If...

[Fierce Critter]

...Jon didn't want me, I wonder if anyone would.

I know people would want Jon. They've pretty much told him so.

But I wonder if I would be so lucky.

I don't really think so.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

What are you talkin about. If it wasnt well known that you were taken you'd have to beat the salivating suitors off with a stick.

[Msterbeau]

I disagree. You have many fantastic qualities Camille. Tell that little place in your mind that's making you doubt yourself to fuck off.

That is all.

[Brenda Starrr]

First off,

You're smart.

You speak like an educated person

You're funny

You're gorgeous

You have more talent in your pinky that most people do in the entire lifetime.

And yeah, what Marc said. Tell that place to fuck itself. I think you rock.

[Homicidalheathen]

WTF?? I don't get it. Your very attractive and have a hell of a personality......Geezus! Guys? Am I wrong???

Lady where is this comming from?

We love you!!!!

[Homicidalheathen]

BTW I do understand however, I feel the same way sometimes....only loosers and cheaters want me, its always been my lot.

I want to be supportive but have had one of the worst weeks of my life.

And how YOU doin?

But.......I am not going to get depressed and let others bring me down with their bull crap and neither should you, you really are pretty and nice ya know. I do like ya.

[Fierce Critter]

Thanks very much, all of you. I'd ask to have this deleted, as the momentary bleakness has passed. But instead, I'm going to refer back to the responses here when and if that bleakness returns.

That came from a very, very dark part of myself that is showing itself all too often these days. It's something I would never have thought I had in me.

It appears the bottom goes deeper than I realized. Can't wait until Thursday.

[Der Nister]

Wha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

C'mon FC - I know it's normal to feel down about such a thing here and there but honestly - you do not need to worry. You prolly get more guys looking at you than you realize. You may not notice this because of how much you love Jon but I'm willing to bet it happens often.

And I know how you feel. After I split up with my daughters mom I felt that way about me but with time I realized women were starting to ask me out - I truely didn't think that that would happen to me.

So fear not our dear critter.

[Onyx]

That came from a very, very dark part of myself that is showing itself all too often these days. It's something I would never have thought I had in me.

It appears the bottom goes deeper than I realized. Can't wait until Thursday.

You'd probably be surprised how many have felt that exact same thing. Glad to hear that the momentary bleakness has passed. (((hugs)))

[Medea]

I'm glad to know that you are feeling better. But just to confirm, yes, indeedy, there are MANY men that would be all over you. (And a few women, if you'd let 'em. :whistling )

[Steven]

Dont do that babe, don't measure yourself by way of your struggles.

I dig you.

Lots of people dig you.

And Jon is no idiot.

be good to you.....

Steven

[Homicidalheathen]

Personally I feel the same way but what is wrong with that? You have a great guy and should be thankful. Not many left at our age available.....it's not you.

[LuluVox]

First off,

You're smart.

You speak like an educated person

You're funny

You're gorgeous

You have more talent in your pinky that most people do in the entire lifetime.

And yeah, what Marc said. Tell that place to fuck itself. I think you rock.

Ditto that. I may not agree with every opinion you happen to have, but still, I recognize that all of the above quoted is true.