Dating Tips..

[know_buddy_kares]

somehow i always get really drunk and then wake up the next day not remembering what i've done or said... but get replies on myspace from absolute hotties. Pretty much that's stopped since i quit drinking after i woke up naked in a patch of poison ivy but... i'd still like to know how i got em talking to be to begine with dammit lmao...

...one i kinda remember was "wow you're so hot i wanna knock you up"... oddly enough.. that worked..

she kept bugging to meet up with me for a week after that...

[jadnifer]

Wow...this is funny.

All the advice is to trust yourself. If something feels wrong, it probably is. We humans dont know how to trust our instincts very well.

[Msterbeau]

Wow...this is funny.

All the advice is to trust yourself. If something feels wrong, it probably is. We humans dont know how to trust our instincts very well.

Because our teaching is that our inner feelings are just BS. My experience is that they are themost important ones we have. BUT... you have to separate it from the other thoughts you have. Quiet your mind and it'll be there.

[jadnifer]

Because our teaching is that our inner feelings are just BS. My experience is that they are themost important ones we have. BUT... you have to separate it from the other thoughts you have. Quiet your mind and it'll be there.

Exactly

[Reaper]

Screw and be screwed. Its what life is all about.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

Every movie, fluff novel... TV show (or psycho ex) i ever saw teaches us 'go with your feelings'. Most of modern pop society is all about "do what feels right", that's whats "taught" culturally.

"Do what feels right" almost always is a recipe for disaster, if its not at least fairly heavily guided by your "non feelings" (also know as intellectual reasoning, the uniquely human thing that even allows us to ponder such stuff) This whole thread is filled with examples of reasoning, and NOT just going with your gut.

Worst decisions I've ever made have been from just letting my guts/emotions do the thinking and not my brain. I'd be very careful about the "do what feels right" line of reasoning.

[Reaper]

If I did "what feels right" every time I met someone, I would be morbidly heartbroken. To some people, what feels right always feels right until you find out later that it really didn't. There are many who often fall victim to their own heart. I know I did it for quite some time.

[Darus313]

Hmmmmm....

On a first date - believe on laying it all - no games no lies... just honesty at it's purest...

This shirt (i wear on blind dates) usually breaks the ice and sets the tone on my first dates..!

D

P.S - i hope this helps the guyz out there!

[Msterbeau]

Every movie, fluff novel... TV show (or psycho ex) i ever saw teaches us 'go with your feelings'. Most of modern pop society is all about "do what feels right", that's whats "taught" culturally.

"Do what feels right" almost always is a recipe for disaster, if its not at least fairly heavily guided by your "non feelings" (also know as intellectual reasoning, the uniquely human thing that even allows us to ponder such stuff) This whole thread is filled with examples of reasoning, and NOT just going with your gut.

Worst decisions I've ever made have been from just letting my guts/emotions do the thinking and not my brain. I'd be very careful about the "do what feels right" line of reasoning.

I think there's a difference between the "do what feels good" conscious voice and the one I'm talking about. The one I'm talking about is usually the voice of reason and self-preservation... not stupid, selfish leaps of faith.

[Reaper]

Hmmmmm....

On a first date - believe on laying it all - no games no lies... just honesty at it's purest...

This shirt (i wear on blind dates) usually breaks the ice and sets the tone on my first dates..!

D

P.S - i hope this helps the guyz out there!

I could use that lunchpail....oh and the shirt too.

[Daevion]

the key is to not follow your "instincts" blindly.....there is method in the chaos if you can see it.

[Reaper]

the key is to not follow your "instincts" blindly.....there is method in the chaos if you can see it.

Yes Master Yoda... :D

[Daevion]

Yes Master Yoda... :D

....or a walking fortune cookie...oh your lucky numbers are : 1, 2, 3, 4, 5

[hunhee]

....or a walking fortune cookie...oh your lucky numbers are : 1, 2, 3, 4, 5

"1,2,3,4,5? That's the type of password an idiot would have on his luggage!!!"

[odims_sphere]

"1,2,3,4,5? That's the type of password an idiot would have on his luggage!!!"

Remind me to change the combination of my luggage!

[hunhee]

Remind me to change the combination of my luggage!

[odims_sphere]

[Reaper]

Hunhee will pwn yer panties Odims.

[pharoh]

Don't be blind, watch and keep an eye on everything, that follow your heart shit is bs....I did it twice and like reaper said I got morbidly screwed over

[CatsEyeOfTheWiccan]

Well, guess something of young soul vs. old soul..depending how you feel and let the feelings go right..and sometimes your wrong. And admit your wrong how things ended and learn from your mistakes and not do them again in your new relenships.

-CatsEye

[Guest Megalicious]

A good tip would be :

When someone asks you "Whats your sign?" don't reply, "FUCKING CHRIST YOU DON'T BELIVE IN THAT SHIT DO YOU????"

Usually kinda is off-putting. Hehe.

LOL, I would just like to note that Troy Rules.

Carry on.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

LOL, I would just like to note that Troy Rules.

Carry on.

[Reaper]

You lush.

[raziel4772]

my advise....DON'T. just run far run fast and hide. they're all crazy and will drive you crazy if you let them if its not too late for you. SAVE YOURSELF GO GO GO!!!

[hunhee]

Hunhee will pwn yer panties Odims.

If I could make money off of that.. I'd donate that to DGN ..*giggles*