what do you say

[jadnifer]

what do you say to people that dont like what you are wearing and ask you not to wear it? especially when it is someone that you care a lot about? I was asked not to wear my spiked collar and I didnt but only because i respect the person that asked me not to. what do you do in this type of situation?

[Slept with ghost]

i wear want when i want (when not in a work situation of course)

to some extent what we wear does make a statment about who we are

and i dont feel i should have to change who i am or what i wear around anybody

even if i do care about them

[jadnifer]

i wear want when i want (when not in a work situation of course)

to some extent what we wear does make a statment about who we are

and i dont feel i should have to change who i am or what i wear around anybody

even if i do care about them

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

that is true

[Slept with ghost]

yeah well i am full of wisdom

or something like that

[jadnifer]

yeah well i am full of wisdom

or something like that

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

always remember that :laughing

[Rayne]

Only situations I've been in like that were school and work ... which both were acceptable if you ask me.

Other than that, I've never been in that situation and I don't think I ever will be.

People should respect you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

[Msterbeau]

I was asked not to wear a spiked collar recently. But since the person wanted to smooch on my face and neck, I was OK with that... :-)

[torn asunder]

well, i can see that being an issue sometimes - for example.. my sis is getting married, and wants to make sure i don't dye my hair some funky color, since i'm to be in the wedding party, and i might clash with the bridesmaids' dresses!! :laughing

[Msterbeau]

well, i can see that being an issue sometimes - for example.. my sis is getting married, and wants to make sure i don't dye my hair some funky color, since i'm to be in the wedding party, and i might clash with the bridesmaids' dresses!!  :laughing

You could always get a swatch of the dress fabric and dye your hair a coordinating color.... :whistling

[torn asunder]

You could always get a swatch of the dress fabric and dye your hair a coordinating color....  :whistling

oh, believe me, i've been thinking about it!! :laughing :laughing

:innocent

[Gauge]

oh, believe me, i've been thinking about it!!  :laughing  :laughing

:innocent

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

lol she would kill you :woot:

[Msterbeau]

lol she would kill you :woot:

Yeah so... You only live once. Some people have a shorter life then others.... :laughing

[Brenda Starrr]

Do it. I dare you.

[Homicidalheathen]

I would wear it anyway unless going to dinner or a church or something really. I figure if you really love me you will execpt my wierd hair or fashion....but would show respect in public. Not at home in a house or park or something where it shouldn't matter.

But, if you really can't feel comfortable because your afraid of upsetting someone you love.....then don't wear it.