vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 he kicked me out when i got a pregnant! and then disowned me! and it sucks i miss my dad so much and am a daddysgirl
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 Im so sorry, if you ever need to talk get a hold of me. Everyone here does.
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Im so sorry, if you ever need to talk get a hold of me. Everyone here does. my dad hates me he justed txt me that im a mistake am n tears
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 my dad hates me he justed txt me that im a mistake am n tears Hard to believe how cruel parents can be.
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Hard to believe how cruel parents can be. i hate it i miss my dad he txted me this,,,, i dont ever want! you in my life agian ur a mistake! and i hate you ur not ,y daugter anymore
Oh_My_Goth Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 i hate it i miss my dad he txted me this,,,, i dont ever want! you in my life agian ur a mistake! and i hate you ur not ,y daugter anymore Sounds like the pregnancy thing was a "last straw" kind of thing..... Or did ha just go from loving Father to sudden dick?????
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 i hate it i miss my dad he txted me this,,,, i dont ever want! you in my life agian ur a mistake! and i hate you ur not ,y daugter anymore Your in my prayers kiddo.
TheGimp Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 sorry to hear that dora...if you ever want someone to talk to feel free to send me a PM
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Sounds like the pregnancy thing was a "last straw" kind of thing..... Or did ha just go from loving Father to sudden dick????? he went sudden dick on me,,,,, and now hates me
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Your in my prayers kiddo. thank u
Msterbeau Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 Hard to believe how cruel parents can be. +1 Parents - Causing more pain to their children then everyone else combined.. Sorry Dora. I hope he reconsiders, or at least just shuts up and stays out of your life so you can begin to heal from his intolerance. Parents are supposed to show love and guidance to their kids... not stupidity and abuse. I have two daughters. I can't image EVER disowning them. Certainly not for getting pregnant at a young age. Pissed.. yeah... disown? Not even close.
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 +1 Parents - Causing more pain to their children then everyone else combined.. Sorry Dora. I hope he reconsiders, or at least just shuts up and stays out of your life so you can begin to heal from his intolerance. Parents are supposed to show love and guidance to their kids... not stupidity and abuse. I have two daughters. I can't image EVER disowning them. Certainly not for getting pregnant at a young age. Pissed.. yeah... disown? Not even close. Yep I have two step daughters and even though Im divorced they are everything to me.
Rayne Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 +1 Parents - Causing more pain to their children then everyone else combined.. Sorry Dora. I hope he reconsiders, or at least just shuts up and stays out of your life so you can begin to heal from his intolerance. Parents are supposed to show love and guidance to their kids... not stupidity and abuse. I have two daughters. I can't image EVER disowning them. Certainly not for getting pregnant at a young age. Pissed.. yeah... disown? Not even close. Same here. I have two daughters ... and two sons. I can't imagine. Although my Dad did it to me too, 11 years ago. It took him about 7 years to get over it.
Oh_My_Goth Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 he went sudden dick on me,,,,, and now hates me Weird.....I don't get it.
TheGimp Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 i can relate a lil bit to ya dora i was never kicked out but my step father treated me like shit as well....but your not alone youd be suprise how many people have unhealthy relationships with there parents on here
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 +1 Parents - Causing more pain to their children then everyone else combined.. Sorry Dora. I hope he reconsiders, or at least just shuts up and stays out of your life so you can begin to heal from his intolerance. Parents are supposed to show love and guidance to their kids... not stupidity and abuse. I have two daughters. I can't image EVER disowning them. Certainly not for getting pregnant at a young age. Pissed.. yeah... disown? Not even close. thank you! i wish he wood love me again....i didnt want to get pregneat it messed my whole life up....i got kicked out of my house when was 2 months and i didnt know,,,,,so i didnt tell him....i just went to the docs and then told him...he threw all my shit out ,,,,and told me that i was a mistake,,,,and im not allowed in his life anymore....im a bad person and im a discrase to the world...... he told me today that i was a ugly fat whore who needs to learn how to keep my legs close...and that he will never look at me the same....he hates me now...and i cry my slef to sleep wishing i had my dad back.,.... im a daddy girl and always will b=(
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 thank you! i wish he wood love me again....i didnt want to get pregneat it messed my whole life up....i got kicked out of my house when was 2 months and i didnt know,,,,,so i didnt tell him....i just went to the docs and then told him...he threw all my shit out ,,,,and told me that i was a mistake,,,,and im not allowed in his life anymore....im a bad person and im a discrase to the world...... he told me today that i was a ugly fat whore who needs to learn how to keep my legs close...and that he will never look at me the same....he hates me now...and i cry my slef to sleep wishing i had my dad back.,.... im a daddy girl and always will b=( Damn it this is making me tear up. I really wish I could change things for you.
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Damn it this is making me tear up. I really wish I could change things for you. i wish i could go back in time....and change my life,,,,,,, my life is so horrible,,,,,,,, i wish i had a life again,,,,but my dad took that away
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 i wish i could go back in time....and change my life,,,,,,, my life is so horrible,,,,,,,, i wish i had a life again,,,,but my dad took that away You can get your life on track, just focus on the schooling and turn yourself around
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 You can get your life on track, just focus on the schooling and turn yourself around im actully doing really good in school....and i just want him to be pround.....i got a scholarship for 4 years to college at mti,,,,,its my last year of school.......but he wont be there to c any of it,,,,none of it,,,, i wish i could change it go back in time...and fix the mistakes i have done to make my dad hate me and not want me,,,,,im suck a fuck up
prick Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 im actully doing really good in school....and i just want him to be pround.....i got a scholarship for 4 years to college at mti,,,,,its my last year of school.......but he wont be there to c any of it,,,,none of it,,,, i wish i could change it go back in time...and fix the mistakes i have done to make my dad hate me and not want me,,,,,im suck a fuck up Stop that shit, You made a mistake but your human. Your father is being am ass. Its not your fault that he went this extreme. He will come around when he sees what a success you become.
Onyx Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 im actully doing really good in school....and i just want him to be pround.....i got a scholarship for 4 years to college at mti,,,,,its my last year of school.......but he wont be there to c any of it,,,,none of it,,,, i wish i could change it go back in time...and fix the mistakes i have done to make my dad hate me and not want me,,,,,im suck a fuck up Oh man. Your father is not being a father. Don't beat yourself up about this at all. I have 2 daughters and can not imagine ever treating my child like that. What he said and did was horribly abusive. How could he? How can a father not care about his child and the health of his grandchild to be? Honestly if it were my father I don't know if I would EVER forgive him talking to me in that manner. Maybe with time you can, but right now you need to concentrate on taking care of yourself. He has made his decision and I know it is one he will regret in time. Probably it would be best not to communicate with him for awhile and maybe when some time has passed you can. We ALL make mistakes and I am sure he has made a few of his own. AND damn, don't say you are a fuck up. You have a 4 year scholarship! You are doing well in school! Be proud of yourself! Do you have any idea how many wish they could go to school and can't? That's definitely quite an accomplishment. I know it has to hurt a lot,but you have to think about your own future and that of your child, and sometimes we have to be our own mother and father when our parents fail us. ((((hugs))))
vampireprincess Posted November 29, 2008 Author Posted November 29, 2008 Oh man. Your father is not being a father. Don't beat yourself up about this at all. I have 2 daughters and can not imagine ever treating my child like that. What he said and did was horribly abusive. How could he? How can a father not care about his child and the health of his grandchild to be? Honestly if it were my father I don't know if I would EVER forgive him talking to me in that manner. Maybe with time you can, but right now you need to concentrate on taking care of yourself. He has made his decision and I know it is one he will regret in time. Probably it would be best not to communicate with him for awhile and maybe when some time has passed you can. We ALL make mistakes and I am sure he has made a few of his own. AND damn, don't say you are a fuck up. You have a 4 year scholarship! You are doing well in school! Be proud of yourself! Do you have any idea how many wish they could go to school and can't? That's definitely quite an accomplishment. I know it has to hurt a lot,but you have to think about your own future and that of your child, and sometimes we have to be our own mother and father when our parents fail us. ((((hugs)))) i wish i was still A mom i had a miscarrige 2 months ago,,,,and he still hates me,,,,,,and he said he glad i had one.....and i am pround that i get to go to college and wish the best for the people who are in school......... and im not talking to my dad till he has something nice to say! i am still not over my miscarrige,,,i used to rub my belly evrynite and i still do it and i cry when i do it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and thanks for the hug i need it,,,,and i am a fuck up in my dads eyes,,,,,,,,, i guesss i mad to many mistakes for him
Onyx Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 i wish i was still A mom i had a miscarrige 2 months ago,,,,and he still hates me,,,,,,and he said he glad i had one.....and i am pround that i get to go to college and wish the best for the people who are in school......... and im not talking to my dad till he has something nice to say! i am still not over my miscarrige,,,i used to rub my belly evrynite and i still do it and i cry when i do it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and thanks for the hug i need it,,,,and i am a fuck up in my dads eyes,,,,,,,,, i guesss i mad to many mistakes for him Sorry to hear about your loss, somehow I missed that part when I read through what you wrote. I'm glad to hear that you aren't going to subject yourself to that kind of abuse by continuing to speak to him. There is really no excuse for that kind of behavior from anyone, especially a parent toward a child. It's really sickening to me.
TheGimp Posted November 29, 2008 Posted November 29, 2008 Sorry to hear about your loss, somehow I missed that part when I read through what you wrote. I'm glad to hear that you aren't going to subject yourself to that kind of abuse by continuing to speak to him. There is really no excuse for that kind of behavior from anyone, especially a parent toward a child. It's really sickening to me. i agree with onyx she's right no one should ever do that to there children it sickens me as well
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