Why is it that...

[Hellion]

:devil Some people just need to quit dwelling on useless BS,and grow up.IMO

I don't even bother dwelling anymore,I finally were able to move on.

[Scary Guy]

Because the past was awesome and memories are the most presious thing we have.

The past hurts but I don't really want to get over it.

[BrassFusion]

:devil Some people just need to quit dwelling on useless BS,and grow up.IMO

I don't even bother dwelling anymore,I finally were able to move on.

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Does that mean you're not going to talk about how much america sucks anymore?

[AstralCrux]

BF I don't know if DM is ready for that step yet! But, I almost fell on the floor when I read your post.

[BrassFusion]

BF I don't know if DM is ready for that step yet!  But, I almost fell on the floor when I read your post.

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I'm glad someone got a little joy out of it, it still makes me feel a bit guilty.

[Hellion]

I'm glad someone got a little joy out of it, it still makes me feel a bit guilty.

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:devil lol,I still don't think you know what this thread is really about.lol

OOps I forgot,you do know everything in the world,you know all .LOl!!!(likes to be sarcastic)

[BrassFusion]

:devil lol,I still don't think you know what this thread is really about.lol

OOps I forgot,you do know everything in the world,you know all .LOl!!!(likes to be sarcastic)

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I fail to see the sarcasm in that statement. :devil

[kellygrrrrrl]

dwelling on stuff....Me?

Noooo

Yah, this is something I have been working on internally.

For example:

You said something awful to someone...

Time goes on, you feel bad...

You feel worse....

You feel like an ass.

3 months later you bring it up and apologize...and let them know how bad you felt....

Person looks at you like you're an idiot...and says why did you dwell on that for so long.,..I thought nothing of it.....

Yeah.

I put myself through 3 months of feeling bad to hear that?

[Head Wreck]

because i'm a masochist.

[BrassFusion]

dwelling on stuff....Me?

Noooo

Yah, this is something I have been working on internally.

For example:

You said something awful to someone...

Time goes on, you feel bad...

You feel worse....

You feel like an ass.

3 months later you bring it up and apologize...and let them know how bad you felt....

Person looks at you like you're an idiot...and says why did you dwell on that for so long.,..I thought nothing of it.....

Yeah.

I put myself through 3 months of feeling bad to hear that?

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The opposite is MUCH WORSE... when someone starts treating you like shit for no reason that you or any third parties can fathom, so you start to guess at why they all of a sudden hate you, and a few months later you offer an olive branch- a gift, a letter, a voicemail... "I know you're hurting. I feel bad for you, and our friendship was important to me. If you have something you need to talk about and you don't have anyone to talk to, you can always call me."

In essence, apologizing to someone for them being an asshole, and being ignored and/or publicly derided still and again. Thank god I've only been through that shit once.

[Rayne]

I don't see it.

[Hellion]

:devil Shit my mother likes to bring up BS that happened 30 years ago,and that pisses me off alot.so all I say is grow up and move on.then I make a quick exit to avoid drama.

[AstralCrux]

DM I had a smart comment for ya, but I'm going to refrain.

[kellygrrrrrl]

The opposite is MUCH WORSE... when someone starts treating you like shit for no reason that you or any third parties can fathom, so you start to guess at why they all of a sudden hate you, and a few months later you offer an olive branch- a gift, a letter, a voicemail... "I know you're hurting. I feel bad for you, and our friendship was important to me. If you have something you need to talk about and you don't have anyone to talk to, you can always call me."

In essence, apologizing to someone for them being an asshole, and being ignored and/or publicly derided still and again. Thank god I've only been through that shit once.

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I am expiriencing this right now......with one of my dearest friends.

She won't talk to me...and I don't want to keep asking what's wrong what's wrong?

She just has become more distant and I feel myself being used on certain aspects....I almost want to apologize because I thought maybe I said something or did something.....but she has always been one to be pretty blunthonest and quick to point out your wrongs, so....I am at a loss?

I am just keeping distance, not offering myself as openly. She knows I know.

But it's progressively getting worse....

she really only calls when something tangible is needed....or all of other newer freinds aren't available..... :confused

[BrassFusion]

I am expiriencing this right now......with one of my dearest friends.

She won't talk to me...and I don't want to keep asking what's wrong what's wrong?

She just has become more distant and I feel myself being used on certain aspects....I almost want to apologize because I thought maybe I said something or did something.....but she has always been one to be pretty blunthonest and quick to point out your wrongs, so....I am at a loss? 

I am just keeping distance, not offering myself as openly.  She knows I know. 

But it's progressively getting worse....

she really only calls when something tangible is needed....or all of other newer freinds aren't available..... :confused

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if she still calls you but only when she wants something... man. i hate that. it sounds like she's using you.

in my circumstance, the other one didn't even try to use me, she just started gossiping about me. The change from friends to "enemies" was instant and surreal. Still dunno what caused it.