Ever Have A Crush On Somone From Dgn?

[Msterbeau]

Its hard to have a crush on some one you never met but do fantasies count, I need clarification on this....JUGDES RULING PLEASE

Rule #1 - There are no rules.

Rule #2 - When in doubt, see rule #1.

[Saephyr]

Naturally fantasies count...they make us what we want to be not who we have to be.

[the eternal]

Im trying desperately to get over a crush Ive had for awhile.

OK its a bit more than a crush, but I never thought a little crush would blossom and tear things down but here I am

BEWARE of crushes for even the littlest crush can become a full blown paradigm of dysfunction, if youre not careful, especially when the crush is mutual

[Goth Brooks]

Im trying desperately to get over a crush Ive had for awhile.

OK its a bit more than a crush, but I never thought a little crush would blossom and tear things down but here I am

BEWARE  of crushes for even the littlest crush can become a full blown paradigm of dysfunction, if youre not careful, especially when the crush is mutual

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I love you too

I'm pretty sure I answered here already... but yes I have a DGN crush.. she knows she's my DGN crush, because I call her my crush.. so often that half the time I don't even remember her name. :blushing

[saechalyn]

Im trying desperately to get over a crush Ive had for awhile.

OK its a bit more than a crush, but I never thought a little crush would blossom and tear things down but here I am

BEWARE  of crushes for even the littlest crush can become a full blown paradigm of dysfunction, if youre not careful, especially when the crush is mutual

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If the crush is mutual, isn't that a good thing?

[unchaste]

If the crush is mutual, isn't that a good thing?

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Oddly enough, I've had the same thing happen to me. A mutual crush is great. It's wonderous. It's beautiful.

But it's a real kick in the ass when no matter how much both of you want to be together, it's never going to happen. Ever.

You can hope and pray and fantasize about it all you want. You can think about how cute your names sound together and how you wouldn't mind doing his laundry and stepmothering his child and how wonderful it would be to fall asleep in each others arms every night. Shit like that can run through your mind all day long.

But the truth is: you'll never be together. Ever. Your heart is going to get ripped out and shattered into a million peices, and it's all your own fault because you had a crush on this guy. You're going to be bitter and jaded because you know that everyone pales in comparison to him. You're probably going to die cold and lonely, just like your ex said you would.

So no, mutual crushes aren't always a good thing.

[saechalyn]

So no, mutual crushes aren't always a good thing.

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I see. Well that is sad =(

[ShambalaMoon]

Oddly enough, I've had the same thing happen to me.  A mutual crush is great.  It's wonderous.  It's beautiful.

But it's a real kick in the ass when no matter how much both of you want to be together, it's never going to happen.  Ever.

You can hope and pray and fantasize about it all you want.  You can think about how cute your names sound together and how you wouldn't mind doing his laundry and stepmothering his child and how wonderful it would be to fall asleep in each others arms every night.  Shit like that can run through your mind all day long.

But the truth is: you'll never be together.  Ever.  Your heart is going to get ripped out and shattered into a million peices, and it's all your own fault because you had a crush on this guy.  You're going to be bitter and jaded because you know that everyone pales in comparison to him.  You're probably going to die cold and lonely, just like your ex said you would.

So no, mutual crushes aren't always a good thing.

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Gosh, I am sorry to hear this. :tear Are you absolutely positive that there is no chance for it to work? I can see if he/she is married or something, but other things like distance can be overcome.

[Nienna]

But the truth is: you'll never be together.  Ever.  Your heart is going to get ripped out and shattered into a million peices, and it's all your own fault because you had a crush on this guy.  You're going to be bitter and jaded because you know that everyone pales in comparison to him.  You're probably going to die cold and lonely, just like your ex said you would.

So no, mutual crushes aren't always a good thing.

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Are you reading my mind? I'm pretty much done with crushes. They require hope.

[Steven]

Im trying desperately to get over a crush Ive had for awhile.

OK its a bit more than a crush, but I never thought a little crush would blossom and tear things down but here I am

BEWARE  of crushes for even the littlest crush can become a full blown paradigm of dysfunction, if youre not careful, especially when the crush is mutual

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oooooohhhhh now this is a very honest and forthright statement.

As a married man, yet still a man, expecially a man who has more female friends than male, a crush is a natural, yet a dangerous thing. and even more dangerous when its mutual.

I love my wife.

So I leave my crushes out in the rain to get watered down.

[Saephyr]

Ok maybe i am indeed BUT I have crushes that have lasted decades and I won't let those go. Something good came from them and the ones I have now also bring about some awesome feelings as long as i don't get stingy.

I have my 'girl' moments but overall it's like fantasies. They are healthy unless you obsess over them and harm YOURSELF

[Msterbeau]

I have no crushes. I am a pillar of strength and monogamy.

And if you believe that... I also have a bridge to sell you.

[Brenda Starrr]

Mmmmm, crushes. I love crushes.....

[Saephyr]

Yeah they rock! Get ya all hyped up

[TornWillow]

I agree... I love that adrenalin rush they give you! Woot! Yeah, I have a crush or two in here... and I'm newbie!!!!

:slaps her own wrist

[Msterbeau]

I agree... I love that adrenalin rush they give you!  Woot!  Yeah, I have a crush or two in here... and I'm newbie!!!! 

:slaps her own wrist 

No shaming or slapping yourself here. We don't encourage such behavior. However, many members here would be happy that to you.... :woot: :blink :fear :devil

[Medea]

Oh, I've definitely got a couple of crushes going right now, only one of which is really serious, though.

[Head Wreck]

i used to really love one members personality and attitude on the old boards.

recently seen pics... she's purdy

and thats all i'm confessing to this month

(must purge my thoughts tomorow for more blowing stuff up for fun)

[TornWillow]

No shaming or slapping yourself here.  We don't encourage such behavior.  However, many members here would be happy that to you....    :woot:  :blink    :fear  :devil   

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Really now????

[Msterbeau]

Really now????   

I have no idea who posted that. I wasn't at my desk then. I'm quite innocent. :innocent

Seriously.

[TornWillow]

I have no idea who posted that.  I wasn't at my desk then.  I'm quite innocent. :innocent

Seriously.

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Too bad. :whistling

[SomeDanGuy]

I think you have to make a special request NOT to get spanked 'round these parts

[Brenda Starrr]

I think you have to make a special request NOT to get spanked 'round these parts

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If that isn't the truth!

[saechalyn]

I think you have to make a special request NOT to get spanked 'round these parts

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You're not kidding.

[Msterbeau]

Too bad. :whistling

I have no idea who posted THAT. I wasn't at my desk then. I'm quite the deviant. :devil

:whistling