Single

[Head Wreck]

that two.

no-one knows someone like a good friend

[TygerLili]

It's nice to meet someone throught friends, but if you do, those friends will keep prying into your relationship to see how good they are at match-making. Plus if you break up, you have the same friends, so you still see each other all the time.

I don't know what the best way to meet someone is. I've never hooked up with someone on the internet. I've met most of the guys I've gone out with through friends. I met my first boyfriend in the street(it sounds even dumber typed out), and I met my current boyfriend when I was sloshed at City Club. It worked out well for us, but I wouldn't recommend it.

[Nienna]

My last 3 boyfriends came from DGN. LOL

I don't regret any of it either! Good guys all around. (and a shameless plug to try to help out my single DGN Home-boys)

[Mzdeadlyspell]

I am now single after two years. Just broke up on Saturday.

Wondering if there are any other good web sites people know of besides gothicmatch.com, gothicpersonals, vampire freaks, find a goth, and myspace?

Not even sure I am ready to do this single thing yet, just want to know what sites people have used, or places besides city club, luna, and mephisto's to meet good qaulity people in the scene.

thanks

[pharoh]

Yes DGN seems to work like Froyn said, we have been life partners for like 2.5 years now lol

Seriously though, I met my sweety on here

[Homicidalheathen]

Personally I don't like the internet for such things these days.....its too easy to lie about who you are and hide things....maybe put the word out to your freinds? That way you know something about them and have a few things in common.

[Msterbeau]

I met my last three girlsfriends via other friends. All connected in one way or another through DGN. All met initially at City Club. Heh.

If you want quirky, intellegent people... not neccesarily "goth" I'd recommend the personals at Salon.com/Nerve.com. They use the same pool of profiles. (Spring Street Network) You might also look at GreenSingles if the big sites (Match.com, etc) aren't doing it for you.

[Head Wreck]

the local bars are still the best place.

and why the rush anyhow. rushing things just get bad results. reationships, maintanance, ford cars. all bad news rushed

[n0Mad]

I have the worst luck ever meeting people so I can't really give any advice. Generally what happens with me is I give up all hope of ever meeting a woman, accept the fact that I will live a long life alone, and learn to be happy by myself. Then suddenly I happen to meet somebody wonderful. Unfortunately that never lasts and I'm back to being lonely for several years until I can accept it and repeat the cycle.

I don't have time and can't afford to go out places to meet people so I'm stuck doing it online. Unfortunately all the good dating sites you have to pay for. Oh, it's free to sign up and create a profile but you just can't talk to anybody without forking over some serious cash. OK-Cupid is free (and I know you have a profile there 'cuz I've talked to you before) but the quality of people there really suck. I have met a couple good ones though but they're young and flighty it seems. *sigh* Oh well.

[kellygrrrrrl]

"The One" might just be under your nose!

Mine was! HE was one of my best friends for years, and then boom, why didn't we do this sooner?

Internet stuff? Never tried it.

[Fierce Critter]

The vast majority of "happy couples" I know of were introduced to each other by friends.

Just saying.

[Draco1958]

I've tried a few sites for a while. No luck for me. I don't have friends who can introduce me to other people. If you do, try that first. I think that would be better over all.

[Msterbeau]

I should clarify that when I was introduced to the woman I dated through friends from here, there was no intent to get us together. Just a friend introducing me to someone else. Also.. the one's I'm no longer seeing are still cool people, they just weren't the right one for me.

[n0Mad]

(and a shameless plug to try to help out my single DGN Home-boys)

Rock on!

Also.. the one's I'm no longer seeing are still cool people, they just weren't the right one for me.

Uh huh. I read your results Mr. Invisible Ex.

[Rayne]

I met the last two people I dated through DGN.

The first one we're still great friends. Just weren't right for each other in that way.

The last one ... well, I'm marrying him in less than two weeks. Damn, the time flies by. :grin

I thank Troy everyday, without him even knowing it, for creating DGN and for have meeting friends like I have and for Phee. I don't think I would have met them any other way.

[DarkVampire]

From what I have seen and heard DGN is your friend in finding someone.

Just hasn't happened to me yet.

[Head Wreck]

it aint worked for me. but i think the atlantic ocean had more to do with it

[Hellion]

I would rather stay single for life IMO,I have too many priorities,that need to be

taken care of,and a trip to Europe is in the plans.

Other than that,if your looking for a partner,definately CC is not the right placeIMO.

Best of luck to you.

[Der Nister]

I am now single after two years. Just broke up on Saturday.

Wondering if there are any other good web sites people know of besides gothicmatch.com, gothicpersonals, vampire freaks, find a goth, and myspace?

Not even sure I am ready to do this single thing yet, just want to know what sites people have used, or places besides city club, luna, and mephisto's to meet good qaulity people in the scene.

thanks

How you doin?

[Der Nister]

bump

[Der Nister]

bump

[Morbid Side]

It's nice to meet someone throught friends, but if you do, those friends will keep prying into your relationship to see how good they are at match-making. Plus if you break up, you have the same friends, so you still see each other all the time.

I don't know what the best way to meet someone is. I've never hooked up with someone on the internet. I've met most of the guys I've gone out with through friends. I met my first boyfriend in the street(it sounds even dumber typed out), and I met my current boyfriend when I was sloshed at City Club. It worked out well for us, but I wouldn't recommend it.

Drink at your own risk.

[Mzdeadlyspell]

All good opinions and advice. I never really thought of DGN for a hook up. Hmmm who knows. I am a member of okcupid and some other places. I just was in a state of shock recently breaking up. Right now feeling more comfortable being single.

Thanks everyone ...

[Msterbeau]

Rock on!

Uh huh. I read your results Mr. Invisible Ex.

Do you really want me to reply and hurt your feelings?

[Msterbeau]

All good opinions and advice. I never really thought of DGN for a hook up. Hmmm who knows. I am a member of okcupid and some other places. I just was in a state of shock recently breaking up. Right now feeling more comfortable being single.

Thanks everyone ...

Time off is always a good decision. Think about the good, the bad and the lessons to be learned before moving on.