Am I just pathetic???

[LadyWindstone]

I haven't had a date in about 8 months. The date i did have we went out once and that was enough for me. Talk about moron. and clingy too. One date and he's hugging all over me. GAH!!!

I need someone who is intelligent and has long hair. Am I just dreaming? I don't know. We'll see.

Confused yet?

I am.

[Nienna]

I haven't had a date in about 8 months. The date i did have we went out once and that was enough for me. Talk about moron. and clingy too. One date and he's hugging all over me. GAH!!!

I need someone who is intelligent and has long hair. Am I just dreaming? I don't know. We'll see.

Confused yet?

I am.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

No.. not really pathetic.. but then I really can't talk.. *L* MY love life is kinda like a piece of roadkill at this point.

[Fierce Critter]

After one jerk after another, I finally decided I was better off on my own, sticking to standards, than wasting my time on creeps who weren't good for me.

It took 2 years on my own - totally. But then Jon IM'd me, and 6 years later... :

Don't be afraid to stick to standards and enjoy your own company for a while, dearie. You might find yourself available when mr. tall, dark, longhaired & smart comes along. :

By the way, Jon is smart - and had hair to the middle of his back... it DOES happen...

[paradox]

I need someone who is intelligent and has long hair.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

HI! : :laughing:

[SomeDanGuy]

Damn!

*waits to reply for a couple months*

[paradox]

no, go ahead dan. my ole lady would probably kill me anyway. or at least laugh at me....

[honeymustard02]

Enjoy being single. nuff said.

[LadyWindstone]

Why are all the good ones taken???? I'm probably going to end up staying alone for a long while. At least until tall, dark, longhaired, and smart finally realizes that I'm here.

[TomCat]

No.. not really pathetic.. but then I really can't talk.. *L* MY love life is kinda like a piece of roadkill at this point.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I feel you on this sentiment Nienna.

Lady, I'm short, fat, and a cleancut Irish guy....I wish I could help you out hun.

[Jarodaka]

Why are all the good ones taken????

They're like parking spaces...

tall

-ish

dark

<----- uhm, no

longhaired

...I give up.

and smart

My I.Q. is 10. I'm considered an all-knowing deity in my rock garden.

realizes that I'm here.

Ooh, look, semi-boneless ham is on sale at Kroger!

[Troy Spiral (13)]

I tried to reply to this one about 5 times but my "don't be afraid of being alone if its not the right one, freedom is good" speech never came off just right. But i figured i'd give it a try anyhow.

Is there a rush? Your not going to turn into a pumpkin at midnight Cinderella style. When the right guy comes along he comes along, if he doesn't, he doesn't.

Some the most content times in my life where when i was with no one, and also was in a mental-space where i didn't have the "i must have a S.O. or I am inadequate" feeling thing that society (i feel) has taught us and mother nature has a smaller hand in.

Im not a big believer in the "if i cant have Mr. Right I'll Settle For Mr. Right Now" thing. Causes to much hurt, to both parties, usually in the form of self-esteem damage or other similar things.

Keep an eye out for Mr. Right , but dont put a time limit on it or feel that just becasue he hasnt come along yet somethings wrong with you. Find things you like to do in the meantime, theres a whole universe out there , its pretty interesting. =)

[torn asunder]

two things, troy... one, you're right, two, you piss me off... :ermm:

[Daevion]

Why are all the good ones taken???? I'm probably going to end up staying alone for a long while. At least until tall, dark, longhaired, and smart finally realizes that I'm here.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Thats not completely true. I'm "no good" and I'm taken.

[LadyWindstone]

Troy you are right. I'm just feeling really lonely lately. Partly cause I can't afford to go out every weekend. Partly cause I have no one to cuddle with. Partly cause I'm a highly sexual person and I'm FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Been a long time since I had that. But I won't go there.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

....two, you piss me off...  :ermm:

I piss myself off a lot too actually.

Troy you are right. I'm just feeling really lonely lately.

Im a good listener, at the least.

[Scary Guy]

I'm pretty sure I'm going to die alone, so I guess you get used to it after a while.

At least there is hope for you.

[LadyWindstone]

you won't die alone. YOu have too many friends. whiether you like it or not.

[Scary Guy]

What you call friends I call aquaintances.

The ammount of friends I have I can count on one hand (outside club people).

But I guess you're right in a way that I have too many "friends" lol.

Bah I have a journal I can go whine in, I try not to express my problems as it just brings other people down.

[torn asunder]

What you call friends I call aquaintances.

The ammount of friends I have I can count on one hand (outside club people).

this sounds exactly like me... i'm still trying to define the word "friends", and having some trouble...

I need someone who is intelligent and has long hair. Am I just dreaming? I don't know. We'll see.

find someone who's intelligent, and get them to grow their hair, maybe!?

[LadyWindstone]

I"d like that but most of the short hairs that I know tend to be a little either shy OR full of themselves. I'm too outspoken for shy and way too confident for concietedness.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

I guess the phrase "really close friends" is what i use. I do feel like i have a lot of "friends" (some of which i could call acquaintances) but "close friends" i can count on... less than one hand.

Which , i think is fairly common actually. Not anything to feel bad about. To really get "close" to someone it takes a lot of time & effort, would be hard to have say... 2 dozen "close , active, friends".

Ok so , now that i know that, and have it intellectualized out.... wtf... how come most of us still feel somewhat "alone"? god damnit, not enough hugs that's the culprit im sure. >nods head:tongue:

[LadyWindstone]

Troy, you do know i love you sometimes right???

*****************HUGS**************

[DarkChylde]

Whut keeps me company is drugs lol, j/k

[LadyWindstone]

Drugs don't work for me. I read instead. That takes me away from reality for longer the drugs.

[lullaby1031]

How does that old saying go? "It'll happen when you least expect it - ..." If you don't go "looking" around and just fill up the time you use to think about it with hanging out with people - chances are they'll be right infront of you when you least expect it. So enjoy yourself now and have fun! It's just a waiting game for the right time.