I am so sad today....

[Homicidalheathen]

.......I had to dump some friends recently. I cannot get caught up in their drama to which they have to much in their life. And I am a caring and giving person so I get sucked in then the life sucked out of me.

I will not take lies and mind games and heavy drug use.

I don't mind the occasional fib....but all out lying bothers me.

I won't be there for someone only when it suits their needs.

I am tired of stupid, selfish and shallow people.

I don't mind someone who occasionally does a drug or two.....but everyday or week is too much.

~Sigh~

I thought at my age it got easier to make freinds but it seems like people just find more ways to lie.....more ways to mess with you....or use you.

It is hard. We are goth swinger pagans. I feel like a rose in the desert.

Oh and why is everyone so crazy these days? Is it something in the water???? I meet preppy, yuppy...otherwise successful people on like 5 different meds.

Or people who should be on meds but instead abuse others for an outlet instead of controlling or getting better their situation.

I had allot of freinds in Pheonix and have always had a hard time in the midwest making freinds.

[kellygrrrrrl]

Awww =( =( =(

It is tough. Just when you thought you knew someone, they do something that totally sways how you thought about them.

This is life. People change. For the better, and sadly enough, change for the worse more often than not.

Times are hard. People don't know how to cope. More and more people are turning to other Outlets, rather than coping. They just don't have it in them, or don't know how.

You want to help, but sometimes that just enables them.

All you can do is cherish the relationships that you have, and keep your heart soft and open to new peoples.

They say in your entire lifetime you will be able to count your true true friends on one hand.

GOOD freinds are hard to come by.

I am losing an old friend to crack/cocaine right now. It is hard to watch.

[Homicidalheathen]

Yup same here but I think its meth I really do.

We had to kick him out of our coven.

[phee]

May I reccomend the pity party for some sympathetic vibes

[DisturbedMania]

On the plus side you can hang with me and Jeremy. We are crazy, but the honest, fun variety.

[Onyx]

Damn, is there something in the air lately? I can relate. My best longest friendship seems to be over and I'm not even sure why.

I think it's because I didn't take her advice, did something stupid and then complained to her about the result, and yes, I know now that i should have taken her advice, but damn, I am not perfect and sometimes I screw up royally.

I didn't end it, and I know she is okay because I see her online on Yahoo but she doesn't answer email and is always "busy" when I have IM'd her.

I am so sick about it, and I know how you feel. :( A really close friend is a rare thing for me.

[Lilith]

I have three maybe four Really Really Really Good Friends. They are precious and i have been through allot f things withthem from Psycho Killer boyfriends to druggs. In the really rough times i have had to remove my self slightly from them to save my own sanity, but i still tried to be a good friend and just not cut them off. I would talk and listen and give advice and huggs and just love them no matter what yet check them on the things they are doing wrong.

If your friend is really that good of a freind i would not write him off totally, just remove yourself from his problems a bit and try to help the best you can at a distance. It hurts like hell i know all to well how much it can hurt and consume you, but some how through my friendships with these people they have found i am a good friend to them as well and that has given me my friends back when the problems they had to deal with has subsided.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

My best friend of 15 years and I dont talk much anymore.... (as of late) becuase he has issues with my SO and hes a turd.

[Homicidalheathen]

Issues with your SO? What is that....and he is a turd? Because everyone has them whether they will admit it or not. :cheerful :erm :confused :blink

[Brenda Starrr]

Zhuk, your friend IS a turd, because your SO is awesome.