When a relationship turns bad

[Homicidalheathen]

.....so this guy I know keeps asking for advise......I say call it quits if: You feel a need to lie....

A need to cast spells.....

Don't you?

I don't think this is good for him but he gets mad when I tell him to just dump her already and so I keep my mouth shut but he asks for advise! I will not be put in a position to lie.

[bean]

Yep, when it comes to advice, I won't lie, especailly when it comes to relationships. It's like, look, you came to me for advice, so I'm going to give it to you. If you don't want to hear it, then don't ask me. My friends used to get mad at me when I would tell them their s/o was sucky, but now when they date someone new, they always ask me what I think of them, because I have been correct about their past s/o's 90% of the time. I just wish I had that kind of accuracy when it came to my own relationships...*sigh*

[Homicidalheathen]

Yah I say f*ck it! If you don't want to listen don't ask. Go cut your own throat morally and charmically with this dark relationship shit...

I am about to loose another freind because I cannot tolerate her man and she won't listen either but calls for advise.

[Onyx]

.....so this guy I know keeps asking for advise......I say call it quits if: You feel a need to lie....

A need to cast spells.....

Don't you?

I don't think this is good for him but he gets mad when I tell him to just dump her already and so I keep my mouth shut but he asks for advise!  I will not be put in a position to lie.

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Feeling like he needs spells, lies, playing games, all the same category to me. Sounds like they may be incompatible.

[Homicidalheathen]

All I know is.....I cannot even talk to him when he is with her she is that jelous. If he has plans and she wants him to break them, he does. I have about had it.

[honeymustard02]

Tell him that he already knows what you're going to say and it hasn't changed.

Also if he's so unsure that he has to ask other people about his relationship, then he already has decided and just hasn't acted.

[TomCat]

Better to cut loose, than to compromise your integrity.

[Homicidalheathen]

So last night he told her he doesn't love her....which he does...just to be hurtful. He is a great guy....I think she is bringing out the worst in him...he usually wouldn't do something just to be mean like that.