sleeping arrangements

[graverobber]

it's not even about sleeping with someone as in 'sex'

it's more of a love deficiency

someone to cuddle up with instead of the random vibes pelted out by the neighbors

strangers, and technological emanations.

I actually have no desire to lose any chi, through sex, just looking to see if any woman out there

also wants to cuddle up, or just have someone to stay up late with while the pathetic economy collapses

from too much entertainment. and while our rights to peacably assemble aren't taken away

just sort of, discouraged away. we could create some kind of assembled force.

maybe a gothic socialist commune is in order? I don't know.

just a conversation starter, I hate my neighbors vibes always dripping on my soul

so, the question is? do you enjoy having someone to sleep next to? or do you value your

alone ness.

back to reprogramming reality in my mind against all odds. actually, no.

waiting for my god damn money from these heathens

'work for pay, pay for freedom, fuck em all, we don't need em'

acid bath =smoke the bones of baby dolls=

[GothicRavenGoddess (3)]

i love my empty bed... well, until recently... now... i hate when i have to come home, because the only others that share my bed are two cats. :( I can snuggle them.. they don't snuggle back so well... :( so... some nights, the empty bed is good.. for the most part? I miss snuggling with someone.... someone in particular, these days... hell, I miss his snoring, when i am away!

Edit to add that my first night back, from a weekend of sleeping/sharing a bed is a hard one. I can't sleep, and I toss and turn. Part of me wishes I never had to leave, but part of me knows that we aren't quite ready for that.... yet... but when it happens.....

Oh man.. i'm getting all sad now.. I miss him...

[ManicQueen]

I hate my empty bed.. that is all.

[taysteewonderbunny]

Honestly, I have loved sharing a bed and have been known to even sleep next to family members and friends even as an adult, but I don't always sleep most deeply that way (especially at the beginning of a romantic relationship b/c other thoughts consistently intrude). Yet, even when I am most used to having another body next to mine, sometimes I just HAVE to have a night on the couch or the floor by myself so that I can stretch out, wake and sleep by entirely my own rhythms and have more time contemplating my dreams.

But, I hear you. It is very hard to sleep alone when it is not by your choice.

[DarkChylde]

Just cuddling? Fuck that shit! Thats the first step of getting pussy-whipped. If a bitch is going to sleep in my bed she gotta give a lil somethin somethin! If not then that bitch is sleepin outside!

lol

[ManicQueen]

Just cuddling? Fuck that shit! Thats the first step of getting pussy-whipped. If a bitch is going to sleep in my bed she gotta give a lil somethin somethin! If not then that bitch is sleepin outside!

lol

You's gettin bitch slapped for that!

Cuddles are better then sex.. mostly

[pomba gira]

I hate sleeping alone... You'd think I'd be used to it after 7 years of living alone, but no. Maybe 'cos I used to have night terrors that were much less frequent if I had a regular bedmate. Have almost completely outgrown that, but still don't like having my whole king sized bed to myself. Well, myself and the Pussy Posse... most nights I have at least one and sometimes all three snuggled up beside me.

I love sleeping with Tokagemaru... unlike most guys he doesn't mind sleeping wrapped around each other. One of many nice things about summer, more nights spent at T's place since I don't have to get up & go to work in the AM!

[graverobber]

I need my jizz lately in my balls and brains for thinking,

I really don't feel like spilling my seed

every time I nut, lately due to succubi in my dreams cause I'm too broke to afford

a whore, I mean 'girlfriend'

I feel like my teeth are going to fall out from calcium loss or some shit

I don't know, I get my kicks sitting at a store with a hard on and fantasizing about the other patrons

women get jealous about

every level

argue?

[graverobber]

I LOVE getting sleep paralysis

it's so amazing, it's been a while

[graverobber]

maybe it's a hindu curse where I can only communicate with the rest of the caste system?

fuck those bastards and their organization, they're so weird.

[TitsMcGee]

I'm so used to sleeping alone that it's actually kinda weird if someone is there with me. I mean I've never been in a "long term" relationship and basically spent most of my life single. When I lived at home I had my cat with me all the time, but now that I live with sis it's just me and my stuffed bunny because the cat here hates me.

[tanuki1985]

I need my jizz lately in my balls and brains for thinking,

I really don't feel like spilling my seed

every time I nut, lately due to succubi in my dreams cause I'm too broke to afford

a whore, I mean 'girlfriend'

I feel like my teeth are going to fall out from calcium loss or some shit

I don't know, I get my kicks sitting at a store with a hard on and fantasizing about the other patrons

women get jealous about

every level

argue?

o.O

O.o

[Msterbeau]

I' love having a lovely. warm companion to sleep with. Except when I don't.

[Homicidalheathen]

I am a cuddle addict. Have a few friends I can sleep with no sex...like $$ he is into it..and never presures me for more.

Most of the time I just wake up and its happened...we get drunk and fall asleep ontop of one another once in a while...and he has never gotten a woody...cause that would gross me out.

He is like my little brother and I love him to pieces.

As long as no one pee's the bed I am cool with the cuddle. That happened once though...a bit too drunk I guess...my friends b/f did that to us. Soaked the whole mattress it was BEYOND gross waking up in his piss.

I woke up and was like...wow what a hangover and why am I wet...?

My man snores so I cuddle him till he starts then I move to another room...and I likes to wake up that way so he dont mind if I do it with others...

Was going to organize cuddle parties. They have them in other states...so I posted a few topics about it on various local message boards. All I got was perverted old men looking for a free feal so I dropped the idea. If there are any NORMAL people out there that want to do this and promise to keep there boners or hands to themselves in a sexual way...then I would try to organzie it again. But if perverts start showing up...I am outta there.

Saw a special on a group of men who moved here from Africa...men hug and kiss and cuddle there without feeling 'gay' about it. There translator actually had to tell them its NOT ok to do that here as we live in such a homophobic society. That is a shame. I guess where they came from they were very poor and all shared a bed...not just for space but to keep warm. I wish Americans were more open minded and not so hung up on sex.

[Fin]

I slept with someone once. It was great.

[Nightgaunt]

I much prefer sleeping alone. I snore really badly (or really well, depending on how you look at it) and I'm always worried that I'm going to piss off my partner with it. As a result, I sleep very lightly, constantly waking up and freaking out that I might have been snoring...

[jynxxxedangel]

I much prefer sleeping alone. I snore really badly (or really well, depending on how you look at it) and I'm always worried that I'm going to piss off my partner with it. As a result, I sleep very lightly, constantly waking up and freaking out that I might have been snoring...

It sounds like you have sleep apnea. I have an old redneck cure for keeping you off your back at night.

I've actually had to DO this to one of my old room mates, who used to pass out drunk a lot, and nearly inhale his tongue! This method is hillbilly-tested and approved.

Ok, you take a tennis ball, and some duct tape. Tape the ball in the middle of your back, right next to your spine (over a wifebeater or t-shirt, of course), going around your midsection a couple of times with the tape.

I guarantee this will decrease your snoring, as every time you go to roll onto your back, the ball will keep you from doing so comfortably. It sounds goofy, but it REALLY works!

As for me, I tend not to sleep well with a male "someone else" in the bed, because I have PTSD. I wake up screaming, talking, or yelling quite often, and I also have night terrors-- sometimes when my eyes are open, I am still dreaming. I've actually gone after people before; not seeing their faces, but those from the dark past. This makes it so I have to have a little warning "talk" with guys before they even think about sharing a bed with me. If they can get through a night with me without this happening, then most likely, it will never happen. I think it has something to do with their scent triggering my memories. Certain guys must smell like the "bad guys" to me, after my subconscious takes hold.

I have to be DEAD DRUNK to be able to sleep at all at someone else's house.

I rarely sleep for more than two hours at a time when I DO sleep, so I am constantly up and down. I have to sleep on the outside of the bed, and in a position where I can watch the door and windows to feel safe. A machete, an ancient heavy maple burl rolling pin, and a shotgun are never far from reach. If I'm away from home, you can be guaranteed I'm packing something, and it's close by (there may be some assembly required, but chances are, I've already put it together if I am laying there with my eyes closed).

I have to trust a man to the utmost, to even sleep in a bed with them-- so if you have ever been granted this, you are golden. It's a funny thing, my protective senses don't fire off at all, if there is a lady in my bed or in the house. Ladies are safe from my "Aeon Flux" mode.

I'm about as cuddly as a rabid fox!

Now everyone has had a rare glimpse into the sleep habits of gothic redneck kunoichi.

[pomba gira]

Was going to organize cuddle parties. They have them in other states...so I posted a few topics about it on various local message boards. All I got was perverted old men looking for a free feal so I dropped the idea. If there are any NORMAL people out there that want to do this and promise to keep there boners or hands to themselves in a sexual way...then I would try to organzie it again. But if perverts start showing up...I am outta there.

Saw a special on a group of men who moved here from Africa...men hug and kiss and cuddle there without feeling 'gay' about it. There translator actually had to tell them its NOT ok to do that here as we live in such a homophobic society. That is a shame. I guess where they came from they were very poor and all shared a bed...not just for space but to keep warm. I wish Americans were more open minded and not so hung up on sex.

I read about those cuddle parties... my first thought was that it's sad people have to organize an event just to have the comfort of sharing body space with another human. That said, I would definitely be interested if you decide to organize one!

My auntie organized a US-Africa Sister Cities Conference last month, there were ambassadors, dignitaries, etc there from various African nations... at the gala ball it was interesting to see some of the men dancing with each other. In our culture dancing is such a sexual thing, you rarely see women dancing with each other much less men! I know West African men hold hands as a sign of friendship, too.

Because I have to teach social skills to many of the kids I work with, I'm very interested in things like distance of courtesy and social touching. In one recent study, they videotaped business lunch meetings between two Americans, two Frenchmen, and two Puerto Rican men. The Americans touched exactly twice- handshakes at beginning and end. The Frenchmen touched maybe 60 times during the meeting... and the Puerto Ricans, over 100 times. We really are a dreadfully repressed society in all kinds of ways... maybe that lack of touch is why so many people are so alienated, sad and angry.

(apologies for the semi-threadjack!)

[Oh_My_Goth]

I prefer to sleep next to somebody in general.....But on rare occasion I like the whole bed to Meself.....

[Guest greyhalo]

I prefer to sleep with my 3 kitties. Most men snore and steal the covers, and I'm a light sleeper.

[Destroit]

Just cuddling? Fuck that shit! Thats the first step of getting pussy-whipped. If a bitch is going to sleep in my bed she gotta give a lil somethin somethin! If not then that bitch is sleepin outside!

lol

OMFG....omfg...*gasp*

[Rayne]

I much prefer sleeping alone. I snore really badly (or really well, depending on how you look at it) and I'm always worried that I'm going to piss off my partner with it. As a result, I sleep very lightly, constantly waking up and freaking out that I might have been snoring...

Have you ever been tested for Sleep Apnea?

Untreated Sleep Apnea can lead to all sorts of bad stuff including increased risk of Heart Attacks, respitory issues and if it's bad enough -- brain damage due to lack of oxygen.

[Oh_My_Goth]

I

I don't know, I get my kicks sitting at a store with a hard on and fantasizing about the other patrons

women get jealous about

every level

argue?

Creepy, Dude.....

[tanuki1985]

My ex twitched like hell. When we stayed together, I would literally sleep on the floor. He offered to let me sleep on the bed, but I slept on the floor anyway. I'm not kidding, he would twitch out of nowhere and scare the shit out of me every time I was *almost* asleep. It drove me insane. Thank goodness we never tehnically lived together and HAD to sleep in the same bed.

Nowadays, I share my bed with two, sometimes three, cats and a huge array of pillows and blankets. I like being cozy when I'm sleeping.

[industrial_girl_2000]

it's not even about sleeping with someone as in 'sex'

so, the question is? do you enjoy having someone to sleep next to? or do you value your

alone ness.

I have to agree with you that having someone to sleep next to cuddle with is very nice. Other times, I just like having my bed all to myself!