I have fallen again

[honeymustard02]

I do this all the time.

But I really really do like this guy.

The catch is, he has a girlfriend who treats him like crap. Now I know you're thinking Im saying that because I want him and she has him. Partly you're right. Mostly it's not true.

This girl flips out when he even just talks to a girl. He's not allowed to be around females or she thinks he's cheating. This girl started a fight with him over me sitting on a bench with him with 3 other people around. We were on opposite ends of the damn bench with like 2ft of space between us. She told him that since he didnt move or ask me to move that he must have wanted it!!!! WTF?!?!?!?!?!

She also has it hard for one of our managers. She follows him all around and pages him 50 times a nite while on the clock. She will leave lunch with her boyfriend to go find our boss. Like wicked creepy stuff. She drools over our boss in FRONT of her boyfriend.

Anyway.....he was pissed last night because of work. A group of us were sitting outside just chatting. He just randomly got up and started walking out of the parking lot. So I ran after him (yes fat girl ran) and asked where he was going. He said for a walk. I asked if he was going to come back. He wasn't sure. So I just started walking with him and chatting. When he just starts venting to me. I listened and threw in a few ideas here and there. Well he got calmed down enough that he came back with me to work.

Ok basically I have it hard for this kid. He's exactly what I want in a guy. I gave him my number the other night. So now I just wait and see I guess if he really wants out from under his girls thumb or not.

Gah......sorry just ranting I guess. Advice is welcome.

[Homicidalheathen]

....ya gotta wonder why he puts up with it...?

A normal (as in sane) person wouldn't for long...thats all I am saying...

but, i wish you luck in your BATTLE OF LOVE

may the bestest biatch win!

[honeymustard02]

Lmao thanks.

I know why he puts up with it.

Long story short he's sick of fighting. He knows the shit she'll start if he leaves. It'll be 10x worse then just staying with her.

But as I told him, thats not an excuse.

He's taken a lot of tough hits in life and its worn him down. I feel bad for him. But he's staying of his own choice really.

[Homicidalheathen]

tell him to pick up a pizza and persomal protection order on the way over

if there are no kids involved, you know...he is free

[Rev.Reverence]

Um...if you take him...I am quite sure drama will ensue...HE should leave her before you even start talking about being a couple...

...or I feel you will have a crazy fucked up situation where this Chicka does what she has to in order to get you FIRED...(not a good thing in this Re/Depression)...

..Be careful..K?

[honeymustard02]

Oh Im not stupid enough to take him. Not that dumb.

I really have no dealing with this girl in the first place. We work totally different shifts.

So that kind of covers me. But he lives with her.

I want him to do this of his own choice and power. If we stay just friends that's fine with me.

He's a cool kid and just nice to be around. Wouldnt pass that up for an easy lay.

[Rev.Reverence]

Cool..

[Scales]

I've seen this situation with the genders reversed, where someone I knew fell for a chick who had a bf who cheated regularly on her. But the chick had a long relationship with her old bf and in the end went back to him. It screwed him up pretty bad since he put so much of his life and time into it, including abandoning all of his friends which is why I don't have much sympathy for his situation.

If the guy can't leave on his own then he's obviously has a long relationship with the chick and isn't worth the time, just my two cents.

[Miranda]

Something off the rebound is hardly ever pretty. There are many reasons people will say why they don't leave a bad relationship but they never tell you why they stay. If he leaves her, gets a place, then maybe I'd consider it but with the drama just so far, not even worth it a piece of ass. With all respect.

[Oh_My_Goth]

This whole thing just sounds like a bad idea.....

[Guest Megalicious]

This whole thing just sounds like a bad idea.....

I must say I agree, you left it open to advice and well you may not like what I have to say but here it goes anyway.

Why would you want someone that doesn't have any respect for themselves? And yes, to be with someone, put up with such disrespect as they CLEARLY and intentionally flirt with some other guy in front of you, is lack of respect for yourself.

Trust me, its a BAD idea. You don't want someone like that in your life. The only thing it's going to do is tip you head first in to Dramaville. In the end if they broke up I would see them getting back togther, your heart getting broken, and a bunch of pretty much welcomed drama for no reason.

Think about it. You deserve better....

[Oh_My_Goth]

I must say I agree, you left it open to advice and well you may not like what I have to say but here it goes anyway.

Why would you want someone that doesn't have any respect for themselves? And yes, to be with someone, put up with such disrespect as they CLEARLY and intentionally flirt with some other guy in front of you, is lack of respect for yourself.

Trust me, its a BAD idea. You don't want someone like that in your life. The only thing it's going to do is tip you head first in to Dramaville. In the end if they broke up I would see them getting back togther, your heart getting broken, and a bunch of pretty much welcomed drama for no reason.

Think about it. You deserve better....

Thanx for elaborating.....I did not have the time.....

But yeah.....What she said.....

[Head Wreck]

avoid folk with baggage. they nearly allways insist they bring it with them and ponder if there was something they forgot to pack repeatedly

[honeymustard02]

Lmao for whatever reason that made me laugh so hard.

avoid folk with baggage. they nearly allways insist they bring it with them and ponder if there was something they forgot to pack repeatedly