The Ex-wife.....

[GOREgeouslyDecorated]

yeah, i agree.. oh hell, I don't remember being THAT bad in 2rd grade... wait a minute...

nevermind... i was worse... sorry.. wow

*cries.."mom, I'm sorry!*

anywho.... good luck...

*hugs*

and remember:

rock bottom is good solid ground,

and a dead end is a good place to turn around....

very nice quote

[the eternal]

I wish I could sympathize, but I just haven't had a bad experience with my ex.

She has been nothing but supportive, and understanding of my relationship with Bean Water,

and of the way I live my life.

I think you're missing one thing--the care and effort that went behind the gross defamation of your character.

They say the people that ignore you are the ones that don't care.

Look back at all the times she's called you insane names and slandered you.

It's her way of reaching out.

When she calls you fat or ugly,

she's really just trying to say "I love you"

She just doesn't know how to express it

It's sad really.

I've taken to relish the subtle charms of being told by MY ex that I'm

"a loser asshole who cares about no one but himself and obviously latched on to the first whore" I "could find, since there's no one I'll ever find that's as good as" her.

It's moments like these that I reflect on at Valentine's and know that this world has endless capacity for love.

[GOREgeouslyDecorated]

I'm starting to feel bad...

So Darcy sent a comment to someone that I am an aquantence with - she it the editor for INKEDGIRLZ.com... and it goes as follows...

Feb 24 2008 9:25 PM

NM, she deleted her page and left an aways message blaming "stupid people" and saying to "please contact Jon" for info on her new page. Jon is belle's dad and my husband... he hasn't called me even after i told him that this girl called my house two times in one day.. he's blown me off and his daughter off for this girl. whatever. i think it's all trash i don't want to be on any site that bitch is on because she's nothing but a negative whore.

btw, I have NEVER called her house - the one and only time that I have EVER talked to her was when SHE called ME shit faced at 4 in the fucking morning...

This is really getting old - I never had a problem with her... I was never a fan of her, but I never spoke bad of her ever until recently and it was only to illustrate the shit SHE'S been doing, and even then it wasn't as nasty as what she's been saying to me and about it... is she doing this for attention?? is she really just THAT bored with her life?? IDK, I just want her to leave me alone, I dont bother her and send her and her friends nasty little msgs, so why is she doing this to me?? Hell, I've never even heard of these ppl that were sending me msgs B4 until they msged me 1st and I only responded once and it WASN'T mean at all (I save anything and everything that Dacry has been sending me)... I actually kinda feel bad for her... someone go be nice to her... I think she needs a hug or something....

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

very nice quote

ty, ty

believe it or not, i saw that in the signature of someone who is on VF! (yes I still go on there) I am a memeber of Advice.... its a "cult"(-such a stupid name for a mini forum!) that gives advice to people who are cutters, or suicidal. Like alternative to pulling out the razor and things like that... pushing them to make the right decision. I only get on there, like once a week, but yeah. I was there once... so i know what those kids are going through

anyways, back on topic (sorry about that...) I don't know what's up with ex's. Its like they are trying to reclaim what they lost, eventho 90% of the time, they were the ones that ended it, either through their actions, or even saying the "we should see other ppl" bit. I don't know... I was dating this guy once, and his ex stopped me in the girls bathroom to inform me that I'd "never be as good as [her] and that he'd always be [her's]" she was dating someone else at the time. Yeah it was a shitty relationship, but it did last 2 years! lol anyways... i think that, in their minds, ppl that act like that, they still feel that you are theirs, and that if you can't be happy with them, then they will make your life misserable with someone else (or make the life miserable of the new person in your life) Either way, its childish and stupid. These ppl need to grow up, and move on. OR.. someone should gather up all the psycho ex's and put them on an island together, with no connection to the outside world,with, who ever is new in their life.. so either the all beat the crap out of each other, or are forced to get over what ever ex they cling to.. LMAO... i know that was a terrible idea... oh well... yeah.....

[TygerLili]

I have to ask; is he blowing off his daughter to be with you? If he is, that's not right. I'm not saying it's necessarily your fault, but children should always come before one's significant other, no matter how that person feels about their ex.

On the other hand, if she's just making it up, the best thing you can do is completely ignore her. By you deleting your page you're letting her know that she's getting under your skin, which is what she wants. Isn't there someone on myspace that you can report her to if she's harrassing you?

[jadnifer]

ty, ty

believe it or not, i saw that in the signature of someone who is on VF! (yes I still go on there) I am a memeber of Advice.... its a "cult"(-such a stupid name for a mini forum!) that gives advice to people who are cutters, or suicidal. Like alternative to pulling out the razor and things like that... pushing them to make the right decision. I only get on there, like once a week, but yeah. I was there once... so i know what those kids are going through

anyways, back on topic (sorry about that...) I don't know what's up with ex's. Its like they are trying to reclaim what they lost, eventho 90% of the time, they were the ones that ended it, either through their actions, or even saying the "we should see other ppl" bit. I don't know... I was dating this guy once, and his ex stopped me in the girls bathroom to inform me that I'd "never be as good as [her] and that he'd always be [her's]" she was dating someone else at the time. Yeah it was a shitty relationship, but it did last 2 years! lol anyways... i think that, in their minds, ppl that act like that, they still feel that you are theirs, and that if you can't be happy with them, then they will make your life misserable with someone else (or make the life miserable of the new person in your life) Either way, its childish and stupid. These ppl need to grow up, and move on. OR.. someone should gather up all the psycho ex's and put them on an island together, with no connection to the outside world,with, who ever is new in their life.. so either the all beat the crap out of each other, or are forced to get over what ever ex they cling to.. LMAO... i know that was a terrible idea... oh well... yeah.....

That would be a good idea. However, we would all still be on that island together because one or more of people's exes probably dislike you for some odd ball reason and you dislike them, so that puts all on the island together again which totally defeats the purpose. LOL!