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I dont celebrate christmas, thanksgiving, easter and anyother holidays I deem pointless or just a money grab.

What holidays do you bypass?

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I like the gratitude implied by Thanksgiving - even if some of the traditions don't work for me any more. I'd like to forget Christmas, but that's hard to do when you have kids and everyone else insists on giving them stuff, especially their mom. Valentines can go suck it. Same with Easter. Same with every other lame excuse to guilt us in to spending more money that we don't have.

I'm all for father's day. :cool:

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Valentines Day and my bday

let me rephrase this, the only actual "holiday" I celebrate is Thanksgiving, All the rest not at all, that doesn't mean I don't believe in there significance, it just means I am not big into celebrating.. period.

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valintines day and sweetiest day and easter is kinda dumb

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...i only really get into the festivities of Halloween. i eat turkey and stuff but i dont pray thanks. I do give gifts but not in the spirit of it being the 'birthday' of christ.

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Thanksgiving is just a day with a big meal, with lots of leftovers.

Christmas is the only day that my family can get away with being neglectful. I don't get shit for Christmas from most of my family... And since my birthday is so close, I usually get the combined gift. "this is for Christmas and your birthday" I'm sorry, if i had a kid, even on Christmas, they'd still get separate gifts. I swear... fucking excuses.. anything to get out of getting me stuff...

Valentines Day (what the fuck is "sweetest day"?!?!?!?!) is just a day that women use as an excuse to be mad at their SO... I don't like the day, and I don't require gifts on that day... Only people that SHOULD get gifts on this day, are those that have actual anniversaries or birthdays on this day. (Like my little brother... little.. heh.. he will be 18, this coming Valentines Day... OMG.. my little brother's gonna be a freaking adult. I haven't seen him since he turned 10!)

Easter: WTF does eggs and rabbits have to do with the death and resurrection of Christ???

Halloween is the only one I enjoy. I try to do something on the Sabbats and Esbats... and that's about it...

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Valentines Day (what the fuck is "sweetest day"?!?!?!?!) is just a day that women use as an excuse to be mad at their SO... I don't like the day, and I don't require gifts on that day... Only people that SHOULD get gifts on this day, are those that have actual anniversaries or birthdays on this day. (Like my little brother... little.. heh.. he will be 18, this coming Valentines Day... OMG.. my little brother's gonna be a freaking adult. I haven't seen him since he turned 10!)

sweetiest day was this retarted so called holiday INVENTED by halmark in september its like a another V-day basically

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Valentines Day (what the fuck is "sweetest day"?!?!?!?!) is just a day that women use as an excuse to be mad at their SO... I don't like the day, and I don't require gifts on that day... Only people that SHOULD get gifts on this day, are those that have actual anniversaries or birthdays on this day. (Like my little brother... little.. heh.. he will be 18, this coming Valentines Day... OMG.. my little brother's gonna be a freaking adult. I haven't seen him since he turned 10!)
sweetiest day was this retarted so called holiday INVENTED by halmark in september its like a another V-day basically

Are you fucken kidding me??? I never heard of this shit, till I moved here! WTF!!! rediculous... another day that forces romance on us?! I don't want romance to be forced, I want it, "just because" not because its the day for it... how freaking stupid!

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Are you fucken kidding me??? I never heard of this shit, till I moved here! WTF!!! rediculous... another day that forces romance on us?! I don't want romance to be forced, I want it, "just because" not because its the day for it... how freaking stupid!
Originally it was desighned to give orphans candy on that day. It disappeared and Hallmark had a lull that time of year on card sales so sweetestday was reinvented. But Im a romantic and still celebrate it when in a relationship. I love all holidays.
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Are you fucken kidding me??? I never heard of this shit, till I moved here! WTF!!! rediculous... another day that forces romance on us?! I don't want romance to be forced, I want it, "just because" not because its the day for it... how freaking stupid!

you couldnt be more right raven...i sent you a PM by the way i dunno if u got it my comp is fucked up

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you couldnt be more right raven...i sent you a PM by the way i dunno if u got it my comp is fucked up

no, i haven't gotten it. :)

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no, i haven't gotten it. :)

damn it lol well did you get the one from Miranda then about the secret santa thingy?

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Originally it was desighned to give orphans candy on that day. It disappeared and Hallmark had a lull that time of year on card sales so sweetestday was reinvented. But Im a romantic and still celebrate it when in a relationship. I love all holidays.

well, when it was started, its creators may have good intentions...

anyways..

I haven't had a good experience with holidays... nothing but disapointment. except with the Sabbats and Esbats... I respect that others celebrate them... just don't expect me to, UNLESS its really important to someone. what pisses me off is that people want you to spend money on them, and when you don't they get upset. I'll be lucky to get anyone anything this year, and that will ONLY be because my roommates are gonna help me. I don't even have the money to buy stuff to make people something... :sad: I'll be lucky yo get anything for my bithday (not bitching about that, I really do feel lucky!)! lol so that's why I feel the way that I do..

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damn it lol well did you get the one from Miranda then about the secret santa thingy?

yes I did. :)

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yes I did. :)

thats cool...so are you still interested...iam doing it myself Mirandas doing it you said u were interested earlyer in the thread thats why we sent ya a PM and we sent 11 a PM but havent heard from her yet....iam not doing it to GET something per say iam doing it becuase i just like gift giving and the SS has always been fun to me personally

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Everything but Bacon Day.

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Christmas is the only day that my family can get away with being neglectful. I don't get shit for Christmas from most of my family... And since my birthday is so close, I usually get the combined gift. "this is for Christmas and your birthday" I'm sorry, if i had a kid, even on Christmas, they'd still get separate gifts. I swear... fucking excuses.. anything to get out of getting me stuff...

Same here... damned combination gifts were just a cheap way of getting dealing with what the other kids wanted (how the hell did my younger brother get an NES game system for christmas, and all I got was a couple of tapes?)

My birthday was very conveniently forgotten by family, including parents, on more than a few years (with the favorite sister saving the day partially by remembering.) I got so fed up with being forgotten on birthdays I blew up (one of the few times I have ever had a dreaded "temper flash" that *wasn't* brought about by assault on women or children,) at everyone. Now when the stepmother sends out things at this time, they are sent in different envelopes.

    So, Holidays I celebrate:
  • Thanksgiving (hey, it's the turkey and the napping.)
  • My Birthday
  • New Years Eve/Day
  • Veteran's Day
  • Memorial Day
  • Halloween

    Holidays I don't celebrate:
  • Pretty much everything else. I tend to pull call on christmas and thanksgiving, just to have an ace to pull when scheduling call.
  • The family's individual birthdays (last order from Dad regarding the family: No gift giving until you finish training; there are too many of them.)
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We should celebrate all religious holidays...with paid days off!

:)

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See I celebrate all the holidays, even the relgious ones. I'm not particularly religious but thats how I was raised. I don't spend money on anyone either seeing as I make my own gifts, and yarn is rather cheap. Kids these days expect to much at the holidays, like they are entitled to so much just because of the day. I'd rather be with my family and know they love me then to get stuff.

But that's just my two cents worth

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I don't really do V-day, but that could be because I'm single :p

I dont do sweetest day either.

The other ones I do because for me its family based. I've grown up in a family that loves to get together and just be together for that day. Not to mention dinner is a mighty fine plus :)

Oh and easter is ok but I think that's more fun for the kiddies then the adults :)

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Honestly... I celebrate as little as possible... no time to

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Easter: WTF does eggs and rabbits have to do with the death and resurrection of Christ???

The Easter Bunny as an Easter symbol seems to have its origins in Alsace and South-West-Germany, where it was first mentioned in German writings in the 1600s. The first edible Easter bunnies were made in Germany during the early 1800s, and were made of pastry and sugar. The Easter bunny was introduced to American folklore by the German settlers who arrived in the Pennsylvania Dutch country during the 1700s. [2] The arrival of the "Oschter Haws" was considered "childhood's greatest pleasure" next to a visit from Christ-Kindel on Christmas Eve. The children believed that if they were good the "Oschter Haws" would lay a nest of colored eggs. The children would build their nest in a secluded place in the home, the barn or the garden. Boys would use their caps and girls their bonnets to make the nests. The use of elaborate Easter baskets would come later as the tradition of the Easter bunny spread throughout the country.

From Wikipedia.org

I try not to celebrate any holiday, but unfortunately I get dragged into it by family and those I care about.

I get nervous/anxious when I have too much free time e.g. 4 days off in a row. Unfortunately for me, it's going to happen three times in two months this year.. some years, I can get away with it only being turkey day. Last year, I spent Thanksgiving flying out to San Francisco, only to turn right around and drive back with my ex. He wanted to move back home.

Winter Holidays.. I seem to be more down.. probably because we lack sunshine in these parts during that time of year, and I absolutely hate late January/February.. and it makes me nervous every year to have to go through those months.

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Easter: WTF does eggs and rabbits have to do with the death and resurrection of Christ???

"Eggs are for fertility and rabbits are for shagging. It's the Spring festival." -Eddie Izzard

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