How do you Handle...

[Vivian]

well my roommate flew off the handle tonight. He got frustrated with roger, and just snapped. He told me to leave, and I was like.. omg.. When he gets in his rages, he gets violent. *sigh* how do you handle people like that? I mean, he's great when he's happy, but his medication only goes so far. Im scared where i live, but its my only home.

*lol* at least he didnt have a butter knife this time... heh

Vivian

p.s. im home now, he calmed down... but still

[Guest Megalicious]

I think its time to find a new roomate .... that doesnt sound like a heathly envoriment for you .......=(

[Vivian]

im kind of stuck in this boat, because i just moved back to michigan about a week ago.. im trying to find another place to crash.. but i dunno..

[Homicidalheathen]

When I lived with people like this I was in AZ. Always warm enough to sleep at the park. In MI it's a problem. I would move ASAP.

well my roommate flew off the handle tonight. He got frustrated with roger, and just snapped. He told me to leave, and I was like.. omg.. When he gets in his rages, he gets violent. *sigh* how do you handle people like that? I mean, he's great when he's happy, but his medication only goes so far. Im scared where i live, but its my only home.

*lol* at least he didnt have a butter knife this time... heh

Vivian

p.s. im home now, he calmed down... but still

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[Troy Spiral (13)]

Longer term yeah , move.

But if im understanding clearly, you really cant just "up and move" right away. Just try to remove your emotions when hes like that and stay clam, its hard but try. Its hard to respond well and react to chaotic situations when your overly scared or angry.

Hope your doing ok.

[Vivian]

Longer term yeah , move.

But if im understanding clearly, you really cant just "up and move" right away.  Just try to remove your emotions when hes like that and stay clam, its hard but try.  Its hard to respond well and react to chaotic situations when your overly scared or angry.

Hope your doing ok.

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im doing okay. i've smoothed over the ruffled feathers, and just taking it day by day. my roommate is getting better at controling his emotions. for the most part. thanks for the concern you guys.. i just needed sympathy

[Goth Brooks]

frying pan

[Brenda Starrr]

frying pan

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Amen, Mr. Brooks.

[Ginevra]

Viv, you might consider finding a room in the house where you can get away from his anger if it gets unmanageable, such as your sleeping room, where you can put a lock on the door.

[Vivian]

i dont need a lock on the door, i just leave, if he gets upset. its better to not be here, then to try and hide. he is big and strong. better to run lol.

frying pan? hahaha.. funny

[Guest Megalicious]

i dont need a lock on the door, i just leave, if he gets upset. its better to not be here, then to try and hide. he is big and strong. better to run lol.

frying pan? hahaha..  funny

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You should'nt have to leave your own house autum its a place for you to feel safe and always welcome because it s YOUR place!! .... Im sorry you have to feel that you must leave your comfort zone everytime your roomate decides to have a tantrum =( It must really suck .....

[Vivian]

well, i take comfort from large crowds of people, so when i need to leave i just head up to trixies... im among friends when im there, its my second home, and they have coffee and tissues if i need a good cry.

[Goth Brooks]

Amen, Mr. Brooks.

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I was going to say rolling pin, but I didn't want to get crucified by any lurking feminazis.

[Vivian]

ehhh, i live in a bachelor pad, there is no rolling pin!!!

*you dont even have a rolling pin!*

[Scary Guy]

Kill them before they kill you

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm going to buy a rolling pin....

[Vivian]

lol hey my roommate isnt all that bad, he is giving me 60 dollars to get my car in my name and to put plates on it. now all i have to do is get the insurance, and i have a running car!!!!!!! omg!!!!!!!