The New And Improved Klaus

[Klaus]

Well an ex who shall remain nameless did do one good thing in the many months we were together. While we were together i had noticed that many many many women had taken a notice to my person. was it just because i was taken? At first i believed so, then i just started to not care and just began to think, if their looking, that means i am hot. I used to have low self esteem/confidence and i just hid in the corner and hoped that someone would come over ask whats wrong and then boom i meet the girl of my dreams. a few girls came over, but i was to shy to pursue conversation. since i have been single i have realized that i have more confidence than ever, and i have an ego the size of Alaska. Ive noticed and been told that having Confidence and self esteem shows. I will admit it does suck being single, BUT i am completely happy with myself and i don't care what anyone thinks. and being flirted with at Necto just makes it all that much better.

Not to have an ego boost or anything, but.... I am hot. I am one sexy stud. Antonio Banderas look out, Klaus is on the way! just you ladies look out, ill make your jaws drop.

I'm hot. *sizzle*

lol so yes boost of confidence kicks ass!

And don't worry im not letting it go to my head. i know when to be non ego trip.

Im just really happy that I'm now happy with myself and how i look. i used to be really weight concious and was not confident and didnt think i looked hot at all. so basically i never took care of myself and i actually DID look bad because i never took care of myself. Now i do. I look hot!!!

*smiles* i love life!

[Onyx]

Good for you Klaus!

[JaneDead]

yay for being hot. lukewarm is nice too.

[Guest Megalicious]

Women can sense that confidence and ego, and they are drawn to it like flies to shit my friend.

[glc]

Klaus, can I borrow some of your mojo?

[BrassFusion]

bah! you can't reinvent yourself overnight. that right is reserved for david bowie alone. and confidence is one thing, but if you were REALLY level with yourself, being single wouldn't "suck." i mean, *especially* not at a a time like this.

why not just enjoy the bitches throwing themselves at you for a while? you're young. and to be fair, you've been hot the whole time.

and greg, git yer grubby hands off his mojo. you really don't need it. you've got the *ACCENT.*

[glc]

but but but, when I'm there, I've got the accent, here, I need the mojo!

[Homicidalheathen]

Women can sense that confidence and ego, and they are drawn to it like flies to shit my friend.

I agree. Although there are a few drama queens who only want someone who is taken.....most women are no different than most men....we want someone who is happy and secure within themselves. You go dude!

[Klaus]

Klaus, can I borrow some of your mojo?

Ok, think like i do!

Or if you cant do that use this simple handy guide to keep your mojo flowing like Niagara falls

The 3 easy steps to more mojo.

Step 1. You are hot. DO NOT let anyone tell you otherwise, their ass holes.

Step 2. Confidence shows. its been said, it shows. be confident, you are the man. but dont yell it out. thats bad.

Step 3. Hygiene. period. smell nice... everywhere!

[glc]

I'm fucking pumped!! need to go out.... look out ladies!!!

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Well an ex who shall remain nameless did do one good thing in the many months we were together. While we were together i had noticed that many many many women had taken a notice to my person. was it just because i was taken? At first i believed so, then i just started to not care and just began to think, if their looking, that means i am hot. I used to have low self esteem/confidence and i just hid in the corner and hoped that someone would come over ask whats wrong and then boom i meet the girl of my dreams. a few girls came over, but i was to shy to pursue conversation. since i have been single i have realized that i have more confidence than ever, and i have an ego the size of Alaska. Ive noticed and been told that having Confidence and self esteem shows. I will admit it does suck being single, BUT i am completely happy with myself and i don't care what anyone thinks. and being flirted with at Necto just makes it all that much better.

Not to have an ego boost or anything, but.... I am hot. I am one sexy stud. Antonio Banderas look out, Klaus is on the way! just you ladies look out, ill make your jaws drop.

I'm hot. *sizzle*

lol so yes boost of confidence kicks ass!

And don't worry im not letting it go to my head. i know when to be non ego trip.

Im just really happy that I'm now happy with myself and how i look. i used to be really weight concious and was not confident and didnt think i looked hot at all. so basically i never took care of myself and i actually DID look bad because i never took care of myself. Now i do. I look hot!!!

*smiles* i love life!

Ok, I am not meaning to sound negative here. It's just that, I felt the same way as you did/do.

I suffered from low self esteem. I thought I was a 'nothing'. But then I started going to the clubs. I was getting flirted with left and right. I even dated some models. That was a hell of a confidence boost.

But then I'd start dating and within days it would end. Or they'd tell me they weren't 'ready for a relationship', but then days after telling me that they'd have a new boyfreind whom wasn't me. Almost as if they'd come up with excuses not to be with me, but they'd be with anyone else.

Then I had my eyes opened. The painful but yet neccessary truth was told to me. I was told about the diffrence between club girls and women.

"Club girls" are those girls who are incredibly social and flirt with ANY guy. The 'fakes'. They only socialize with guys to increase the number of guys to talk to. To be more 'popular'. They don't care about your feelings for them. They see you as just another person, that's all. And these are the girls I thought actually liked me. I didn't realized they just viewed me as another person to socialize with. One more person to add to their arsonal of people to say they 'know'. These girls will be there to party with you and be there to hang out. But if it comes to something more serious like something gone awry in your life, they won't be there. They won't have anything in their life that pulls them away from their 'party life'. Hence why they will not be in a relationship, because that ties them down and closes the possiblilty of talking to more guys. They only want to 'see people' or 'date' because that means they aren't exclusive to you or anyone else.

Then there's women. Real women.They are the ones that are worth your attention. Because they'll be there for you regardless of the situation. They don't see you as a number, but as a freind. Not only will they be there for you and your problems, but they'll also come to you with their problems. They'll want to hang out with you if it's a party or even if it's next to your bed during a hospital visit after a major surgery. A real women will talk to you as your sobbing over the phone to her as she comforts you right after a valued family member/freind just passed away. You won't get a 'fake club girl' to do that for you.

This is the painful truth I had pointed out to me by a good freind. It hurt, alot, to hear it. And at first I denied it. I told her she was just jealous. But over time, I had come to realize what she had said to be true. I just hope this doesn't hurt you as much as it did me. Hell, it still kind of bugs me to think about it. And to be brutally honest, it's the main reason why I refuse to get into a relationship now. I was too trusting. I need to stop lowering my gaurd to everyone that I come to contact with. Because of that I get hurt very easily. Once I learn how to put my gaurd up again, like I had done after Brittani, then maybe I can handle a relationship. But untill then, I have to stop being so trusting and niave.

[pomba gira]

Women can sense that confidence and ego, and they are drawn to it like flies to shit my friend.

Yes indeed... not just women either, it really works both ways!

Goodies for you Klaus! You've learned a valuable lesson- just be glad you got it this early in your life!