I didn't need to know this..

[Saephyr]

Yup... I like what DV said.

[ManicQueen]

I don't even know how to approach him about this again or what to say. It's all too upsetting to me, I don't wanna deal with it anymore.

[Saephyr]

I don't even know how to approach him about this again or what to say. It's all too upsetting to me, I don't wanna deal with it anymore.

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If you don't confront him...my guess is that you'll be even more upset for a much longer period of time.

[Onyx]

I don't even know how to approach him about this again or what to say. It's all too upsetting to me, I don't wanna deal with it anymore.

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Maybe wait a bit and let some time pass for you to think this over a bit more. It's not a good thing to try to discuss something important when you are upset (Oh man has that gotten me in trouble so many times in the past).

Perhaps a good time would be if you are present when you hear him tell his mother or his daughter "I love you", and ask him about what that means to him when he says it to others, but not to you.

Maybe thinking about that would even help him sort it out himself and be able to share it with you.

[ManicQueen]

Maybe wait a bit and let some time pass for you to think this over a bit more.  It's not a good thing to try to discuss something important when you are upset (Oh man has that gotten me in trouble so many times in the past).

Perhaps a good time would be if you are present when you hear him tell his mother or his daughter "I love you", and ask him about what that means to him when he says it to others, but not to you.

Maybe thinking about that would even help him sort it out himself and be able to share it with you.

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I was thinking about doing that. His mother calls him all the time so I can just wait till he hangs up with her and make a comment about it.

[Fierce Critter]

I was thinking about doing that. His mother calls him all the time so I can just wait till he hangs up with her and make a comment about it.

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I actually recommend against this. It's almost like cornering him - jumping in for the kill when he's vulnerable.

Perhaps it's a good example to bring up to him, though.

I have much sympathy for you. Jon and I had the "do we say the 'L' word too much" discussion very early on in our relationship, 'cause we say it all the time. We'll make each other laugh and part of our laugh response now is to say "I Love You".

But it works for us. It never gets old. It never means "less" because we say it "more".

Best of luck. I think you're very sweet and I hate to see you unhappy this way.

[ManicQueen]

I actually recommend against this. It's almost like cornering him - jumping in for the kill when he's vulnerable.

Perhaps it's a good example to bring up to him, though.

I have much sympathy for you. Jon and I had the "do we say the 'L' word too much" discussion very early on in our relationship, 'cause we say it all the time. We'll make each other laugh and part of our laugh response now is to say "I Love You".

But it works for us. It never gets old. It never means "less" because we say it "more".

Best of luck. I think you're very sweet and I hate to see you unhappy this way.

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I wish we had that problem.. saying it too much. You're lucky!

[Fierce Critter]

I Love you... (hey, if you're not gettin it at home lol)

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Hell, yes! Great idea, Froyn!

I LOVE YOU, BROOKE!!!!!!!!! :grin

[Onyx]

I love you too Brooke!

[ManicQueen]

You guys are awesome! Thanx

[Saephyr]

I thought about you last night when I turned on my radio B. A Dr. was talking to folks about relationships and such. She spoke to a girl who told the Dr that her man gave her the ring but refuses to set a date for the wedding becuz "He needs more time..."

Dr told her very frankly that he's not interested in getting married then. If he can't even commit to a date to close the deal then he never should have given you a ring.

She told her to give him the damn ring back and tell him to get in touch with her when he's truly ready & has no more excuses. I agreed with that.

If he can't say three little words that mean THAT much to you then what else will you have to 'settle' for?

[DarkChylde]

(UH!!!)

Maybe he's just anotha white fool who doesnt know whut he gotz. Ya should leave the foo and go for P, I got some ice-cream for ya cuz im da ice-cream man

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LMAO!!!! :laughing

Sorry, I couldnt help it. Anyways sorry ta hear that poor brookie, we should hang out and drink like the good ol days, maybe that'll cheer ya up

[Saephyr]

yEAH.....get drunk .....at cc ............... who would have thought it?

[ManicQueen]

Yeah, drunk drinking is the cure for everything! :laughing

[Lilith]

Yeah, drunk drinking is the cure for everything!  :laughing

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that might work if he is the emotional type when drunk........ get him drunk and get him talking maybe he might say it when his walls a breached a bit....... i know allot of guys/ gals who relaese so much emotion and thoughts when they are drunk. Of ocurse if he is not an emotional lovey drunk then this wont work. :erm