Are You Happy?

[Sybil]

So..

Sound off y'all..

You are single.

You are engaged.

You are married, dating, living with someone..

You have been with someone for 2 years and you know all the habits.. you know what will be said next 64% of the time.. they make you laugh.. cry.. you want to punch a baby in the face sometimes.. (not really. Found an opportunity to quote Dane Cook and took it.. thats all..)

What's your QUALITY like? Are ya happy?

Any advice for any ole' thing?

Sound off guys and grrls..

All of ya..

Post now.

Happy? Unhappy? Throw some advice.

Hit it.

[hunhee]

Right now I'd say that I'm in a transitional period, and am a little too uneasy with everything to be happy or content. I will definitely let you all know what the outcome of all my adventures (or mis-adventures) are when the time is right. It seems like right now is a time of extreme highs and extreme lows.. Sometimes I think we all need these periods to remind us that we're alive.. All I know is that I've laughed and cried in the same instance.. and without pause..

[Sybil]

*Hugs HunHee!!*

hang in there honey.

(You are so cute when you are being vague. )

[Kit Kat P]

Happy, but my past has me trepidatious, there are still possibly deal breakers in our relationship

[hunhee]

*Hugs HunHee!!*

hang in there honey.

(You are so cute when you are being vague. )

I love progress but I loath change.. but you can't have progress without change.. *sighs* *HUGS*

[kellygrrrrrl]

hmmm....well, I'll only go as far as this as it is public....

I am married and it's not that I am unhappy....

we just seemed to have grown apart over the years and it just seems more lonely than it has to, being we are married.....

we really don't do anything together.

We have very seperate lives.....

But we've had a conversation recently that has more or less put things on the line....

improvements have been made.....

there are other areas of concern that have also been touched on....

all I can say is time will tell....

on a side note....I think I got married under the wrong circumstances...and there shouldn't be circumstances when it comes to getting married...you know?

But I would not say I am unhappy...no.

Just concerned about some things....rightfully so.

[Daevion]

I'm awesome

[Msterbeau]

Right now I'd say that I'm in a transitional period, and am a little too uneasy with everything to be happy or content. I will definitely let you all know what the outcome of all my adventures (or mis-adventures) are when the time is right. It seems like right now is a time of extreme highs and extreme lows.. Sometimes I think we all need these periods to remind us that we're alive.. All I know is that I've laughed and cried in the same instance.. and without pause..

Damn you!!! Get out of my head!!!

This is remarkably like me too. A very transitional, restless point in my life. Not altogether unhappy but certainly not feeling very satisfied or calm about where things are at. Probably a lot to do with the fact that I want to get back to Michigan and be amongst my family and friends again... and I won't know when that is happening until I have a job offer in hand.

[hunhee]

Damn you!!! Get out of my head!!!

This is remarkably like me too. A very transitional, restless point in my life. Not altogether unhappy but certainly not feeling very satisfied or calm about where things are at. Probably a lot to do with the fact that I want to get back to Michigan and be amongst my family and friends again... and I won't know when that is happening until I have a job offer in hand.

Oh goodness... I read this wrong at first.. heh heh *EG* When did you allow me to be such a perv!!?!?!??! I blame you ..you do realize this right? I was so innocent before I met and started talking to you and people on DGN .. *hides guilty smirk*

[saechalyn]

I can't say I'm happy about being single, but I can't really complain too loudly because I know I don't do much to change it. I'm just not the type who can go "looking" for a relationship. I'm always open to meeting new people and if more develops then great. I need it to be a natural organic thing, not something forced. I'm very uncomfortable with dating.

In summary, I know what I want and I'm willing to be single until I find it. That doesn't mean I don't get lonely but...I'd rather be lonely and single than lonely in a relationship that didn't feel right.

[Msterbeau]

I didn't say get OFF my head. Sheesh.

You're blaming the wrong person. I am pure like fresh powdery snow...

[Kit Kat P]

pure as the driven over snow

[Shade Everdark]

Happy.

At this point in life, I scorn happy. Happy has largely come to mean complacent for me, and I'm tired of acting complacent, if not exactly feeling it. What I can do to change, I am doing.

If that's a cryptic answer, I apologize, it's the best I can give.

[Head Wreck]

single and never better

[Draco1958]

Single and unhappy. I long for someone to share a thunderstorm with or a walk in the park or watching a movie/playing music with just candles lit. Haven't had any highs in a while. Mainly just lows and low lows. Somedays life sucks.

[creatureofthenyte]

I love progress but I loath change.. but you can't have progress without change.. *sighs* *HUGS*

very true, which could be a reason why I got my hair cut, although this was not on my mind when I got it cut.

[sass_in_the_pants]

Definitely happy.

Lots of changes are happening to us right now, but there's no one I'd rather weather the changes with than him.

Honestly.

He's a peach.

[bean]

I'm mostly happy. I hate that we are so far apart and we don't get to spend as much time with each other as we'd like, and a certain rotten bitch makes things more difficult...but it's all been worth it..every laugh, every tear, every moment of anger..the joy, the pain...just knowing that it will get easier and we won't always be so far apart.

[Reaper]

I'm ok some days and miserable others when I go out and see so many couples out there enjoying themselves. Makes me wonder why I had to be so picky lol. Other than that, work keeps me fairly busy during the week so I don't end up thinking about it. What is making me happy at the moment is the many thoughts of what I will do with the hearse and what it will look like when its done :D

[Homicidalheathen]

Happy. Too old to care about much so I guess its easier these days lol I dont have the energy to worry anymore.

[Sybil]

hmmm....well, I'll only go as far as this as it is public....

I am married and it's not that I am unhappy....

we just seemed to have grown apart over the years and it just seems more lonely than it has to, being we are married.....

we really don't do anything together.

We have very seperate lives.....

But we've had a conversation recently that has more or less put things on the line....

improvements have been made.....

there are other areas of concern that have also been touched on....

all I can say is time will tell....

on a side note....I think I got married under the wrong circumstances...and there shouldn't be circumstances when it comes to getting married...you know?

But I would not say I am unhappy...no.

Just concerned about some things....rightfully so.

*Hugs for KELLY*

though i dont know the "ins and outs" of your life.. what you typed "sounds familiar"

Hang in there hunn!!!

[Sybil]

This is remarkably like me too. A very transitional, restless point in my life. Not altogether unhappy but certainly not feeling very satisfied or calm about where things are at. Probably a lot to do with the fact that I want to get back to Michigan and be amongst my family and friends again... and I won't know when that is happening until I have a job offer in hand.

Aww.. Come home!! Come be with all of us so we can make you crazy and make you wish you could be back in KY!!

hehehe

(It would be great to start seeing you around all the time.. seeing you at NECTO was a great surprise!!)

[Sybil]

I'm just not the type who can go "looking" for a relationship. I'm always open to meeting new people and if more develops then great. I need it to be a natural organic thing, not something forced. I'm very uncomfortable with dating.

In summary, I know what I want and I'm willing to be single until I find it. That doesn't mean I don't get lonely but...I'd rather be lonely and single than lonely in a relationship that didn't feel right.

This may sound weird, but good for you!!!!! I think thats admirable!!!! Lonely sucks. But knowing yourself and making wise decisions is admirable. (I hated dating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) "Lonely in a relationship that doesnt feel right" <---- The WORST feeling.. ya cant breathe in that situation. it will suck the life right out of you

(I loved being single. I loved going out to eat by myself.. sitting and having a cup of coffee at the local coffeehouse and watching the birds play.. going thriftstoring on my day off.. driving around detroit taking pics of graffiti... Being single, for me, was fun. I could do whatever I wanted and my life and silly fun choices werent under a microscope. And I met alot of interesting wonderful people... Sometimes I -for a moment- miss being single...

[Sybil]

Single and unhappy. I long for someone to share a thunderstorm with or a walk in the park or watching a movie/playing music with just candles lit. Haven't had any highs in a while. Mainly just lows and low lows. Somedays life sucks.

Aww..

*Hugs for you!!*

(hahaha Somedays life sucks WORSE when there is someone RIGHT there ALL the time. hahaha I am saying this in jest with a sprinkle of true... )

I hope you find exactly what you need!!

[Sybil]

I'm mostly happy. I hate that we are so far apart and we don't get to spend as much time with each other as we'd like, and a certain rotten bitch makes things more difficult...but it's all been worth it..every laugh, every tear, every moment of anger..the joy, the pain...just knowing that it will get easier and we won't always be so far apart.

AAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!

Okay.. is it just me???

*re-reads*

Nope.. right there in the middle it says "and a certain rotten bitch makes things more difficult"..

Catch me Bean .. I am fallin' down laughin' at this...

*HUGS*

Well whoever she is, I hope she stops causing you hard times.