I Am Invisible

[n0Mad]

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I am giving up on women. You think they'd at least talk to me but I guess I'm not even worth that.

[Onyx]

Awww, damn.

Maybe those particular ones aren't worth your time.

[Homicidalheathen]

B.S. I was intrigued by your profile as soon as I saw it and more by your posts. I, however, am married.

[n0Mad]

Maybe those particular ones aren't worth your time.

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Those two from last night, a few more I can think of, then there's all the others ... Yeah, pretty much every available woman in existence, and definately all the ones I'm attracted to.

B.S.  I was intrigued by your profile as soon as I saw it and more by your posts.  I, however, am married.

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And there's another one of my problems. There was a six year period between Jess and Brooke where every gal I talked to was involved in some sort of a relationship or another. Heck, Jess had a boyfriend when she and I were dating, Brooke was married when we met (though seperated for 3+ years) and when she finally decided to go through with the divorce, she got rid of me as well. And the most recent girl who I fooled around with for a bit (I wasn't even interested in her but she's the only one who's given me any attention so I went with it) was also dating another guy at the time, and is still with him. The last girl I've had who was all my own and I didn't have to share with anybody was around 11 years ago and I was in high school then.

A few of my least favorite phrases are, "Why can't I find a guy just like you?" Well, I'm here. "No, not you specifically. I meant a guy like you. We're just too good of friends to date." And then recently I've been hating, "Aw, if I wasn't taken, I'd date you." And then the girl gets broken up with, comes crying to me, I provide consolation and get them back on their feet, and they proceed to run off and date a few other guys before deciding on another one and a long term relationship begins again leaving me in the dust. Never once do they even consider me and when reminded about the latter saying, they result to using the former as well.

Anyway, I wasn't expecting this to turn into a huge rant or even a Spook pitty party so I better stop here because I have plenty more I can carry on with. I was just stating fact and setting precedence so if I ever start falling for another woman again I can simply return here and go, "Oh yeah, I gave up on women," and prevent a whole lot of heart break.

[Reaper]

lol damn man, you have the exact same problems as I do. I had a lot of female friends that came to me about boyfriends and the problems associated. As much advise that was given to them, they ignored it and kept on going with it only to eventually get rid of them. I can't get past all the talk they bring up and the lack of actions they take.

Lately they have confused the hell out of me. I have yet to figure out why they do the things they do and not say. Girl at work can't figure out if she wants to do anything at all, though she is the one that came up to ME and gave me HER phone number. She is hung up over a guy that treats her like shit and she whines and complains about it, yet continues to be involved.

One question for women that are NOT taken, and know what they want. What is wrong with you? lol

[bean]

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I am giving up on women.  You think they'd at least talk to me but I guess I'm not even worth that.

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I don't understand people sometimes. You are a very attractive man, and from the little bit that I talked to you Saturday night at the club, and from your posts, you seem like a really cool guy. *shrugs* Maybe it comes from people not knowing what they want? I don't know.

[Homicidalheathen]

Well don't give up. Your too cute for that! :blushing

[n0Mad]

Aww ... thanks you two. Hugs all around.

I know one of the reasons I get all too often is, "You're too nice." Whatever the fuck that means. Silly bitches.

[Rayne]

Dude, your not invisible. I saw you Saturday night.

[n0Mad]

Dude, your not invisible. I saw you Saturday night.

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Maybe you're a Medium then.

The one I really wanted to talk to and get to know better completely ignored me all night, so to her I am invisible. =(

[Brenda Starrr]

Aww ... thanks you two.  Hugs all around.

I know one of the reasons I get all too often is, "You're too nice."  Whatever the fuck that means.  Silly bitches.

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Too nice is almost nonexistent. You're a wonderful rarity. Everyone that doesn't see that need to take advantage of the Pearle Vision Center Special, and quick.

Fools.

[Onyx]

Maybe you're a Medium then. 

The one I really wanted to talk to and get to know better completely ignored me all night, so to her I am invisible.  =(

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Several things could be happening here -- she could be shy. Maybe she didn't realize you were interested. Sometimes you have to just be blunt and just say it. (This guy in high school I saw years later said he always had a crush on me -- I never had a clue. Of course he waits till he is MARRIED to tell me - geez).

or.... maybe she just isn't the one for you right now.

God I have to shut up today. I keep spouting advice at people!

[Jarodaka]

hmm, since you said this isn't a 'pity party' I'll throw in some unsolicited advice:

You need to change either you or your environment. The reason you're getting friends rather than dates is because you're acting like a friend and not somebody who wants a date.

[Brenda Starrr]

Several things could be happening here -- she could be shy.  Maybe she didn't realize you were interested.  Sometimes you have to just be blunt and just say it.  (This guy in high school I saw years later said he always had a crush on me -- I never had a clue.  Of course he waits till he is MARRIED to tell me - geez).

or.... maybe she just isn't the one for you right now.

God I have to shut up today.  I keep spouting advice at people!

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You need a column: "Ask Dr. Onyx"

[Reaper]

Yeah, just walk up to them and say, Lets Bang Bitch. That always worked for me.

[Brenda Starrr]

Oh God.....

*kicking Reaper*

[Rayne]

Yeah, just walk up to them and say, Lets Bang Bitch.  That always worked for me.

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*falls over laughing*

[Jarodaka]

Don't forget: "You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills... Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills. "

[Guest Megalicious]

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I am giving up on women.  You think they'd at least talk to me but I guess I'm not even worth that.

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I know how you feel.

[Blackmail]

Don't forget: "You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills... Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills. "

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I used to play highschool football, do you want to watch the VHS highlights?

[DisturbedMania]

One question for women that are NOT taken, and know what they want.  What is wrong with you? lol

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I end up attracted to people that start off nice and go psycho. Only 2 weren't totally nuts out of 5. I think I boost egos too much. Dunno. Gotta start trying to treat my men like shyt cause nice isn't working!

[n0Mad]

See, I'm nice and sweet and stuff but the women I tend to meet treat me like shit so that's what turns me psycho. But, I know what you're talking about. I'm thinking I should treat my women like shit because nice isn't working.

[DisturbedMania]

I'm starting to believe that's how people like to be treated, honestly!

[Homicidalheathen]

Don't get so bitter that you let other people change who you are! Stay sweet....these people don't deserve someone so great.

When you just want to bang, a bad boy works great....no emotional attachment...they are assholes so they are good for that. (woman are the same way) but when I wanted to get married I picked just the opposite.......a nice, sweet......down to earth guy who is stable and normal.

He waited 17 yrs to meet me I waited till I was 24. This is the only marriage for me too. We will be together when we are old and grey BECAUSE we are best freinds.

Seriously your a great guy just don't give up.

See, I'm nice and sweet and stuff but the women I tend to meet treat me like shit so that's what turns me psycho.  But, I know what you're talking about.  I'm thinking I should treat my women like shit because nice isn't working.

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