Deal Breakers & Negatives

[Troy Spiral (13)]

What is a deal breaker negative trait that if they have it basically its just not gonna happen for a mate / S. O. ?

What is a "negative" but not necessarily a deal breaker?

[Ice Queen (1)]

Absolute deal breakers:

drugs

ignorance

anal types - life is too short and youth too fleeting to worry about having all the towels lined up just so (just one example)

abusive in any way

[Msterbeau]

Absolute deal breakers:

drugs

ignorance

anal types - life is too short and youth too fleeting to worry about having all the towels lined up just so (just one example)

abusive in any way

Hey... you got one tassel the wrong way there...

[Ice Queen (1)]

Hey... you got one tassel the wrong way there...

haha I guess I need to rephrase that......

how about using physical violence or emotional abuse with the intent on intimidating or making feel less then when it is not part of mutually desired sexual antics

Is that better?

[TygerLili]

Deal-breakers

Bigoted in any way. Probably the fastest way to turn me off forever.

Abusive, physically or emotionally, to me or anyone else.

Hates or is cruel to animals. Love me, love my cat.

Does any drugs, including weed. We can be friends, but I can't tolerate it in a relationship.

Secretive/hides things from me. Not a big deal if we are just dating, but if we are in a serious relationship, and I find out you've been hiding things from me I am going to get very, very angry.

Expects me to convert to his religious beliefs. If you believe in something other than I do, I can respect that, but you better grant me the same respect in my beliefs.

Ignorance/stupidity.

Not immediate deal-breakers, but huge turn-offs

Arrogant

Insecure/Clingy

Insensitive

Not very sexual

Gets too involved in music, movies, video games, RPGs, sports or other hobbies. They're just hobbies.

Edited May 14, 2008 by TygerLili

[Msterbeau]

haha I guess I need to rephrase that......

how about using physical violence or emotional abuse with the intent on intimidating or making feel less then when it is not part of mutually desired sexual antics

Is that better?

I was responding to the anal retentive thing.

Edited May 13, 2008 by Msterbeau

[Hellion]

Dishonesty

[bean]

Liars

Cheaters

Abusive

Hates animals

Ignorant

Dumb

Trashy

Bad taste in music

[Ice Queen (1)]

I was responding to the anal retentive thing.

Wow, that went over my head. Of course, I always think perverted first, especially coming from you

[Msterbeau]

Wow, that went over my head. Of course, I always think perverted first, especially coming from you

Imagine that.

[Homicidalheathen]

Finding out said prospective b/f has a thing for ho's

(seriously we called to see where he was and we found out a ho house.....do they have those here???)

I guess she is NOT ok with that cause it got her pretty shook up.

[EAF (1)]

Dishonesty

No common sense

Talking down to me or others, but especially me.

Cheating or sneaking around...I honestly would rather have him ask me and have me say no than for him to hide it from me...

Not willing to admitt mistakes...I mean big ones...like sleeping with someone else, ect.

Being abusive to people or animals.

Not knowing there is a time and place for everything...don't have to be always seriouse but don't act like a dumbass all the time XD

[Nienna]

Deal Breakers:

Very negative attitude

Abusive

Racist

Lower than average intelligence

Poor hygiene

Liar / untrustworthy

Negatives:

A penchance for country, gangster, or preppy stuff

Uber Christian

Kids (I may want one someday but not looking for an insta family)

[Miranda]

1. A bullshitter of any kind.

2. Frugal to the point where I'd be embarrassed for the person.

3. A non-listener.

4. Insecure to the point of causing drama.

5. Megalomaniacs.

6. Person who feels they have to ridicule others to make themselves feel better about who they are.

7. A prison record.

8. Illegal substance use of any kind.

9. Borderline alcoholic.

10. Television addict.

[Pandora]

Deal breaker every time: Racism, Sexism, Ageism, lots of isms. Also men not interested in a lifetime of learning. I don't need Einstein, but I do need someone to explore the world with and if beer, pizza and one or two hobbies are your life, I'm not the one for you. Oh and they must love sex and feel it's a big part of any great relationship. And they gotta be interested in living near or in NYC.

Negatives:

Drugs of any kind

Not interested in being somewhat physically fit, would be nice to have a like-minded person

Obsessed with money

Obsessed with power

Obsessed with stuff in general

Not big on nature

Insensitivity

Highly religious

Edited May 14, 2008 by Pandora