Relationships....relationshits?

[Deadyeti]

That doesn't work well for me..ever. I end up letting my feelings get involved.

I do the same thing

[Guest Megalicious]

I've ended a lot of relationships out of the blue.

I just wake up one day realizing things are over, and I'm outta there.

I'm pretty much the same, except that I have a reason. I just let them sort of build up untill I have reach my threshold. But its does seem like out of the blue for the SO. Because it can be something as little as driving together without talking to me that triggers the actual breakup. When in reality, its ALOT of little things and and few big things that have just build up over the course of the relationship.

I am rambling again, does that even make sense to anyone LOL ...

[asphyxian_doll]

I'm pretty much the same, except that I have a reason. I just let them sort of build up untill I have reach my threshold. But its does seem like out of the blue for the SO. Because it can be something as little as driving together without talking to me that triggers the actual breakup. When in reality, its ALOT of little things and and few big things that have just build up over the course of the relationship.

I am rambling again, does that even make sense to anyone LOL ...

Makes sense to me....I can relate :|

I try and communicate the "little" things that bug me before that actually happens...sometimes I fail....epic fail...

which is why I generally am happy single, ...generally.

I'm in a relationship and quite content, and I care enough that when something bothers the shit out of me, I say it, with conviction and tact (that has always got in my way, my lack of tact)

I'm trying,

Also I'm stressed because I have a painful thyroid goiter, some PMS problems, and I'm stressed about money, health, mood swings...fuck...a shit load of problems...call it entropy....call it chaos....but whatever it is,...its getting me down.

I'm just grateful I have someone who is supportive, and doesn't mind communicating about the "small" stuff.

Really puts a scope on things for me.

[TitsMcGee]

..too bad...

Lol

[Gauge]

ive been in relationships where people changed out of the blue. you live, you learn, you get pushed asside. . . .i guess when one door gets slammed in your face another one is opened. . . .

[vampvonramm]

Makes sense to me....I can relate :|

I try and communicate the "little" things that bug me before that actually happens...sometimes I fail....epic fail...

which is why I generally am happy single, ...generally.

I'm in a relationship and quite content, and I care enough that when something bothers the shit out of me, I say it, with conviction and tact (that has always got in my way, my lack of tact)

I'm trying,

Also I'm stressed because I have a painful thyroid goiter, some PMS problems, and I'm stressed about money, health, mood swings...fuck...a shit load of problems...call it entropy....call it chaos....but whatever it is,...its getting me down.

I'm just grateful I have someone who is supportive, and doesn't mind communicating about the "small" stuff.

Really puts a scope on things for me.

im being discussed yays!!!

[Rev.Reverence]

Lol

...DON'T LAUGH AT ME!

...that's not nice...

[TitsMcGee]

...DON'T LAUGH AT ME!

...that's not nice...

It was more of a girly giggle

[Rev.Reverence]

It was more of a girly giggle

*sings*

...things that make ya go hmmMM..

[TitsMcGee]

On a serious note, I've had some pretty shitty relationships. I'm usually the one getting dumped, but I can sense it coming..normally.

[Rev.Reverence]

On a serious note, I've had some pretty shitty relationships. I'm usually the one getting dumped, but I can sense it coming..normally.

...so can I.......................................................................usually.

[amalthea23]

The thing is, they ALL end, until one doesn't. Bad or good, it's to be expected.

[torn asunder]

The thing is, they ALL end, it's to be expected.

fixed your post...

[amalthea23]

I'm not sure I consider death to be the same sort of end. It's generally not desired by either party, so to me, if that's how it ends, and it's not murder, you've had a successful run.

[Brenda Starrr]

I won't go into my first marriage. It wasn't good.

My second one was me being stuck dealing with his all-nighters at the bar and excessive pot and alcohol usage. And the lies!! We remained friends, but just couldn't stay married. He was definitely there for me when my Dad passed away. He felt like he owed me because I was the one who kept us afloat most of the time. He said that I saved his life. Maybe I did. He certainly owed me.

Now, I have the best thing that could have EVER happened to me. He treats me like a queen. I treat him like a king, because he is WORTHY of it. For once, I got it right. No physical or verbal abuse, no drugs or excessive alcohol. Has a decent job and an amazing family that treats me and my kids like we BELONG.

I hit the fucking jackpot this time. And I met him here.

[vampvonramm]

Still tryin to get my ex to give stuff one last try, dont think its gonna happen, just with the time i spent with her and havin a kid has made it so much harder, i lost my family in a way! Seriosly tho... im only 22, i should not be havin to deal with this shit!!!

[taysteewonderbunny]

I won't go into my first marriage. It wasn't good.

My second one was me being stuck dealing with his all-nighters at the bar and excessive pot and alcohol usage. And the lies!! We remained friends, but just couldn't stay married. He was definitely there for me when my Dad passed away. He felt like he owed me because I was the one who kept us afloat most of the time. He said that I saved his life. Maybe I did. He certainly owed me.

Now, I have the best thing that could have EVER happened to me. He treats me like a queen. I treat him like a king, because he is WORTHY of it. For once, I got it right. No physical or verbal abuse, no drugs or excessive alcohol. Has a decent job and an amazing family that treats me and my kids like we BELONG.

I hit the fucking jackpot this time. And I met him here.

um, will you be willing to clone him for me? I especially like the no verbal abuse (and the indirect suggestion of no lying) part. And the close-knit family. I want!

Anyway, I am really happy that someone is happily married. It's about effin' time. Congratulations, Brenda, to you and yours. I don't know you well, but I don't doubt that you deserve it. Kudos!