So.... The Shit Has Hit The Fan

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

I haven't been given a deadline, but things are getting worse.... Male parental figure is going through a mid-life crises, or some shit, and is taking it out on the one's that he loves... the constant bickering... the emotional abuse towards Female parental figure. They are my family, but he's acting like and ass.. he wants to throw me out of the house, for standing up for Female parental figure... Its a long and complicated story... if anyone wants to hear it, let me know, and I'll PM it to you... But anyways... i need to look for a place to live, but I can't find a job, and I have no vehicle of my own.... who wants a room mate that has nothing? no one... yeah... so.... i guess its back to VA, w/ my mom, but me and her aren't at a point where I can live w/ her. Its not that I don't love her, or that we are mad at each other, its the fact that we had to start over, and we aren't emotionally ready to live under the same roof... I don't know what to do.. I'm really upset about this... i hate this.... a lot of this is beyond my control... but its all somehow my fault (sarcasm)... so yeah... leave comments, or PM me.. either way, i need some advice.. thanks guys... I don't want to leave MI, just yet... i have friends here that I don't want to leave, and I'm making new friends, that I don't want to just up and leave...anyways... i love it here... don't ask me why, but I do... so yeah.. any help or advice, would be appreciated.

Thanks,

Andrea

[deathfearsnone]

pm me girl

[freydis]

I'd look for a job, a place near the job, and public transportation for until you can get a cheap car. You can usually find a POS somewhere for a few hundred bucks....

[creatureofthenyte]

maybe there is a decent hotel nearby that you could get a room and perhaps job at too...

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

I have been looking for a job for the last 6 months... area of where I can look is limited b/c my ride is a POS... so yeah....

[saechalyn]

May not work for you, but just an idea: If you like kids, you may be able to find a job as a live-in nanny. Free room and board, no utility bills. It does mean sacrificing some freedom but you can save up money fast.

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

yeah, that's a good idea...

[freydis]

What city are you in?

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

I live in Belleville

[Homicidalheathen]

Keep us updated ok?

I saw a live in job in the paper taking care of an elderly lady buts its in Macomb county.

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

I think that I'm going to post fliers at out mailboxes to see if I can get a baby sitting job around my neighborhood.. wish me luck!

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

wht? wow..... was I hallucinating?