Single Again...

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

I'm single again...and this time I'm setting my standards high...but are my standards just a fantasy...am I actually worth what I want?

Physically fit, into anime/cosplay, video games and comics, talkitive, smart,sarcastic and funny,a dork,geek and nerd...

Hoenestly...is that too much?...am I worth what I want?...Is it just fantasy?...

[Saephyr]

Oh DBK..u are so worth what you set yourself up to be. If YOU really think that you are worth it then that's what you'll get for sure! If you just settle for anything that comes knocking, you get what ya pay for ya know?

You are not asking much for yourself just let yourself be you and when te right one sees who u r and what u r really like, she'll just fal for ya when you guys get to know each other for sure. How can any of the babes resist you anyway? Hell, I'm higher maintenance than you are man!

Just show 'em that u know u r worth what u expect and you will get it because you're confident. It makes people comfortable when a man is sure of himself. Women do it and men get the shit scared out of them Trust me...being 5' 10" at age 15 was horror when you have the cocky attitude that I carry around. It got worse when I was bodybuilding

I love you fo ryou if that helps you understand what I mean You're a treat!

[Der Nister]

A wise Jedi once said ...one bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.....no wait....a stitch in time saves nine.....no that isn't it......a penny saved is a......awwww fuck it.

Just go with how you feel a don't worry about things so much and it'll work out sooner or later. Trust me.

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

I haven't been feeling so confident latly though...

[Der Nister]

Ok - I'll let you in on a secret. You won't have much good luck going your way until you feel more confident so until then, you're gonna feel like you're spinning your wheels and going nowhere fast.

Just live life - have fun - and it will happen.

[BrassFusion]

I'm single again...and this time I'm setting my standards high...but are my standards just a fantasy...am I actually worth what I want?

Physically fit, into anime/cosplay, video games and comics, talkitive, smart,sarcastic and funny,a dork,geek and nerd...

Hoenestly...is that too much?...am I worth what I want?...Is it just fantasy?...

lol, since when are you into "athletic" chicks?

[creatureofthenyte]

It's better to be alone, then in bad company.

You should do things that make you happy.

Provide yourself with your own happiness, don't rely on, or look to other people to give you hapiness, because what they may give you, they could and sometimes do, take it away.

If you believe in yourself, and put your mind to it, you can do anything.

At least thats what I keep tellin myself.

[Saephyr]

Ok - I'll let you in on a secret. You won't have much good luck going your way until you feel more confident so until then, you're gonna feel like you're spinning your wheels and going nowhere fast.

Just live life - have fun - and it will happen.

Ain;t that what I was saying Der?

[celestial]

Just remember, you might pass the perfect person up if you set your standards to high, but do whats good for you, ur the one that has to be happy, dont let people stand in the middle of you and that.

[HipsterDufus]

I know I've never met you, but my advice is to keep your options open. Sure, someone might not like every single thing that you do, but if they keep you smiling and you really fall for them, why not go for it? A good relationship comes first. A good partner can grow into your interests (and you into theirs) and that can be a lot of fun, learning from each other. Just my 2¢.

[Gaf The Horse With Tears]

Get good with your self.. love will come along when your ready. It may hit you with a cluex4 upside the head or it may sneak up on you and pounce from nowhere. Set your standards anywhere you want... your head makes standards.. your heart is the one that falls in love. Rarely do they ever agree.

[BrassFusion]

Get good with your self.. love will come along when your ready. It may hit you with a cluex4 upside the head or it may sneak up on you and pounce from nowhere. Set your standards anywhere you want... your head makes standards.. your heart is the one that falls in love. Rarely do they ever agree.

True dat...

[kellygrrrrrl]

a wise one once said:

If you build your walls up too high, people will have a hard time finding ways to scale the walls....

some people aren't equipped to scale the walls.

You can lose friends and relationships this way.

Building walls up around your self is like building up a prison.

No one in, no one out.....that is not freedom

[BrassFusion]

a wise one once said:

If you build your walls up too high, people will have a hard time finding ways to scale the walls....

some people aren't equipped to scale the walls.

You can lose friends and relationships this way.

Building walls up around your self is like building up a prison.

No one in, no one out.....that is not freedom

That little nugget of wisdom is what helps you put up with my nonsense, isn't it?

[Onyx]

Get good with your self.. love will come along when your ready. It may hit you with a cluex4 upside the head or it may sneak up on you and pounce from nowhere. Set your standards anywhere you want... your head makes standards.. your heart is the one that falls in love. Rarely do they ever agree.

Oh man, isn't that the truth!

My heart keeps falling in love with ones who don't want to give their heart to me in return. I wish my heart could listen to my head and let me talk some sense into it.

[TygerLili]

Usually when someone makes a list like this, the person they end up only fits about a quarter of what's on the list. At least from what I've seen.

It's good that you have an idea what you want, but keep your options open.

[Saephyr]

Ah here's 1 thing...if you get a 'humpy pal' for those very lonely days.. don't ever think you have fallen for them since they are likely with you for the sex alone.

Boy have I taken forever to learn that !!!

[torn asunder]

i think if you have an ideal, and then are open to someone who matches maybe 70%, it's a good starting point for dating. figure out your deal-breakers, a couple-few "must-haves" and let the rest be open to experimentation!!

[Saephyr]

Great idea TA

[Brenda Starrr]

Whose ass do I have to kick, baby???

[SouthernFriedGhoul]

Yeah, you're worth it, and no, I'm NOT hitting on you.

In the meantime, enjoy being single too. Be yourself, the person everyone seems to hold in high regards on this site.

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

lol, since when are you into "athletic" chicks?

Well...i never had a prefrence...appearance is nothing to me...its personality...

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Whose ass do I have to kick, baby???

No ones just mine hunny bunches of oats...it'll cheer me up hahaha

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Thanks for the advice everyone...the list i have isnt going to decide who i date....I think in all honesty, it's just a spring board, you know? those are the things im going to look for...but if a girl doesnt hit all those requirements it wont decide if i'll date them...i mean we have to have some shit in common though...

[Brenda Starrr]

No ones just mine hunny bunches of oats...it'll cheer me up hahaha

Okay. Just one swift kick.