This Really Sucks

[jadnifer]

I know that I may sound petty, but I'm crying as I'm typing this right now.

Dave (my boyfriend) was supposed to come over this weekend. Well, I called him to remind him to bring his stuff with him and he told me that he was sick. That part isn't such a big deal. I know what it's like to be sick.

What really sucks about this situation is the fact that he has plans next weekend and won't be able to come over then. So we will have to wait until the weekend after next to see each other. I know that three weeks doesn't seem like that much time but it really is when you consider in the fact that we haven't gone longer than 5 days without seeing each other since we met and now we have to go 21 days without seeing each other.

I'm sorry if I sound like a big baby, I just needed to tell someone and I knew that you guys would listen.

I guess I have to go by the quote that my mom always said, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." As true as that is, it's hard as hell to get into that mind set.

[Destroit]

It's okay Jad, I'll be your boyfriend.

So he's not coming over tonight? *siiigh* Sorry to hear, man. 21 days is a massively long time to go without getting laid.

[Miranda]

Sorry about that. I can't stand to be disappointed when I have had my heart set on doing something. Especially being with someone I really care for. I think you should try to do something tonight though, you'll feel better. Sitting home will just make you wish Dave was there with you. Feel better.

[CandyQuackenbush]

21 days isn't that bad. *hugs* Yesh, it sucks, but it could be longer. He's just looking out for you by not comming over and giving you the sickies.

I went 8 months before I could be with Odims again.

[bean]

It sucks, but I understand. The eternal and I have gone a month or more without seeing each other and it's agony. Only seeing him once a week is agony. The distance is painful. But, there is always the phone, and e-mail, so it helps, some.

[SuZQZ]

[creatureofthenyte]

Ive done long distance relationships, so I can identify with this, although currently for me, not so much.

Look on the bright side though, when you do see him, it will feel that much better, and at least you Have someone to see

[TygerLili]

Yes, distance sucks! Thought it does give you a new perspective on your relationship.

In my own long-distance quasi-relationship, I'm flying out to see him in the middle of April, and at that time it will have been three months since we last saw each other. *sighs*

[hunhee]

Awww.. I feel for you hon.. *hugs*

I have a question for all of you.. I think I'll take a poll....

[Morbid Side]

You have to make the best out of a bad situation.

[Homicidalheathen]

Hang in there.

When K and I first got together it was once a week only......we moved in together 2 months later.

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

well, keep in mind sweetie, I haven't seen the love of my life in like 2 years! and we just found each other again, have been dating since December, and I still won't be able to see him until August! But i know what its like to want to see someone, and can't. Boy do i know... lol

Hope that it works out to where you can see him before that time.

Man, i love you guys. Tell Dave i send my love. We need to hang out, again, tho.... :D

Sorry, jacked your thread... back to giving loves!

lol

[jadnifer]

Thanks guys! I really appreciate it. it's not really a long-distance relationship...he only lives about 6 miles away, but he is terribly busy throughout the week, so really his only available time in on the weekends. I don't mind that though because he is doing something that he loves and that is practicing with his bands. I am proud of him and that time that he spends with the bands (which are also his buddies) is good.

It's also not good to see someone too much. Even couples that live together or are married don't see each other 24/7. Solitude is good. But three weeks DOES suck. The problem also comes in where neither one of us has a car. Once one of us gets a car, we will be seeing each other more often.

Good news though! I called him tonight and he said that he was feeling better and that he will be going with me to see DBK's stand-up tomorrow night! I'll get to see him for a couple of hours at least. It will make it so that the next two weeks won't be so bad.

I'm sorry for the rest of you that have to go so long without seeing your SO. Makes 3 weeks look like a cakewalk, but thank you so much for listening.