Well I am off of here

[TomCat]

Glad you're sticing around. I'd hate to have to bust some dude's kneecaps. :devil

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[Homicidalheathen]

I just think threatening to put someone like me's body parts in bags all over Ohio raises a red flag and don't want anyone to get hurt. I did recomend him to the board.

I know exactly what it is ... when you feel uncomfortable you  really cant be yourself ... not only that  but you belong to a commnituy of ppl that can be torn because of it.  Ok so HH wasnt getting along with someone, right?  So just ingore them?  Sometimes Im sorry but its just not that easy.  And then one person posts and everyone agrees with this said person and the other person feels completly betrayed and hurt by everyone on the board.  Im just saying there are two sides to every story. Not that Im saying HH is in the wrong because I like you HH and I would like you to stay.  I think for the majorty of this board  this is where you meet "real" friends,  not just ppl you know or happen to hang out with sometimes. Most of us see eachother on a weekly (if not more) basis.  And when someone post about this even with out mentioning the other DGN's name it still makes them feel outted and hurt without knowing the whole story.  I dont think thats right ... Not that its ever happend to me ... but I see it .. and i dont like it ... It makes ME feel sad so i can only Imagine what i makes the other person feel like .  I dont know .... hhmmmmmmm......

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[Brenda Starrr]

I'd kick his ass.

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[Guest Game of Chance]

I just think threatening to put someone like me's body parts in bags all over Ohio raises a red flag and don't want anyone to get hurt.  I did recomend him to the board.

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umm...if someone actually said that...and even meant it for a second...I think I'm leaving the board until that person is identified...I'd rather not associate with such types

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Like I can really kick anyone's ass. I'm harmless.

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[Goth Brooks]

I haven't even gotten a chance to meet HH yet :\

[Homicidalheathen]

I think we got everything squared away. Just some misunderstandings....I do have some issues and when people cross boundaries I really freak out.

The guy is ok just needs to get to know me and take it real slow. I have major trust issues and if you know me you know why.

I won't let a wierdo come on here through me.

He is ok. Won't hurt anyone just kinda strange like the rest of us. Ha.

[Lilith]

HH

Really if some one makes u that upset and it is too difficult to straighten out right away then it is time for you to take a step back and just be a friendly aquaintence untill everyting becomes clear, you feel better, and are safe.

The person may be end up being a good friend in the long run but with any good thing there are kinks to work out, and sometimes ya just have to know when to cut your losses and move on.

Taking a break from the person might be good, keep everyting casual non ppersonal and see what happens at a slow pace that you set.

Keep Strong,

Luv ya babe

Lilith

[Homicidalheathen]

Friendship is always better anyway, and taken slowly...in strides. It takes time to build trust. Especially with someone like me. Thanks for caring and looking out for me.

HH

Really if some one makes u that upset and it is too difficult to straighten out right away then it is time for you to take a step back and just be a friendly aquaintence  untill everyting becomes clear, you feel better, and are safe.

The person may be end up being a good friend in the long run but with any good thing there are kinks to work out, and sometimes ya just have to know when to cut your losses and move on.

Taking a break from the person might be good, keep everyting casual non ppersonal and see what happens at a slow pace that you set.

Keep Strong,

Luv ya babe

Lilith

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