Rotten apples in the family

[Hellion]

Some here know what happened,but I found out some bs

let alone took care of the issue my own way.

Well on this past friday night my older sister freaked out on me and I had no choice but to call the cops,due too the situation got deadly.IMO anyone who threatens my life or threatens to destroy my personal belongings will be dealt with.other than that this is what happens when alcohol is abused.she has always had a drinking issue,and that is why me and my older brother disowned her.i used to live with her and noticed alot of bs that disgusted me.IMO I dont care if its a sibling,family member or whoever,this was an ongoing problem that needed to be stopped immediately.

if this makes me a POS fine,but if you were in the same situation what would you have done?anyone here ever have problems with siblings getting out of hand?this is why she had her kids taken away,44 years old and no respect for anyone else.also the neighbor's called the cops earlier anyway.I really wish I could have taken care of it my own

way,but then I would have ended up in jail.

guarentee I will be on her shit list but i do not care, moved yesterday and are now trying to forget all the bs.

anyone here ever been in a similar situation?

[Miranda]

Yes, I have had to make quick choices like this, out of neccessity and felt terrible for it but I was worse for letting it go so far. You get over the feeling once you realize you did what was appropriate. I will not enable a person who has lost their senses to a drug.

Until your sister sees she is choosing the bottle over her family, and that one drink will never be enough for her she will be a lost cause. Getting clean isn't easy but she has to get help or be pushed away and forced, tough love. She has already hit her bottom as they call it.

Time to clean up. Not that you haven't tried but a deeper intervention needs to be done here , someone has to be enabling her. I don't know many functioning addicts, someone usually keeps bailing them out of their shit or gives them money. Dealing with a drunk is the worst, well, all addicts are pretty harsh to deal with.

[Homicidalheathen]

my uncle.

he has been brought under murder investigation 2x

child molestation and abuse

domestic disturbance

public intoxication

public urination ect ect

has been an alcoholic most of his life

he is usually one of those very unkempt homrelees drunks wandering around

but my dad is taking care of him as he is dying of liver disease now...finally

they have been known to have brawls in the front yard, (they live on main street lol)

my dad always wins

[littlepinkkitty]

My oldest brother and i dont get along. He hates that I am not as religious as he is. we got into a fight last summer and he ended up beating me up. I didnt end up pressing charges but i wish i did. People think you should put up with shit from your family simply because they are your family. Like if one of your family members treats you like crap you just haave to deal with it. Why should you? If anything they should treat you nicer because you are family.

[jynxxxedangel]

I'm afraid I'm the only good apple in my family. Thankfully, I remember the mistakes of others, and have put an end to the chain of abuse.

[Homicidalheathen]

My oldest brother and i dont get along. He hates that I am not as religious as he is. we got into a fight last summer and he ended up beating me up. I didnt end up pressing charges but i wish i did. People think you should put up with shit from your family simply because they are your family. Like if one of your family members treats you like crap you just haave to deal with it. Why should you? If anything they should treat you nicer because you are family.

WHAT??? he..beat you up?

that pisses me off, i know this guy btw who owes me a favor

[torn asunder]

i would actually be the bad apple in my family, which goes to show how "goody-two-shoes" my family is...

[Hellion]

i would have rather done the alternative method,knock some ppl out,but i dont need charges brought against me,because of the fucktad justice system we have in this nation

I also do not believe in that blood is thicker than water,bs

if you pose a threat to me i dont care if it was the pope,then you will be dealt with, what happened there last week was way out of my control,nough said.

[Homicidalheathen]

i would actually be the bad apple in my family, which goes to show how "goody-two-shoes" my family is...

emo

[Guest Megalicious]

My family is pretty out there to begin with, but as far as bad apples go, I would have to say both me and my cousin Adrian are thee "bad seed" of the family.

We both have emotional regulation problems. (he is a bit worse then I am though). We are know for being quite hot headed, perceptually egotistical, and pretty much out of wack on any given day for no apparent reason.

I WOULD LIKE TO POINT OUT, that we are both extremely smart, both dropped out of highschool due to BORDEM, both had/have 4.0 through out college and have a logical sort of mind. Which makes me think, now do we just have that extra logic in our academics because we lack in in our emotional mind set? But that is another thread all together I suppose.

[Simon Bar Sinister]

no real rotten apples on either side of the family...maybe my oldest cousin - he's lowlife-ish.

[Hellion]

I am just waiting now for some kind of revenge from the b----,thats about it.

[Oh_My_Goth]

I would not know where to start.....I have some real winners in Me family.....

I was literally referred to as the black sheep of Me family on several occasions.....But that's cool cuz I would really rather not be associated with them anyhow.....

[sass_in_the_pants]

I would not say there were any bad apples.

There ARE, however, sketchy apples.

Very sketchy apples.

[TygerLili]

I pretty much don't talk to any of my second or third cousins, with the exception of the one I lived with for a while, and the reason he moved down here was to get away from all the crazy ones. I don't really consider them my family at all. My family is the immediate family, my parents, my grandparents, my aunts and uncle and first cousins. The rest ar just people I happen to share a chromosome or two with.

[StormKnight (1)]

My favorite older sister would be considered a bad apple, but she would take care of us younger kids when mother was off on drunken binges. (the one I call mother now is actually my stepmother from my dad's second marriage.) She grew pot in the house during the divorce, hung out with older men, did a trip from Iowa to Texas and back in 48hours with someone when I was 4. And those are the things I remember off the top of my head.

But she was there for the three younger kids. While most of my memories have faded from that time over the years, I do remember her taking the brunt of my mother's abuse, to include being raped by men she would bring home. I was the only one of the younger children that remember at least that much (my older brother was mentally disabled, and my younger sister was like 1-2.) She fed us, kept us clean (further discussions of my childhood can be conducted face-to-face or privately.) But in the end, it was too much for her.

When dad saved us from the abuse/neglect after a long custody battle, she married one of these older guys (who was actually pretty cool,) and ran away. They divorced a few years later, but stayed on friendly terms. Throughout most of my younger life, she would hook me up with things here and there, because she knew I remembered. She gradually became more and more an alcoholic, and I could no longer watch her descend into that. She moved to Florida in 1998.

The last time I saw her, was at my father's deathbed. With the mother dead, and all the grandparents gone, both of us knew he was the last of what we would consider family. (My younger sister was integrated with my stepmother's daughters and my younger half brother, and my older brother could be anywhere and be happy.) I could see her aged well beyond her years due to abuse of alcohol and gods knows whatever. That was the last time I saw her, 5 years ago. An occasional card here and there, but that is all I hear from her.

Wild woman out of control? Yes. Problem child? Most definitely. Bad apple? She is pretty much dismissed as one.

But between dad and her, I emphatically believe I would not be alive today if she didn't do what she did.

[Hellion]

Yeah me and my older brother were the ones who came out good,we also both graduated as well,she did not, he owns his own business,I am a skilled tradesman

my sister never ever had a real job,let alone dancing at strip bars is not a job for life,and it does not have medical insurance, and her overindulgence of booze will be her dimise. me and my brother highly thank our mother for going way out of the way to make sure we had a roof over our heads,we were so happy when the divorce was final in 1976 and our dysfuctional dad left and took his alcoholic problem with him,at least now he hardly ever drinks and is remarried and living in the UP.

[TrixieGothGirl]

My oldest brother and i dont get along. He hates that I am not as religious as he is. we got into a fight last summer and he ended up beating me up. I didnt end up pressing charges but i wish i did. People think you should put up with shit from your family simply because they are your family. Like if one of your family members treats you like crap you just haave to deal with it. Why should you? If anything they should treat you nicer because you are family.

He's religious and he beat YOU up? Talk about being a hypocrite.

[Reaper]

Yep, been there done that with my brother. He is a mild schizo and very bi-polar. Even sent him to jail once for beating his wife right in front of me and her 3 kids. Even went as far as to pull out a rifle with big bullets. Took him 6 months before he finally figured out that I did the right thing and started talking to me again. My mom and I have been dealing with him for a long time and are to the point where we can't even give him new phone numbers or let him know where we move. I haven't let him know where I live yet until I know he is much better off than he was before. But he never admits to the mistakes he makes and is always blaming others for his problems. If only he would stop and think about his next action, he might not be in half the problems he creates.

[Ebolamike]

Some here know what happened,but I found out some bs

let alone took care of the issue my own way.

Well on this past friday night my older sister freaked out on me and I had no choice but to call the cops,due too the situation got deadly.IMO anyone who threatens my life or threatens to destroy my personal belongings will be dealt with.other than that this is what happens when alcohol is abused.she has always had a drinking issue,and that is why me and my older brother disowned her.i used to live with her and noticed alot of bs that disgusted me.IMO I dont care if its a sibling,family member or whoever,this was an ongoing problem that needed to be stopped immediately.

if this makes me a POS fine,but if you were in the same situation what would you have done?anyone here ever have problems with siblings getting out of hand?this is why she had her kids taken away,44 years old and no respect for anyone else.

guarentee I will be on her shit list but i do not care, moved yesterday and are now trying to forget all the bs.

anyone here ever been in a similar situation?

If that happened to me I would have smacked that HO up big time!

[TheGimp]

YES YES I DO my step father is beond rotten heres some links so you guys can see what he did

http://www.clickondetroit.com/video/15558505/index.html <----------CLICK THIS

so after you click the link and see what he did heres also what he did

Mentally and Physically abused me from age 8-17

Stole Money

after the divorse from my mother he had the house forclosed on and depeleated secret bank accounts he had hidden so he stole more like around 20 grand

cost me my job and his job

cost my brother his girlfriend and me a potential girlfreind

almost had me sent to jail for a long time becuase he pretty much stole my Identity

OH AND PUBLIC HUMILATION FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY