we are, and don't expect us to change...and vs versa.

Which is why some of my closest friends are referred to more as family than friends.

make sense?

If not, it's cause I didn't think hard enough..... :doh :whistling

[Guest Megalicious]

We don't neccessarily have to like our families. But we have an obligation to love them.

Not when you had a childhood like mine ... I am not obligated to love anyone, love is a choice.

[kellygrrrrrl]

Love really is a choice

I know.

On the outside is what I mean really.

We are "Suppose" to love our family....

[Guest Megalicious]

lol Yes that is normaly how it goes lol ..

[Rayne]

Family drama ... oh, don't even get me started ...

... really ... you don't want me to go there.

[BrassFusion]

Family drama ... oh, don't even get me started ...

... really ... you don't want me to go there.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Oh no you DINT!

[jadnifer]

Oh man! can i get into family drama! that would be another topic in itself however! LOL

[BillyDeath]

Do the bastards still try to make you wear Izods?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

No but not all of them understand the goth thing they think I am doing it to make a statement. I dont even dress like that when I am around them. They mostly talk me in to cutting my hair.

[BrassFusion]

No but not all of them understand the goth thing they think I am doing it to make a statement. I dont even dress like that when I am around them. They mostly talk me in to cutting my hair.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

So... you're not making a statement?