Relationships....relationshits?

[vampvonramm]

I just went thru an unexpected breakup and was left wonderin what the hell happened and feelin like i got screwed, just curious who else has, please tell your story....or tragedy here!!!!

[Deadyeti]

I just went thru an unexpected breakup and was left wonderin what the hell happened and feelin like i got screwed over, just curious who else has, please tell your story....or tragedy here!!!!

i put a ring on my ex's finger, and then she started treating me like shit, then started ditching me to goto parties with co workers, then decided she wanted to take a break, a week later she breaks up with me telling me its temporary. a week after that i found out she has been flirting around and she decided it was a permanent breakup. that was a couple months ago. now shes out of control, partying almost every night, doesnt eat anything, and likes to rub when she hits on a guy in, and complains about not having money. she still til this day has my ring, and tries to rub it in... yet she wants to remain good friends, and wont listen to me about the stupid shit shes doing...

Short version: she met my family after being with her a year, I proposed, she said yes, 2 weeks later she breaks up with me and fucks with my head.

i'm sorry for swearing but she just got done calling me for the first time in 2 weeks to piss me off by rubbing more stuff in... hows that for a screwing over? problem is i cant ignore her.... my roommate is her best friend... i have more to the story, so if you wanna hear more, let me know...

[vampvonramm]

i put a ring on my ex's finger, and then she started treating me like shit, then started ditching me to goto parties with co workers, then decided she wanted to take a break, a week later she breaks up with me telling me its temporary. a week after that i found out she has been flirting around and she decided it was a permanent breakup. that was a couple months ago. now shes out of control, partying almost every night, doesnt eat anything, and likes to rub when she hits on a guy in, and complains about not having money. she still til this day has my ring, and tries to rub it in... yet she wants to remain good friends, and wont listen to me about the stupid shit shes doing...

Short version: she met my family after being with her a year, I proposed, she said yes, 2 weeks later she breaks up with me and fucks with my head.

i'm sorry for swearing but she just got done calling me for the first time in 2 weeks to piss me off by rubbing more stuff in... hows that for a screwing over? problem is i cant ignore her.... my roommate is her best friend... i have more to the story, so if you wanna hear more, let me know...

damn sorry to hear that, if you feel like tellin more go for it, some times bein able to vent can help, I just went thru some shit too, but i gotta be careful what i say when venting cuz I had a kid with my ex, and i dont need me and her to fight all the time!

[Deadyeti]

damn sorry to hear that, if you feel like tellin more go for it, some times bein able to vent can help, I just went thru some shit too, but i gotta be careful what i say when venting cuz I had a kid with my ex, and i dont need me and her to fight all the time!

she took me off her top friends list and said "nothings personal" she had the nerve to tell me to come back to nebraska to hang out after she had gotten done argueing with me for about 10 mins. i'm a relatively sensitive guy, i dont give a fuck, i will admit that. wow i have feelings *twirls fingers and rolls eyes* i think i need to get laid and need a drink... i need to not be single....

Any females like sensitive guys anymore, or are they all bitches who like the "bad guys"?

[vampvonramm]

just try to make the best of it, tell her to get lost, move on and have some fun!

[Deadyeti]

just try to make the best of it, tell her to get lost, move on and have some fun!

not when im in nebraska, as i said her best friend is my roomate, so she comes over to see him and fuck with my head.... i cant avoid it..

[vampvonramm]

not when im in nebraska, as i said her best friend is my roomate, so she comes over to see him and fuck with my head.... i cant avoid it..

Wow that sucks, I wish I had a solution, the best i got is for you to move out, but im guessing thats not an option or you woulda probably done that already!

[Deadyeti]

just try to make the best of it, tell her to get lost, move on and have some fun!

well im gonna head to bed in hopes to get a little sleep... thanks for listening to me rant and rave. im sorry about your prob man and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me.

EDIT: actually i plan on moving back to michigan in a couple of months

[vampvonramm]

well im gonna head to bed in hopes to get a little sleep... thanks for listening to me rant and rave. im sorry about your prob man and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me.

no problem, thanks, goodnight man!

[Homicidalheathen]

yes

once when i was much younger

i am seeing this guy. HE hit on me first...made all the first moves hell i thought things were going great! we had EVERYTHING in common and the SEX!!!

we had sooo much fun, every friday night was 'our' night.

well one week he didnt show, then 2...then 3.

so i call.

his roomate said he MOVED WITHOUT TELLING anyone and was living back with his lame ass (she made more money but was frumpy as hell) ex in some lame ass state like omaha or some shit

i was more hurt than mad...we were REALLY clicking...or so i thought

he was soooo cute, long blonde hair, tall good looking, excellent lover...totally excellent body, rode a harley...didnt drink...ect...ect...

i ended up marrying a nerd too though...maybe that was the problem

me and lover boy were too much alike?

we even sorta looked alike at the time except for the tall part

[xbittergracex]

I just went thru an unexpected breakup and was left wonderin what the hell happened and feelin like i got screwed, just curious who else has, please tell your story....or tragedy here!!!!

I think everyone has, but yeah...happened to me a few months back. Still sucks. Good Luck.

[prick]

I had a bad break up this summer. I didnt know there was a problem. She now hates mwe and I am not used to that. Even my ex wife thinks Im great.

[Head Wreck]

i could write a psychological thesis. not just on her, but the asshole i was for a couple of years afterwards

[freydis]

a guy i dated back before i met my husband, we were getting along very well, dated for a few months, and things started to get serious. Very serious.

Then, all of a sudden he decides he's scared shitless of any kind of commitment, and never called again.

at the time, it hurt. quite a bit.

[Hellion]

The worst I have ever dealt with is lying which I have zero tolerance for,I avoid any ex's that pulled that bs,some were mutual breakups,with so many people being dishonest I for ever gave up on being with anyone,sorry to hear what happened

[Riku Namako]

The worst I have ever dealt with is lying which I have zero tolerance for,I avoid any ex's that pulled that bs,some were mutual breakups,with so many people being dishonest I for ever gave up on being with anyone,sorry to hear what happened

I hear you about that lying BS. I dunno, as far as I'm concerned, sooner or later, I just end up rubbing everyone the wrong way. oh well.

[tanuki1985]

Why not just have friends with benefits? Relationships do nothing but add drama and trouble in the long run. And no, before people tell me that I'm just a sad and bitter bitch because I'm single, I choose to be single. I get my rocks off, have loving and caring friendships without drama, AND I get to live the single life. It's fucking awesome.

[TitsMcGee]

Why not just have friends with benefits? Relationships do nothing but add drama and trouble in the long run. And no, before people tell me that I'm just a sad and bitter bitch because I'm single, I choose to be single. I get my rocks off, have loving and caring friendships without drama, AND I get to live the single life. It's fucking awesome.

That doesn't work well for me..ever. I end up letting my feelings get involved.

[Homicidalheathen]

Why not just have friends with benefits? Relationships do nothing but add drama and trouble in the long run. And no, before people tell me that I'm just a sad and bitter bitch because I'm single, I choose to be single. I get my rocks off, have loving and caring friendships without drama, AND I get to live the single life. It's fucking awesome.

i did that for awhile but ended up lonely

especially on christmas...miles away from any loved ones

gawd it was depressing

[Simon Bar Sinister]

I've ended a lot of relationships out of the blue.

I just wake up one day realizing things are over, and I'm outta there.

[Rev.Reverence]

That doesn't work well for me..ever. I end up letting my feelings get involved.

..too bad...

[vampvonramm]

That doesn't work well for me..ever. I end up letting my feelings get involved.

Its hard not letting feelings get involved, so i gotta agree!

[StormKnight (1)]

For the last couple of relationships, I could quote Babylon 5 for how they ended:

Centauri Emperor Turhan: How will this end?

Ambassador Kosh Nanarek: *Vorlon language and pause for translation* In fire.

[Guest greyhalo]

Its hard not letting feelings get involved, so i gotta agree!

Me too.

[torn asunder]

Why not just have friends with benefits? Relationships do nothing but add drama and trouble in the long run. And no, before people tell me that I'm just a sad and bitter bitch because I'm single, I choose to be single. I get my rocks off, have loving and caring friendships without drama, AND I get to live the single life. It's fucking awesome.

if anything, this will likely be the only way i'll be with someone again...