Opposites attract

[Homicidalheathen]

Opposites Attract: Opposite Zodiac Sign Compatibility

By April Elliott Kent

Provided by Tarot.com

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Get My Profile Ah, romantic chemistry: so thrilling, so unpredictable -- and yet, so exhausting. Any two signs of the zodiac can get along if both are willing to work out their differences. Opposite signs, though, share a special attraction right from the start -- but also face the special challenges that come with having very different personalities.

Just as a battery creates an energizing spark when opposite polarities are brought together, signs that are polar opposites on the horoscopic wheel generate sparks that can ignite passionate relationships. But spending time with someone whose approach to life is completely opposite your own can be draining, too, and eventually your relationship battery will need to be recharged. How can you and your opposite sign revive the spark that brought you together -- and maintain your relationship's sizzle?

Aries (March 21) – Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22)

When Aries meets Libra, a spark of passion is ignited by a primal clash between Aries' raw energy and unbridled sexuality and Libra's smooth charm and refinement. But over time, the spark can trigger flames of irritation as Aries tires of Libra's delicate manners and Libra despairs of ever civilizing Aries. To keep your relationship pulsating with passion rather than pique, declare détente in the battle of the sexes and work together to create something tangible -- start a business, build a house, or just cook dinner together. The complementary skills you bring to the task at hand will remind you why you're such an excellent match.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20) – Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)

This is a flaming hot combination right from the start. When easy-going, sensual Taurus collides with Scorpio's smoldering passion, they erupt in a conflagration of desire. Over time, though, Taurus can tire of Scorpio's intensity, while Scorpio may find Taurus a bit too laid back. Ironically, you can keep the sparks flying in your relationship by occasionally getting out of the bedroom; an afternoon with friends or an evening at a concert will help you see each other through fresh eyes -- and give you the chance to yearn for each other from afar.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20) – Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)

From the moment that sparkling, intellectual Gemini meets sage, philosophical Sagittarius, your mutual love of ideas sparks immediate fascination. Your opposite approaches to the world of the mind can, however, drive you to frustration, with Gemini growing annoyed by Sagittarius' know-it-all attitude and Sagittarius irritated by Gemini's love of chatter and gossip. Transform the tension into sizzling sensuality with forays into the realms of nature and imagination. Take a swim, hike in the mountains, go on a safari; or spend an afternoon losing yourselves in music, film or art. Simply getting out of your heads for awhile can refuel your passion -- and give you new and exciting ideas to talk about.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22) – Capricorn (Dec. 23 – Jan. 19)

When sensitive, security-seeking Cancer meets strong, silent Capricorn, the classic match between supportive nurturer and worldly provider excites instantaneous attraction. Over time, though, Cancer can feel ignored by Capricorn, while Capricorn sometimes sees Cancer as too clingy. To keep your relationship from cooling, you need to remember that you're not just partners, but lovers. Follow the example of every couple in the history of television sitcoms and get out of the house, stash the kids with their grandparents, and have yourselves a real, old-fashioned date. Head to an exclusive restaurant with flowers, champagne and romantic gifts in tow -- and when you get home, slip into your most provocative lingerie.

Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22) – Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)

Attraction explodes when Leo, the king or queen of the kingdom, encounters irreverent Aquarius. Aquarius, who refuses to bow before royalty, fascinates Leo; Aquarius admires Leo's ability to warm up any room with sheer charisma. Over time, though, Aquarius can become weary of Leo's need for attention, and Leo grows cranky as Aquarius continually defies social conventions. When you're ready to wash your hands of each other, drag each other off to bed instead. Spending time away from crowds and indulging the purely physical side of your relationship is the surest way to find common ground and reenergize your attraction.

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22) – Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)

Virgo is, above all, orderly and practical; Pisces swims through life deftly avoiding the stifling confines of humdrum routines. When you come together, each is titillated by the prospect of giving the other a makeover, with Virgo organizing Pisces' affairs and Pisces helping Virgo unwind and live a little. Over time, though, Virgo becomes exasperated by Pisces' unreliability, while Pisces resents Virgo's tendency to criticize and control. A regular change of scenery is the key to keeping your relationship passionate. Travel to new lands, study a language together, or just visit a new restaurant across town. Virgo will benefit from the change in routine, while Pisces will appreciate Virgo's ability to plan an efficient itinerary, remember to make reservations, or conjugate unwieldy verbs in a foreign tongue.

About the Author

April Elliott Kent is an astrologer and writer living in San Diego, California. Her astrology articles have appeared in The Mountain Astrologer and Wholistic Astrologer magazines, the online journals Beliefnet and Mooncircles, and Llewellyn's Moon Sign Book. She just completed work on her first book, 'Marriage Signs.' April's website is www.bigskyastrology.com.

[Homicidalheathen]

[Riku Namako]

its that six month difference, or the 7th sun sign from your own. I could rant about this kinda thing (among other zodiac traits) for hours.......too many ways to manipulate this system, provided you have a threshold for dealing with certain aspects of others personalities. You'd be surprised, not a lot of people are willing to go through with it, basically giving up on the other stating that their impossible to get along with/annoying as all hell/ etc etc....

er....yeah, I'll stop here

[Simon Bar Sinister]

Never met a single Virgo I'd even consider dating. The. End.

[Black Jack (1)]

I'm a Capricorn and so was my last roommate it was a living hell need I mind you if only one is the full support sooner or later it is bound to fail. The very reason why I am looking for someone with NOTHING in common with what so ever. The six month span is what most wants cause of the diversity but after enough elapsed time it tends to be nauseating. From my stand point I only wanted a woman to meet me half way. Is that so bad?

[Der Nister]

I dated someone that is the sign they suggest for me and it was horrible.

Never again.

[taysteewonderbunny]

Never met a single Virgo I'd even consider dating. The. End.

Well, my daughter is a Virgo--off limits to you anyway!

[TheGimp]

i dont think ive ever dated a virgo i heard ther a lot o trouble

[Guest greyhalo]

I'm a water sign, and I'm often attracted to fire signs. But, I've never dated a Taurus, which is what they suggest.

[Rev.Reverence]

I'm a water sign, and I'm often attracted to fire signs. But, I've never dated a Taurus, which is what they suggest.

Taurus = Earth Sign

...that would just make mud...(yes...I used the OLD joke)...

[Simon Bar Sinister]

Well, my daughter is a Virgo--off limits to you anyway!

You've obviously gotten me confused with Goth Brooks.

[Der Nister]

Is this like a magnet thing?

[Msterbeau]

You've obviously gotten me confused with Goth Brooks.

*Zing*

[industrial_girl_2000]

I'm a gemini & they suggest sagitarius which I guess is ok (I've never dated one). I have always been hopelessly attracted to Aquarius men (find them fascinating) for some reason, but unfortunately the last one I dated & was completely fascinated with broke my heart (just happened yesterday). :(

Needless to say I am definitely not thinking about dating anyone right now, let alone a Sagitarius which is what they suggest.

[Head Wreck]

gemini... i never know what star signs my previouses are as i'm really not up on dates and zodiac periods

[phee]

I am a Taurus.... but thats Bull

[Rayne]

I am a Leo.

[taysteewonderbunny]

You've obviously gotten me confused with Goth Brooks.

By "you," I meant DGN at large.

[Homicidalheathen]

I want to try a Taurus on for size...maybe that would be a good thing...weird, I have never played with a bull.

Always thought a bull would be too stuborn for a scorp...to much alike.

I try not to place too much on this stuff, but would consider that this might work.

[Burrich1]

As a Virgo, every Pisces I have ever dated started off with instant chemistry. Than the relationship quickly became insanely intense. Then within 3 to 6 months, we both wanted to kill each other. This despite traveling to foreign lands and visiting the restaurant across town.

[TitsMcGee]

You know, with me I don't think it matters what sign the person is, they just have to be strong enough to deal with all my pisces emotions. Which can be difficult for most.

[Ice Queen (1)]

When you're ready to wash your hands of each other, drag each other off to bed instead. Spending time away from crowds and indulging the purely physical side of your relationship is the surest way to find common ground and reenergize your attraction.

I absolutely love this advice.

Can I get a show of hands from single, straight or bi, Aquarian men over 6 feet tall please?

[StormKnight (1)]

I have never dated a Gemini, being a Sagittarius myself. Have dated Pieces, another Sagittarius, and an Aries who made her birthday celebration one I still get the envy of my old doorman for.