Well.....

[LadyWindstone]

.....that i will probably not get a date anytime soon. I'm taking myself off the market until i get my life straight anyhow. I'm pretty much giving up that i will have some sort of relationship with anyone. Dating these days is pretty hard and finding someone with the same interests (at partly) in my area is impossible. Especially since most of the guys that I would date are taken. Go figure.

[Fierce Critter]

I hope then that you can enjoy "girls night out" at CC on Saturdays. "Cause I love hanging with you.

PM a'comin'. :grin

[LadyWindstone]

I always love girls nite out at CC.

[cptdeath]

yeah i feel you on that.

i often consider that i really don't have the kind of life that i want to share cause it's not good enough.

i need to have a life ,before i have a life to share

[Draco1958]

Warren is a bit a ways from me but not too far and we do have 1 interest in common. We both dress up for the Ren Fair. I like your costume from the fair.

[LadyWindstone]

thanks Draco. I had to borrow that outfit lol.

[bean]

Men, shmen; date, shmate. We don' need no stinkin' relationships. Meh...there is still fun to be had!

[saechalyn]

Yeah, I know the feeling. Hang in there LW.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

maybe you could try alternate venues:

Bookstores,

Whole Foods,

Trader Joes,

Coffee Shops,

non gothy places....

you never know... you could find your perfect someone at a school or even a motorcycle swap meet....

[Homicidalheathen]

I personally wouldnt look for a husband at CC heh

Your young though taking time off could be a good thing......I know I still do it.....regroup, refocus.

I love a good girls night out......its all I have been doing lately and it is empowering.

[LadyWindstone]

I"m not looking for a husband at CC. CC is for fun and fun only. A place to hang with my friends cause that seems to be the only place that i can see some of them.

[Homicidalheathen]

Good to hear it! Smart girl!

I just think its funny.......I have talked to a couple people who go to CC to find the love of their life.

Am I the only one who finds this amusing?

Personally I like a girls night out at Danny's in Windsor......but I used to dance. I like to do the humiliating and degrading for a change.

DOWN ON YOUR KNEES BOOYEEEEE! Now let me stick this dollar where the sun won't shine. LOL

I"m not looking for a husband at CC. CC is for fun and fun only. A place to hang with my friends cause that seems to be the only place that i can see some of them.

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[DarkChylde]

I've tried to avoid dating, well umm......Something just happened *long story*. But yeah I know where your coming from on that though, I've always had my dry spells and believe me, I had ALOT!! It just takes time, it'll hit you over the head when you dont expect it. Thats how life goes and it sux so might as well prepare a sword and a shield because life is prolly going to get much worse for us all.

[unchaste]

Good to hear it!  Smart girl!

I just think its funny.......I have talked to a couple people who go to CC to find the love of their life.

Am I the only one who finds this amusing?

Personally I like a girls night out at Danny's in Windsor......but I used to dance.  I like to do the humiliating and degrading for a change.

DOWN ON YOUR KNEES BOOYEEEEE!  Now let me stick this dollar where the sun won't shine.  LOL

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Ooooh, that sounds like fun. I see a girl's night out in the near future.... :devil

[DisturbedMania]

Relationships fall into place when you least expect them. I find that it's a good idea that you don't search. However, make sure you have a strong list of standards that the other person needs to have for relationships. I've found when I break the list, I get burned.

[the eternal]

Men, shmen; date, shmate.  We don' need no stinkin' relationships.  Meh...there is still fun to be had! 

Im too much of a romantic to feel that way. Ive tried to shield my heart and failed. There's nothing like feeling in love. :whistling :whistling

Relationships fall into place when you least expect them.  I find that it's a good idea that you don't search.  However, make sure you have a strong list of standards that the other person needs to have for relationships.  I've found when I break the list, I get burned.

Truer words have rarely been spoken.

[Draco1958]

I"m not looking for a husband at CC. CC is for fun and fun only. A place to hang with my friends cause that seems to be the only place that i can see some of them.

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Sounds alot like me. Not gonna be lookin for a wife at CC. Just hoping to make some new friends to hang out with. However that's not to say I couldn't meet someone from here and connect.

[bean]

I met my husband at cc. Need I say more? Scream, run for your lives! EEEK!!

[LadyWindstone]

There is no way that one would meet Mr. Right at CC. Mr. Right Now but not Mr. Right.

[wood]

i live in detroit so i can offer you my friendship, but as far as relationship goes that takes time. but hang in there it should get better.

[Onyx]

There is no way that one would meet Mr. Right at CC. Mr. Right Now but not Mr. Right.

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What does that say about us though?

Every single board member who goes to CC are just losers, eh? hehe.

I know what you mean though. I've had a few bad experiences with cc-goers myself. (but a couple of pretty good ones also. hmmm)

[An_Incomplete_heart]

I wish I could find a good husband I need a man for some sweet hot lovin and to open up the pickel jars

[gothicmom]

I didn't find my husband at CC, but I did meet him at a night club! So don't discredit everyone. Right Bean water?

[saechalyn]

What does that say about us though? 

Every single board member who goes to CC are just losers, eh? hehe. 

I know what you mean though.  I've had a few bad experiences with cc-goers myself.  (but a couple of pretty good ones also.  hmmm)

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Exactly what I was thinking.

You could meet your future spouse anywhere- yes, even CC. However I don't think it's a good idea to go looking specifically for a spouse- that is just a recipe for disaster.

[LadyWindstone]

Well I make sure that I leave the house on a regular basis. The next step is up to them. It's up to me afterwards to figure out whether or not I want them. So far not really. lol.