sleeping arrangements

[pomba gira]

I much prefer sleeping alone. I snore really badly (or really well, depending on how you look at it) and I'm always worried that I'm going to piss off my partner with it. As a result, I sleep very lightly, constantly waking up and freaking out that I might have been snoring...

I agree with Rayne, sounds like you might have sleep apnea... you should see a doc. If you don't have insurance, there are usually studies going on where you can get free evaluation & treatment, and sometimes even get paid.

In the meantime, have you tried those Breathe Right strips? I'm told they really do work. It's really not good to sleep poorly, you get all kind of negative health effects from never entering or staying in the "restful" stages of sleep.

[Nightgaunt]

I agree with Rayne, sounds like you might have sleep apnea... you should see a doc. If you don't have insurance, there are usually studies going on where you can get free evaluation & treatment, and sometimes even get paid.

In the meantime, have you tried those Breathe Right strips? I'm told they really do work. It's really not good to sleep poorly, you get all kind of negative health effects from never entering or staying in the "restful" stages of sleep.

I'm fairly certain I have sleep apnea. My doctor referred me to a sleep clinic, but my employer, unfortunately, will not allow me the time off to take care of it. I was on Midnights for 3 years and afternoons for two, and my sleep is pretty much nonexistent these days. I live life mostly as a zombie.

[know_buddy_kares]

Just cuddling? Fuck that shit! Thats the first step of getting pussy-whipped. If a bitch is going to sleep in my bed she gotta give a lil somethin somethin! If not then that bitch is sleepin outside!

lol

quoted for truth..

if the bitch wants to cuddle.. the bitch better put out... i have needs too... and if she wants her needs met, well then mine better be met as well... then there's no problems..

asking a guy to just cuddle is like expecting him to be castrated...

ladies... us guys.. yeah.. we have penises.. that require almost daily attention...

you want cuddles? well.. *looks down at his dick* hop to it!

[Miranda]

I don't really like to be "cuddled". If we fuck and you want to kiss for a while, post coitus.. fine but don't make it a clingy habit. A woman needs her space and her beauty sleep. It would take a miracle man to make me want anyone all over me that much.

[graverobber]

I hate my empty bed.. that is all.

come to think of it, I hate my couch, it's been so long since I owned a bed.

[graverobber]

o.O

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I don't really like losing chi, even so far to say that my last girlfriend was a 'waste of cum'

she didn't want to sleep next to me, guess that's the first test of trust

do you trust me with your energy rhythms? your breathing? your heartbeat if you have one

[graverobber]

It sounds like you have sleep apnea. I have an old redneck cure for keeping you off your back at night.

I've actually had to DO this to one of my old room mates, who used to pass out drunk a lot, and nearly inhale his tongue! This method is hillbilly-tested and approved.

Ok, you take a tennis ball, and some duct tape. Tape the ball in the middle of your back, right next to your spine (over a wifebeater or t-shirt, of course), going around your midsection a couple of times with the tape.

I guarantee this will decrease your snoring, as every time you go to roll onto your back, the ball will keep you from doing so comfortably. It sounds goofy, but it REALLY works!

As for me, I tend not to sleep well with a male "someone else" in the bed, because I have PTSD. I wake up screaming, talking, or yelling quite often, and I also have night terrors-- sometimes when my eyes are open, I am still dreaming. I've actually gone after people before; not seeing their faces, but those from the dark past. This makes it so I have to have a little warning "talk" with guys before they even think about sharing a bed with me. If they can get through a night with me without this happening, then most likely, it will never happen. I think it has something to do with their scent triggering my memories. Certain guys must smell like the "bad guys" to me, after my subconscious takes hold.

I have to be DEAD DRUNK to be able to sleep at all at someone else's house.

I rarely sleep for more than two hours at a time when I DO sleep, so I am constantly up and down. I have to sleep on the outside of the bed, and in a position where I can watch the door and windows to feel safe. A machete, an ancient heavy maple burl rolling pin, and a shotgun are never far from reach. If I'm away from home, you can be guaranteed I'm packing something, and it's close by (there may be some assembly required, but chances are, I've already put it together if I am laying there with my eyes closed).

I have to trust a man to the utmost, to even sleep in a bed with them-- so if you have ever been granted this, you are golden. It's a funny thing, my protective senses don't fire off at all, if there is a lady in my bed or in the house. Ladies are safe from my "Aeon Flux" mode.

I'm about as cuddly as a rabid fox!

Now everyone has had a rare glimpse into the sleep habits of gothic redneck kunoichi.

I don't snore, and I try to sleep on my back cause if I don't I feel spirits of creepy fucking people fucking with me

I jumped out of my bed with my fists up the other day, noise,

it was a mouse, in the kitchen, stealing silverware into the cupboard.

I broke an orange out for it -her?- she seemed troublesome and flirty like she doesn't mind being seen and showing off now that I won't attack

[graverobber]

Have you ever been tested for Sleep Apnea?

Untreated Sleep Apnea can lead to all sorts of bad stuff including increased risk of Heart Attacks, respitory issues and if it's bad enough -- brain damage due to lack of oxygen.

I figured it out, my apartments are evil, hold on, I am like a guard dog, last one up, first one awake at a party, can be a buzzkill to myself.

so I like to make sure the household is safe and sound before I can sleep.

the fucking neighbors, don't work, they're stomping during the day, and everytime I go out for a smoke in the middle of the night

the culprit? upstairs neighbor stays up listening to sports radio to spite me.

I can sleep fine when I'm not in that horrid place.

lack of oxygen duly noted, cut down on cigarette intake majorly, going to increase pushups and running.

jackass listening to sports radio at four am every day, I oughta wring his neck.

[graverobber]

Creepy, Dude.....

yeah, then again, frigid unsexed women make me sad and I don't yet know how to break the

'let's fuck in the streets' barrier with the silver haired broads

you know what I mean? just take a silver haired broad out in the parking lot lay down and fuck?

no, of course not, no one does that.

people do all sorts of creepy shit, like if I'm gonna sit around with a bunch of overly pastel colored white yuppies

while reading fucked up magazines and have a hard on

hell, I can be creepy and read my news at the same time, hell, ever see into someone else's mind?

ah. no, you're right, creepy.

[graverobber]

I agree with Rayne, sounds like you might have sleep apnea... you should see a doc. If you don't have insurance, there are usually studies going on where you can get free evaluation & treatment, and sometimes even get paid.

In the meantime, have you tried those Breathe Right strips? I'm told they really do work. It's really not good to sleep poorly, you get all kind of negative health effects from never entering or staying in the "restful" stages of sleep.

no, it's just the place I live I figured out. I'm paranoid like a loyal watch dog and finally figured out what all my

neighbors, who creep me out are up to.

some don't sleep. if someone 'in the house' isn't sleeping. I'm not sleeping.

I sleep just fine away from that horrid apartment complex, it's just hell.

I don't snore either, so, it's a matter of being 'paired up' with awful examples of 'humans' that are just begging

to be thrown into a woodchipper and reincarnated =awful boring people= and some don't sleep

that bothers me,

no one fucks in the apartment complex, apart from the one woman that came to visit me, I never hear

fucking, at all.

sexless demons

[SaGa]

I am a cuddle addict. Have a few friends I can sleep with no sex...like $$ he is into it..and never presures me for more.

Most of the time I just wake up and its happened...we get drunk and fall asleep ontop of one another once in a while...and he has never gotten a woody...cause that would gross me out.

He is like my little brother and I love him to pieces.

As long as no one pee's the bed I am cool with the cuddle. That happened once though...a bit too drunk I guess...my friends b/f did that to us. Soaked the whole mattress it was BEYOND gross waking up in his piss.

I woke up and was like...wow what a hangover and why am I wet...?

My man snores so I cuddle him till he starts then I move to another room...and I likes to wake up that way so he dont mind if I do it with others...

Was going to organize cuddle parties. They have them in other states...so I posted a few topics about it on various local message boards. All I got was perverted old men looking for a free feal so I dropped the idea. If there are any NORMAL people out there that want to do this and promise to keep there boners or hands to themselves in a sexual way...then I would try to organzie it again. But if perverts start showing up...I am outta there.

Saw a special on a group of men who moved here from Africa...men hug and kiss and cuddle there without feeling 'gay' about it. There translator actually had to tell them its NOT ok to do that here as we live in such a homophobic society. That is a shame. I guess where they came from they were very poor and all shared a bed...not just for space but to keep warm. I wish Americans were more open minded and not so hung up on sex.

never heard of cuddling parties. id attend, might get better sleep, might not. i do have a shyness with other people that i need to break. i think the only problem whould be me getting hard just out of being in my peak as a male still. but if i did get a boner id keep it to myself anyways, im not one to sexually flirt with someone unless she flirted sexually first.

[Draco1958]

Some nights I wish I had someone to cuddle up to. And it wouldn't bother me if after a while she wanted to scoot over and go to sleep. Yes it's difficult sometimes to sleep with someone draped over you but until you feel you are about to fall asleep, it is nice to snuggle up to someone without it turning to sex.

[Aralis]

I am married and have to sleep alone. I am pretty much use to having the bed to myself now. The hubby snores extremely loud and keeps me awake so we have separate beds....one bedroom at opposite ends of the house. At least he tucks me in every night and I get back and shoulder rubs.

[Brian4wheels]

I've always slept alone so i don't know how I'd handle someone else in the bed. I have Loner issues. I like my space and going to bed whe I feel like it.